Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. - Romance (6)

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Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by kilokeys(m): 2:57am On Jan 03, 2015

erhmmm i break all the stated rules here. and me and my girls still love ourselves e-very much..

u want a real gf.. meet d babe in person.
u could show neediness online. but be reserved in person.

aswear.. she would wanna bring out the neediness in u. pry into ur mind, think something is wrong with her, think u dont like her in person.

then she falls, they always do

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by aspirebig: 3:17am On Jan 03, 2015

There is no straight forward way or approach to text a girl . Different individuals have their likes and dislikes. These approaches may work for some group of girls,but it shouldn't be seen as the global best practice in texting or toasting babes or not.
Personally,I know babes,not 1,not2,not 3,that were toast over sms and they agreed when the guy had tried face to face initially they refused. It depends on the guy and the babe involved.
One of the major problem is being monotonous,sending the same line of sms daily,checks your sms,send interesting things,send sms relating to the person values,areas of intrerest,career,trending topics,current affairs,good birthday sms,hobbies,if you are good with graphics,you can be doing a lot too in your spare time with some of her pictutres you have either gotten from her directly or from her dp,work on them,just be creative,do some funny and even educative write ups, etc .The person won't be tired easily,unlike when you just do a normal sms and send. Not the normal 'how was your night' have you eaten and how was your day things daily?
The whole stuff is not cast on stones,no one way rule,just be creative. I see sending many sms as even what can make some people fall,but not everyone.know the person involved first,likes and dislikes etc. Some people like sms chats,some don't. Some people are always on whatsapps,bbm etc. Some are hardly there and will hardly reply you. So it depends.

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Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by Nobody: 4:52am On Jan 03, 2015

Mzjhulz:
D list is already full

how abt brotherzone? lmao..

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by Nobody: 5:14am On Jan 03, 2015

you are 100 percent right

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Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by jahlove4jah: 5:51am On Jan 03, 2015

1one:
Confessing your feelings over text is not always bad, for some people, that's the next best logical thing to do... The consequence of holding out too long may result in the guy/girl being put in one of those C-X(Zones).... Where C=X= any number of titles below B(oyfriend) or G(irlfriend)

The key is to know the personality of the person you're chatting with, be sensitive to their psyche and temperament. An average Melancholic would prefer that you told them how you feel instead of just dragging on and on.

Totally agree with you. INdividuals varies and what works for Miss A may not work for Miss B.

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by Edusouls(m): 6:21am On Jan 03, 2015

wonderful insights on girls, you know most of these things he stated is true, girls are complicated, so you dont have to be so open to them about your feelings and pester her with endless i love you sms's, nice and caring guy sms's..and the fact that nigerian girls are very hard to love...

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:21am On Jan 03, 2015

kellyJames5:
:oChibwike has joined the league of 'top list'

Well.....it's all good.

Lol..i havent oh, this one is nt up to 10 na

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:23am On Jan 03, 2015

kristina1:
Partially true

and partially lie?

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:25am On Jan 03, 2015

Arsenate:
abiding by all these rules results in total lost of spontaneity.
thanks. I'd rather be myself and express my feelings the best way I deem fit.
shiitt ain't a do or die affair

yeah...It aint a do or die affair....buh when u eventually fall in love...it can be

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:25am On Jan 03, 2015

alexis007:
online ethics from a notorious woman wrapper nna mehn.........this year be like say na year of surprise packages.......if i hear say op apply these 'rules for the gods' when mariaeolae dey online

Hian!..who be this one again

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:27am On Jan 03, 2015

ChiSun27:
And if it doesn't.....

well, it did

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:28am On Jan 03, 2015

princeokpara:
W

w for woman wrapper

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:29am On Jan 03, 2015

obainojazz:
I'm not a player but reading this just revealed to me why dem girls love me....nice write up.
.
Guys just follow your heart...peace

thanks

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:30am On Jan 03, 2015

ThaSlimKidd:
I don't see anything wrong in asking for pictures AFTER you've built some rapport but sex chat?! Lool.. that's just childish if u ask me. Go watch *sneezes* if whoever is in d mood...
*Sips ribena*

Lol..na the ribena dey make you sneeze?

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:31am On Jan 03, 2015

Zellie:
[color=crimson]This one is really annoying[/color]

hw many guys have u kicked out..coz of it

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:32am On Jan 03, 2015

carik:
Nice post

thanks

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:34am On Jan 03, 2015

xynerise:
@Op. Don't you think there is a correlation between "giving up so soon" and "not always around"?

they are different tinz

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:35am On Jan 03, 2015

lilmax:
no be only chemistry

na physics.

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:36am On Jan 03, 2015

DJMONACO:
guess d mods r in love
too many romance threads hitting FP nowadays

na bad thing?

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:37am On Jan 03, 2015

JauntyZany:
The nice guy tin and been too available gets me pissed atimes sha

and u friendzone them?

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:39am On Jan 03, 2015

watchindelta:
thank God say I no get girl girlfriend! so nah waiting who nah dey go through be dis.

its fun...get a gf..soon.

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:40am On Jan 03, 2015

Bowaley17:
Is this why Khadijat keeps playing hard 2 get?

Yes

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:42am On Jan 03, 2015

simdam500:
Nairaland with si**lly do's and don't

how is this silly..or are u just being a killjoy

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:44am On Jan 03, 2015

Sacluxpaint:
Why are you now thinking for women if you not a fa.g?

Listen to ur self....i tot gays dont care about women...they only care about guys....so wat exactly is ur point?

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:45am On Jan 03, 2015

chudyboy05:
Go make money come back & girls go dey bow fi you as in worshipping ur door every now & then.

i knew someone would still say this....didn't you see the disclaimer?

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Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:46am On Jan 03, 2015

LongShadow:
Nice guy texts!!(Elaborate)Possible usable texts ?

i did that in the post

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:49am On Jan 03, 2015

boss123:
Rubbish

Lol...abeg no carry ur frustration come my thread

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Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by Tallesty1(m): 6:51am On Jan 03, 2015

chibwike:
Lol...abeg no carry ur frustration come my thread

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by chibwike(op): 6:53am On Jan 03, 2015

Tallesty1:

Lol...modify abeg...dat spelling is wrong

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by EstarKeys(f): 7:08am On Jan 03, 2015

chibwike:
Disclaimer: please those of us with the mentality that all what girls want is money., can stay off this thread. Lets cut them some slack..coz there are some geniune ones among them,.who are caring and loving as they are,.and are not neccesarily after your money. That said

Here are some mistakes guys make when chatting with a girl or texting her.

Confessing your feelings over text.
As a guy, when you have this bottled-up feelings, you want to blurt them out. You feel only if she knew how much,you like her. She will want to be our gf. WRONG..the moment you blurt ur feeling to a girl tru text. You are revealing you hand, and leaving her nothing to work for.

Remember, the less she has to work for you, the more bored she becomes.

Sennding nice guy texts
Do you know why some girls are repulsed, by nice guys. Because the send boring texts. When a girl is continually pulling to read. ''hope your day is going well'', ''have you eaten'', have you had ur bath''. You began to seriously annoy her. These are checking in texts, and they make you appear too needy.

Being too available.
There are few reasons these will kill her attraction towards you. Firstly, it eliminates your mystery, secondly it doesnt give her time to miss you and anticipate hearing from you. She places less value on guys that are easy to catch. Which means if you are always around, she begins to value you less.

Texting your way to the friendzone.
Here is where guys blow it, they think the more they text back and fort with a girl, the more she likes them,well, they are sort of right, she likes them,,.as a friend tho. And we all know friendzoning is real.

Giving up too soon.
Every girl has a lock and getting her turned is just a matter of finding the right key. Most guys give up immediately she plays hard to get.

Happy romantic year.

EXACTLY!

Re: Five Texting Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Girl. by aytuns(m): 7:16am On Jan 03, 2015

Definitely following this on. True talk jare

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