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Mrsfaithhh:
@op u ar so interested in who's above and who's below.I don't know how that makes u feel.But has it eva ocured to u how it makes d person "below" feel wen u kip lettin dem know they ar below?
D people who won't agree do not do so out of wateva u mite call it...
U tink it is exciting hearing or knowing that "u ar above and she's below".Esp wen u just don't know wat u did wrong to b put in dat position..
I'm sure guys feel fly sayin dey ar above but hear dis from me,wen a woman keeps hearing dat it kinda has a not too good effect on her self esteem.
Women battle wit self esteem a lot.not because they were born wit but because of tins they kip hearing and reading about their gender.u don't hav to kip ringing in a womans head that u ar above her bfor she even respects U.
A good woman honors and respects people normaly.not because u ar above her or wateva.my humble advise

emusmith:
Does a good woman have a low self esteem or why should the fact that the man is the head cause her morale to get under? SMH...To pay fees now, you'll call him to go and be a Man...

onegig:
Another stereotype.

The environment does influence our future actions and the past does sip in sometimes but there are a thousand things that influences someone’s action or inactions.

If you want to base this on choosing a girl. Then you may as well not get married at all except you are looking to marry Female version of Angel Gabriel without a single taint because not a single girl out there who does not have one or two of those listed influences hanging over her head. Go drink to that.

Thinkr:
Upon how woman wrappers plenty for romance section some guys still dey keep the section valid. these points are sooo true. I have a friend who's gf got most of these attributes and even more(very stupid girl sha). I don tell am tire but hin say hin love her . We don even fight because of the matter b4 sef. Now I don leave them alone. Not my business tho

BBackOurGlory:
Is like most ladies are touched with 5,6,& 7... instead of being defensive; it is advisable to start working on how to correct those negative values. You girls should appreciate the guy that did a go research on the topic.

You may not agree with all the points, but pls search yourself, search soul and take to correction

100Cents:
Poster, I agree with you.

If a lady tells her guy stories of how bad her friends are. And she is acting good girl for him. She is definitely a green snake hiding in a green grass.

One girl was telling me how her gf can runz 3 boys living in the same area in one city. I was just digesting the stories. Later my mind went to this saying, " Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are ".. She was acting holy girl covering up with a lot of lies but many things were just not adding up.

Till one day she came to visit me and I wasn't home. She has this bad suspicious habit that when she is coming to visit me, she will switch off her phone and I cannot reach her till she.knocks.on my gate. Claiming low battery.

So I wasnt home and she was now leaving my house, like 4 poles away, she started chatting with one notorious married guy in my area. I came by and passed her because she positioned herself that no one will see her.

Now I remembered her friends script which she told me about. When I confronted her, she was so ashamed and that relationship crashed..

skelefish:
Did I exclude any woman? All women are recalcitrant by nature, constantly competing for headship with their superiors(men).

The earlier women realize they are inferior to men, the better for them.

Ezibless:
Lol

Oya...wake up!!!

Whynotthetruth:
I am more than awake already...Just waiting for you to join me...kindly make it a "YES" bikonu...

NickiRoman:
I Totally Disagree with No. 5,6,and 7,I don't get what you mean by if her mum is fat she probably will be in the future. This Your list doesn't make sense.It's obvious you have no idea what feminism is all about .You sound like a very judgemental person.


Everybody wants to be like Tosyne2much.

emusmith:

emusmith:

Whynotthetruth:





Bro...love your submissions here...keep it coming always. But also, plead with Ezibless to hasten up and join me; since she has chosen you as our counsellor.##letsmakeitreal##

Whynotthetruth:





Bro...love your submissions here...keep it coming always. But also, plead with Ezibless to hasten up and join me; since she has chosen you as our counsellor.##letsmakeitreal##

emusmith:
I'll beep her now...Lol...

emusmith:
Body pains, head ache, loss of appetite are all SIGNS of malaria but does tgat mean you'll eventually be down with malaria?

jboy73:
- Her beauty appears only when she applies makeups.
Lol, no doubt makeups and extra toning Transforms ugly girls to beautiful girls overnight.
... But I bet u, a girl that relies on makeups, will surely become a Pain in the asss every morning when those makeups haven't being applied.


- She's as Lazy As... Yet u still wooed her.

U wooed her because you think when she comes into your life, or eventually marry you... She'd become smart and look for ways to earn a living and support your household.
..only for u to find out that she's one hell of a Television addict, Social media addict... She sits on the Living room chair all day doing nothing.


- You know she can't boil water, yet ur cockk still insist you marry her for him.. And u concur.

You wooed her thinking she'd learn the art of cooking in your household
Only for you to find out 3months later that she's one chronic mama poot customer.
She isn't ready to learn or near your stove.


- She's as huge As.
You wooed her because of her trailer hips and over ripe water melon bossoms..... Only for u to get frustrated in the later future because those huge sexy curvey hips have transformed to empire of stretch marks and the bossoms transformed to bathroom slippers.
Size 60..

skelefish:
My dear I don't believe this, it's the other way round, men often suffer in the hands of their wife, or do u have a shred of evidence to buttress & authenticate your point? If no,then your comment is baseless. One more mention devoid of proof might result in a fine of 150MB for me.

emusmith:
I'll beep her now...Lol...

emusmith:
As I type this, I dedicate it to all those who are literally "enduring" their spouse. *tears in my eyes for them*

DISCLAIMER: I do not mean that men aren't also a pain in the neck, but for now I'm specializing on this angle! Don't start to misquote me, abeg!

Marriage is a forever agreement to love and enjoy one another and not to barely manage and endure one another.

It's appalling that is the case of some men. Why? They were blind to little
signs that I'll be listing now.

Some guys are in haste to get married this year, which is good, but WATCH OUT FOR THESE EARLY and TODAY SIGNS that if not heeded to may cost you your peace, joy, dream and above all, your destiny. If your destiny really matters to you at all, you need to read this...
It is the little foxes that eats up the vine....


What Are The Today Signs To Watch Out For To Avoid Regrets Of Tomorrow?

( Remember, some married men are wishing they're still single)


1. Her vocabulary is full of abusive statements.

Guys, don't be blindfolded by her grammar. See beyond that! A woman that will "abuse" the husband tomorrow starts today. You're with her and she "playfully" call her friends over the phone "olosho", "stewpid girl", "F- Word"- Relax, she'll use that on you one day when she's off guard. Unless, you're okay with that, No Problem!



2. Her friends are the "bad" type and she forms the "good" girl before you.


She tells you her friends smokes, drinks and are even lezb but she isn't! Iffa hear! She is or about to be! If her friends are that, she is part of them. Marry her today, tomorrow her friends whom she listens to will set her against you- in critical decisions. Be careful! Friends MAKE or MAR you, they don't leave you the same! Your bae isn't excluded!



3. She hasn't bought you anything "sensible" since dating her.

I don't believe all ladies are stingy. Some are cheerful givers! It is in them. If you are dating a girl who hasn't given anything "sensible" to you, it's not that you want the gift! No! It's that she's not the giving type which may affect her relationship with you and your family later. It's not in the size but in the willingness to doing it.
At least, she should not be selfish- thinking about only herself.



4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.


If you have a girl who hasn't bothered to see your siblings or parents, Bro, watch out! If a girl loves you, she would want to see your siblings (experience speaking)- It will be normal!
Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...



5. She has to end every argument.

Ladies talk, I know. But nor be every time you go dey end argument na...I have a colleague like that who flashes green light to me but argues like anything... I don't argue with her... I watch her argue with other colleagues. How can she not know how to guard her tongue even in the presence of one she is crushing on? hmmm



6. She doesn't believe that a woman must necessarily submit to the man.


This topic, feminist don't want to hear. But, I must say it. In the pecking order of authority, the man is above her, even though they're friends. ... He is the Man! If your girl doesn't like to hear this, but keeps saying, we are equal! Haba! Even lioness knows it needs a Lion! They walk side by side but he is on top. Even, you, lady, in your heart, wants him to be the Man o! If she believes otherwise, guy, tread softly!



7. Her mum is a pain in her dad's neck. (It varies)

It varies greatly but an Old Wise man once said, "If you live long enough, you would watch history repeat itself; girls grow up to become just like their mothers, vice versa..."

If her mum nags her dad, there is 75% chance that she will nag you when you marry her, while 85% chance she is currently nagging you right now in that relationship.
If her mum is OROBO, , and she is the first or so, the probability of her becoming like her is 90%.



I'm not a "basher" of ladies, as maligned... I speak the truth.

I stand to be corrected, mind you.

Most of my threads are coined from deep research and experiences from others, books, myself etc.

Enjoy your reading

Cheers.

Mrsfaithhh:

@Enusmith please read my post and make bold d part dat I said "d husband is not d head".
I choose to call u enusmith because u talk too much,way too much for a "wise man" u claim to b.
My point;
Its just like a man is broke and d wife keeps feeding him from her pocket.okay we know.but d woman won't fail to stamp It on her forehead and she keeps telling him or whoeva cares to know "u know Im am d one feeding u and u ar broke my dear
Wat she has said is True.It mite make her feel good.but I don't nid to tell u dat d "feeling" is not same on d oda side.
If u did Sociology in school,u shud know dat every human(both male and female)likes power.nobody wants to b d 2nd.I'm just sayin stop blabbing and telling us dat "she is below u" as if its one compliment to women.
Just b d head.
And because u are paying school fees now means dat u know wat headship in marriage means? Very funny

Ezibless:
Make kini real?

When you haven't taken me out on @least a DATE?


You've got a loooooong way to go Mr.

you ma come dey put mouth abi?
Make i cash you 1st

onegig:
Would you read what you just type out loud?

emusmith:
Nobody will do that...

REMMEI:
enuAGBEDE. . . You just nailed all these defensive garrulous ladies to nairaTREE.. Check out how they've been blabbing since yet they all never arrived at a conclusion..what happened to taking heed and correcting their faulty deeds..

Tiffarah:
Dnt get me wrong, am not saying its only women who suffer in marriage... It's a two way thing... Some men go through hell in marriages so do women.;am not taking sides here... All am saying is, there're still a few good women and men likewise out there. It pains me when peeps just generalise just bcause of one or two experiences from either gender... My opinion tho

Sehindemi:
U're 70% correct..

#thumbzup