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Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 08, 2015
Benilily:
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. NAIRALANDERS, WISH ME WELL!!
Happy birthday my dear, my God bless and keep you and satisfy the desires of your heart with every good thing. You will live long and see your children's children. It shall be well with you.

Enjoy. cool
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 08, 2015
EUROMOMBER .....

Please, I take God beg you.... remove my mention from the names......it's becoming embarrassing.

I don't visit NL Romance section.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 08, 2015
Every man (including the so-called pastors and imams) get's tempted into 'sampling' sex workers once in a while. Apart from the fact that these ladies are pretty skilled, sexy and demand no commitment of any sort, the useless Wives at home are just too 'ethical' to try out some stuffs like Oral, Anal and many more.

Marriage itself is overrated tho, just saying.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Orikinla(m): 5:04pm On Jan 08, 2015
Benilily:
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. NAIRALANDERS, WISH ME WELL!!
Are you a girl dressed as a guy?

[size=18pt]Happy Birthday handsome![/size]
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2015
cytochromeC:
Lmao cheesy cheesy cheesy
you must be a biochemist cheesy
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2015
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Mclick(m): 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2015
For naija women be on your guard
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 08, 2015
ATOB:
Eventhough I do not agree completely about some of the things you said one thing I am fascinated by is the way your analogy is so graphic yet written in words.

What I do not agree about is that I presume here on my sit that you are chauvinistic and your analogy to me positions women as slaves who need to do all the work to tame their husbands possibly obsession with sex and supposedly save their marriage
+1.

Most of his points was centered around doing everything within your means as a wife to satisfy the husband's sex obsession\fantasies. Which gender doesn't like good sex? which gender doesn't want to be sexually satisfied? This is the reason many married women are sexually frustrated because the focus is more on the man's satisfaction. This is an extremely a selfish point of reasoning in my opinion. Both couple should work together to keep themselves sexually satisfied. Afterall no man will ever justify a married woman sleeping around just because her husband is not satisfying her sexually.

As for single people who patronise prostitutes, I have no business with them. They can do as they please. undecided. Their life, their money, their deek undecided
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 08, 2015
Benilily:
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. NAIRALANDERS, WISH ME WELL!!
You really chosed to put your image on this thread?
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2015
ATOB:
Eventhough I do not agree completely about some of the things you said one thing I am fascinated by is the way your analogy is so graphic yet written in words.

What I do not agree about is that I presume here on my sit that you are chauvinistic and your analogy to me positions women as slaves who need to do all the work to tame their husbands possibly obsession with sex and supposedly save their marriages.

How do you explain when a woman is on period?
How do you explain when she is pregnant?
How do you explain when she is not in the mood?
How do you explain when she is angry (reality)
.
Married women should try as much as they can to gain control over the last two points highlighted above to reduce downtime jor. wink grin
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by AreaFada2: 5:07pm On Jan 08, 2015
remsonik:
Most men chase after prostitutes simply because of their low self worth. No satisfaction a prostitute can give you that your wife can't give you ...Dogs!!!
.

It's more complex than that. I don't think you know more than all those men who patronise.
Funny thing is lots of women who feel they are good in bed are not. Same with men.
So a woman's darling hubby (yes, including hubbys of some NLers) may be red light regulars.

I lived not far from red light zone as a young African student managing in Europe. I could not understand why men with Lamborghini & Ferrari would visit prostitutes.

I later found out it is the lack of complication. Some won't even have sex. They just pay to hug and chat, etc. Many were rich men in unhappy marriages or going thru a messy divorce.

My problem with prostitutes is that I can't swim in a river, where maybe 20 men have been already that day.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by osifred(m): 5:08pm On Jan 08, 2015
Only boys patronise prostitute real men don't.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 08, 2015
ilugunboy:
EUROMOMBER .....

Please, I take God beg you.... remove my mention from the names......it's becoming embarrassing.

I don't visit NL Romance section.
Done.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by teejah03(m): 5:10pm On Jan 08, 2015
I concur
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 08, 2015
Wonderful!!
llouis:
Men love sex; to them its their means of communication, women on the other hand see conversation as their own means of communication (which must be made via words, money, touch, etc before sex), and since such conversation cannot be easily mingled in the heat of sex (in a bid for both parties to reach a compromise and enjoy their means of communication), we have the oldest job in the history of the world never having the risk of going extinct; prostitution.

There are multiple methods to the madness of the OP, his 5 schools of thought arguable, reasonable and truthful.

Prostitution should be frowned at anyways, especially if it is perpetrated by men who have tied the untie-able knot of wedlock. It is left to their wives to be wise and do all they can to keep them from such a vice as whoremongering. In an age where harlots can easily be reached online they need more than ever before to pleasure their husbands in the comfort of the matrimonial bed before someone does their work for them.

Would to God that wives won't just sit back believing the unpopular phrase that "a man chases a woman until she catches him" has taken effect in their marriage. A man once sexually active must continue to receive sexual excitation and stimulation from his wife continously else they will seek for it elsewhere. His sexual cravings are not subject to menopause or hindered by the lack of feeling of wholesomeness women love to feel before they can sleep with their husbands, so a woman's work of constantly guarding her husband from appetizing dick-stractions never ends.

It will be very, very difficult for a man to cheat on his wife if she gives him a good oral before he goes to work and promises him a night he won't forget when he comes back home. I can assure you even if a woman seduces him at work he won't oblige why? Because his mind is already at work, shamelessly fantasizing the various atrocities his one and only love will render to his manhood when he gets back home (not to mention devouring his best food served to him wearing a most seductive outfit)

I'm a married man so do not presume to assume I don't know what I'm talking about.

SELAH
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by 1stola: 5:11pm On Jan 08, 2015
EUROBOMBER:
While I am not in support of prostitution or those that patronise prostitues, I find this survey very interesting. Our married women in the house can you see?? Instead of giving your husband what he is asking for, you make him beg for it and start reminding him of all that needs to be done in the house before you let him into your paradise. grin grin
Rubbish!
Which kain yeye smelly paradisehuh
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Subom1(f): 5:11pm On Jan 08, 2015
abejide1000:
You can't expect us to pay for Brazilian hair, hand bags, Mr Biggs, Transportation fare, shaving stick for p***y and lots more. Ashawo will not collect iPhone 6, that's enough, we're not CBN grin grin
Lol reminds me of a story I read on front page the other day about a prostitute who used to cut mens dicks for rituals before they came. Just be careful it does not happen to you grin grin
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by slap1(m): 5:12pm On Jan 08, 2015
Reason number 2 is funny.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by whitecat2:
That's just some nasty sexx between dogs, great sex is always between lovers. You can't do everything with a girl who has you by number, you can't kiss a prostitute, you can't share any bodily fluid, so where is the real funhuh. An average woman now has an insane freak number that would make any sex worker close shop. Couples should know nothing is off limit behind their closed door.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jan 08, 2015
llouis:
Men love sex; to them its their means of communication, women on the other hand see conversation as their own means of communication (which must be made via words, money, touch, etc before sex), and since such conversation cannot be easily mingled in the heat of sex (in a bid for both parties to reach a compromise and enjoy their means of communication), we have the oldest job in the history of the world never having the risk of going extinct; prostitution.

There are multiple methods to the madness of the OP, his 5 schools of thought arguable, reasonable and truthful.

Prostitution should be frowned at anyways, especially if it is perpetrated by men who have tied the untie-able knot of wedlock. It is left to their wives to be wise and do all they can to keep them from such a vice as whoremongering. In an age where harlots can easily be reached online they need more than ever before to pleasure their husbands in the comfort of the matrimonial bed before someone does their work for them.

Would to God that wives won't just sit back believing the unpopular phrase that "a man chases a woman until she catches him" has taken effect in their marriage. A man once sexually active must continue to receive sexual excitation and stimulation from his wife continously else they will seek for it elsewhere. His sexual cravings are not subject to menopause or hindered by the lack of feeling of wholesomeness women love to feel before they can sleep with their husbands, so a woman's work of constantly guarding her husband from appetizing dick-stractions never ends.

It will be very, very difficult for a man to cheat on his wife if she gives him a good oral before he goes to work and promises him a night he won't forget when he comes back home. I can assure you even if a woman seduces him at work he won't oblige why? Because his mind is already at work, shamelessly fantasizing the various atrocities his one and only love will render to his manhood when he gets back home (not to mention devouring his best food served to him wearing a most seductive outfit)

I'm a married man so do not presume to assume I don't know what I'm talking about.

SELAH
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Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 08, 2015
customized13:
you must be a biochemist cheesy
It takes one to know one grin cool
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 08, 2015
cytochromeC:
It takes one to know one grin cool
yeah, your moniker says it all. cool
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jan 08, 2015
EUROBOMBER:
Done.
u fit remove my name too, they think i am a prostitute cry
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 08, 2015
Benilily:
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY. NAIRALANDERS, WISH ME WELL!!
Please remove your picture from this thread before some shallow-minded people begin to imagine all sorts of rubbish.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jan 08, 2015
cytochromeC:
+1.

Most of his points was centered around doing everything within your means as a wife to satisfy the husband's sex obsession\fantasies. Which gender doesn't like good sex? which gender doesn't want to be sexually satisfied? This is the reason many married women are sexually frustrated because the focus is more on the man's satisfaction. This is an extremely a selfish point of reasoning in my opinion. Both couple should work together to keep themselves sexually satisfied. Afterall no man will ever justify a married woman sleeping around just because her husband is not satisfying her sexually.

As for single people who patronise prostitutes, I have no business with them. They can do as they please. undecided. Their life, their money, their deek undecided
I am glad you also noticed this.
Though the thread was focused on "why men patronize prostitutes", his explanation nose-dived towards female subjugation.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by Dbboy(m): 5:23pm On Jan 08, 2015
[quote author=Cutehector4u post=29606824]Any one who patronises a LovePeddler is just a weak man.... Who lacks self control.... [/quote

Its not about self control for most men its business np strings attached period.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by dayosaurus(m): 5:23pm On Jan 08, 2015
baybiemee:
You really are a crazy fellow.
n u are?
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by elohorayodele: 5:24pm On Jan 08, 2015
llouis:
Men love sex; to them its their means of communication, women on the other hand see conversation as their own means of communication (which must be made via words, money, touch, etc before sex), and since such conversation cannot be easily mingled in the heat of sex (in a bid for both parties to reach a compromise and enjoy their means of communication), we have the oldest job in the history of the world never having the risk of going extinct; prostitution.

There are multiple methods to the madness of the OP, his 5 schools of thought arguable, reasonable and truthful.

Prostitution should be frowned at anyways, especially if it is perpetrated by men who have tied the untie-able knot of wedlock. It is left to their wives to be wise and do all they can to keep them from such a vice as whoremongering. In an age where harlots can easily be reached online they need more than ever before to pleasure their husbands in the comfort of the matrimonial bed before someone does their work for them.

Would to God that wives won't just sit back believing the unpopular phrase that "a man chases a woman until she catches him" has taken effect in their marriage. A man once sexually active must continue to receive sexual excitation and stimulation from his wife continously else they will seek for it elsewhere. His sexual cravings are not subject to menopause or hindered by the lack of feeling of wholesomeness women love to feel before they can sleep with their husbands, so a woman's work of constantly guarding her husband from appetizing dick-stractions never ends.

It will be very, very difficult for a man to cheat on his wife if she gives him a good oral before he goes to work and promises him a night he won't forget when he comes back home. I can assure you even if a woman seduces him at work he won't oblige why? Because his mind is already at work, shamelessly fantasizing the various atrocities his one and only love will render to his manhood when he gets back home (not to mention devouring his best food served to him wearing a most seductive outfit)

I'm a married man so do not presume to assume I don't know what I'm talking about.

SELAH
over correct de worry u.
so fa d husband's carrot stand in d morn she shud suck it and ride it.
when he comes back give him some hot rounds b4 and afta meal. both husb and wife shud make sure the last tin that drains their energy for the day is a couple of hot rounds.
trust me that husband will run from sex offered on a platter outside talkless of sex from ashi
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by KAYD007(m): 5:25pm On Jan 08, 2015
Cutehector4u:
Any one who patronises a LovePeddler is just a weak man.... Who lacks self control....
Did you read the OP?
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by KAYD007(m): 5:26pm On Jan 08, 2015
Cutehector4u:
Any one who patronises a LovePeddler is just a weak man.... Who lacks self control....
Did you read the OP?
A man may decide to patronise a puunani peddler for various reasons of which being weak and lacking self control may not be one of them.
Re: 5 Real Reasons Why Nigerian Men Patronize Prostitutes by clevvermind(m): 5:27pm On Jan 08, 2015
stick to ur wife no matter what. beware of HIV.
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