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Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

Don't mind d dude make he dey here dey form Mr principality.....

Op u Bleep up big tym ..You can't cover for your pal just for 5 hrs

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

apart from this post really is everthing ok with you? cos you seem really upset oh....

It's totally wrong, not only from the Christian angle.

capital roung

@Mr OP,....so u broke a bro code intentionally and ure now feeling guilty abi?...its too late for that now,that bitch karma doesn't care if ure sorry or not...just reach out to d bro u hurt and patch things up but expect payback anytime

mcdreeezy:
OP, you did absolutely nothing wrong. If I were u, I wouldn't even come to NL to ask for people's opinion because I know what I stand for. I would have done the same thing you did too, it's not as if one is claiming "holier than thou" as NLs would say, but different people have their various principles. Guy code or no guy code, if I don't see it to be reasonable, I won't join the majority of guys to do anything in the name of "guy code". If something like this can cause a big rift between u guys, then you shouldn't probably be friends in the first place bcuz your principles differ. He should go and roll with guys that can leave their apartment for him to bring girls to and have fun. You did nothing wrong bro

PS: This doesn't in any way mean I am claiming "holier than thou", I can bang girls as I like and even become a womanizer if I want. But I don't have to disturb or inconvenience others with it. Whether "guy code or no guy code", there are things that a person can not just do, take it or leave it.

Well said.

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

You did absolutely well. He should go to hotel. Last year, one of my friends wanted to do this shitt too in my apartment but I refused. Guys should be good and responsible because it's immoral.

see F up.

Na wa fr u ops o...5 hours na u no fit spare ur guy fr ur house,u no try at all.

Not fair remember sometimes ago i allow my friend to make use of my house, on a particular day when doing lil cleaning saw t-papers under my mattress with blud.
Don't think is good to me

Your house. your Life. Your rules. Guys do that all the time. Doesn't mean you should do that. But here is what you should try to do next time. ..

Your friend tells you He wants to bang in your house. Tell him that your sister or elder brother is visiting so no chance. Or that your own girlfriend is around and would stay for days. Don't just say no blatantly unless the guy isn't a close friend.

Point is. .. While it's brave and manly to say no to people, consider ways to say no to close friends without hurting their feelings.

lol... I reserve my comment!

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

my guy u acted very very very wela forget about him dnt even go and see him, he should be the one to come ur place chai, dnt try it

I used to allow frndz way bak,rememba dis frnd dat I allowd oness n he turnd it 2 a habit somtyms wakin me up in d middle of d nite 2 crash wt his babe.U did d ryte tin cos som guys will turn it 2 a habit at ur incoveniens.no be. Say I holy pass,I only bleep grls in frndz houz wen am out of town visitin,I dnt even feel comftable doin it,was even tinkin of doin hotels next tym I vsit.

If we are good friends,i see no reason why i cant allow him...He can come with a million girls sef,na hn wahala be that,I will stil allow him..

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Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

If the girl he is cheating on is your sister, would you give him the keys to sleep with another girl? If the answer is yes, maybe u might be right, maybe he broke the 'guy code '.

Delete his number from your phone and stop thinking about him. He was never a friend. He is up for his own selfish agenda only.

What you did ws right. I myself hate pple who take their gfs or side chicks to frnds house just to get them laid. I once allowed a friend of mine to use my room for the same purpose but had to stop him after then. I cnt inconvenience myself and secondly if anything bad happens na the owner of the room or house them go hold.

Hazardd:
since you have taken your action.

What do you want us to do

The thing tire me self o

Na urself u Bleep, no be ur pal

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

G.B.A.M!!!

Bro u bleeped up...dnt let any1 cum here and tell u, dat u did d right tin...accept dis person isn't ur frnd..if he is den u jus acted lyk a real JEW...itz notin..we guyz do it all d tym

man this na guys thing,if na ur main man u Bleep up

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

If you are going to hell, let it be for your own sins and not another's, stick to your principle. Evil does not depart from those that nurture it.

Mehn, U Bleep up nor be small.


I once lived very close to my GF. Then one babe kon dey follow me play kalo-kalo.

So, one day she promised to visit. I dear not take her to my house cos of my babe. I called a friend who hid his key for me. He left his house that day till 10pm. It rained heavily that evening making the experience warmer and more colourful

It pained me that I had to make him stay away from his home that late.....When I told him I am sorry, he said "don't worry Mahn, what are friends for?". Truly, what are friends for if not for watching each other's back?

OP, u even know say u Bleep up nai make u dey call am....go beg that guy oooo.

Modified: Seun, I said F**K up not bleep up.

i think you did right.
what if you allowed him, and one of them passes out or dies while doing the deed, and the other leaves your house with the mess that has been created without telling you. we hear of stories like this often. if the cops come around, they no go hear strorryy o.

Hazardd:
since you have taken your action.

What do you want us to do

Gbam!!

They now know you live alone, and not only that, they also know your house is comfortable to bed a lady. In summary, you are a comfortable and principled guy (In their minds, Husband material). They will send their PMs.

Please include your address too, OP.

Since he's got his own private place, that's where his wrong. But since u say hos your frd, u would hv allowed him n probably corrected him afterwards. By d way, if d girl his bringing isn't yours and u not eyeing d girl, Watin com concern u what he does with her?

I FIND IT WEIRD TO GIVE MY FRIEND ACCESS TO MY HOUSE JUST TO VE HIS WAY WITH HIS GIRL,A COUPLE OF MI FRIENDS TRIED BUT I ALWAYS TURN THEM DOWN.

Yu did wrong man

Bro u jonse..dnt let any1 cum here and tell u, dat u did d right tin...accept dis person isn't ur frnd..if he is den u jus acted lyk a real JEW...itz notin..we guyz do it all d tym