The nice guy tin and been too available gets me pissed atimes sha

faqman:

no wonder why caro left me.....

for Wizkid shey?

I almost agree with all you said save the last!. A mature girl who knows what she wants will not unnecessarily form hard to get.

Most girls especially the young ones do this often and its butt right laughable.

If she gives you continuous monosyllabic responses, just use the delete button sharply.
Imagine having a convo with someone you grew up with on the same street way back, and u happen to hook up on facebook recently..
Boy: Hi xxxxxx
Gal: Xup
Boy: i'm good.
How r u today?
Gal: Am ok,u
Boy: It's really been ages. Hope u remember me, or hav I changed alot?
Gal: Maybe u did change
Boy: really..
tell me just three things u remember about me then
Gal: Hmmmm
Boy: Just hmmmm?
Gal: Yea

Boy:

just did d first one......tho, we'r dating already

JauntyZany:
The nice guy tin and been too available gets me pissed atimes sha

Hello mr nice guy,this is for you.

If a woman loves you or finds you interesting, then all these rules will not matter. Women don't hate attention; they just hate getting attention from men that they are not into. If she is not buying what you are selling, then take your market somewhere else.

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tosyne2much:
Chibwike my main man.. Congrats for hitting FP

It's a good way to start the year

Lol, thanks man....na small tin na...we make fp..when we want to

No wonder Sandra dey behave Lyk dat. she 4 tell me since na say she Don tire 4 my mumu text messages. chaii.

But seriously,some girls overdo the hard to get sh't.
The delete or unfriend button is always available to clear off that madness though....

texted a chiiik who had a crush on me...


texted her seriously about my undying love for her until she came to hate me

chibwike please do kindly explain friendzone to me

thank God say I no get girl girlfriend! so nah waiting who nah dey go through be dis.

faqman:

no wonder why caro left me.....

thank God say I no get girlfriend! so nah waiting who nah dey go through be dis.....

No wonder im still single,,,, kitten sure pass sha, na why I like friend zoning with benefits

Bleep..op if number 1 is right then am back to square ONE WALK OUT OF THREAD TO BOOK A DATE

Is this why Khadijat keeps playing hard 2 get?

Learnt from this long ago,I don't send text to girls like that,was guilty of all in the past,thank God I have jaded myself

EmmGee:
chibwike please do kindly explain friendzone to me

Friendzone is a state where a guy inadvertently becomes a platonic friend to a girl he is attracted to...or he probably loves

No wonder she said we can continue dis

chibwike:
Disclaimer: please those of us with the mentality that all what girls want is money., can stay off this thread. Lets cut them some slack..coz there are some geniune ones among them,.who are caring and loving as they are,.and are not neccesarily after your money. That said

Here are some mistakes guys make when chatting with a girl or texting her.


Confessing your feelings over text.
As a guy, when you have this bottled-up feelings, you want to blurt them out. You feel only if she knew how much,you like her. She will want to be our gf. WRONG..the moment you blurt ur feeling to a girl tru text. You are revealing you hand, and leaving her nothing to work for.


Remember, the less she has to work for you, the more bored she becomes.

Sennding nice guy texts
Do you know why some girls are repulsed, by nice guys. Because the send boring texts. When a girl is continually pulling to read. ''hope your day is going well'', ''have you eaten'', have you had ur bath''. You began to seriously annoy her. These are checking in texts, and they make you appear too needy.

Being too available.
There are few reasons these will kill her attraction towards you. Firstly, it eliminates your mystery, secondly it doesnt give her time to miss you and anticipate hearing from you. She places less value on guys that are easy to catch. Which means if you are always around, she begins to value you less.

Texting your way to the friendzone.
Here is where guys blow it, they think the more they text back and fort with a girl, the more she likes them,well, they are sort of right, she likes them,,.as a friend tho. And we all know friendzoning is real.

Giving up too soon.
Every girl has a lock and getting her turned is just a matter of finding the right key. Most guys give up immediately she plays hard to get.

Happy romantic year.

Op I am surprised you are male, I thought it was a female that wrote this. gay point of view if you ask me

Sacluxpaint:


Op I am surprised you are male, I thought it was a female. That wrote this. gay point of view if you ask me

i dnt understand

I DNT MAKE MISTAKES l, I DATE THEM

Nairaland with si**lly do's and don't

Last last Girl wen go love guy man go luv am, even if he dey do all these things and others worse dan dese...

Ok oo but the texting have been working for that she so much beg that we meet...I think its not about the text but d way u structure ur text.

chibwike:
i dnt understand

Why are you now thinking for women if you not a fa.g?

Ok! I am guilty of No.5 and to me, i don't see it as a mistake...i see it as self esteem. Why should i kill myself over one miserable girl playing hard to get while there are a crowd of women out there? A fisherman who vows to catch a particular specie of fish will stand by the bank of the river all day hungry.