InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

chynes:

Did you also see where the OP said the main girl has been with the friend fir more thsn 2 years? Means he knows the main girl well ans probably calls and regard her as a sister. So how can he happily go to the friend's house after aiding and abetting such and act like nothing happened while she serves him food and treats him like family?
The OP has a conscience. Simple.

This is simply something you ladies will not understand

There are guys that have girlfriends of four years but still bring their side chicks to their friends house to do stuff.

It's bad,,no doubt but it happens.

I'm not surprised at all that ladies are supporting the guy.

But the Op feels guilty that is why he created this thread.

naijaboiy:

Yea we are saying the same thing here.

That is why I said I don't think they are really close friends like he stated. Because true friends know what each other like and don't like. They know the limits.

If my friends wants to use my room,,they know that they must clean it up just like the way it was and they can't use it at a time when i'm inconvenient. If you can't follow my simple principle,,then don't bother to ask for my keys in the first place.

naijaboiy:

Ok then...well you said before that you don't have such friends who would ask for your room. so let me believe you won't even have to act like that in the first place.

But we don't know if you've got friends who cheat and if you do I don't think your best action will be to go about telling their wives/girl friends,,no matter how you detest it.

30secs:
Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

clevvermind:
stop talking like a child. Why should i allow my friend to cheat on the girlfriend he has been with for over two years now in my house? Does it make sense?
And do you know what will happen if i leave my house for them? What if the babe is a thief? Please, i dnt take such risk.

I can always get him back.

enomakos:
hahaha i love ur style

Ekaka1:


So let the irresponsible fellow go. That is one bad influence down in 2015.
Which kind rubbish smelly code be dat.

Op no even go explain nothing. If e bring nonsense leg for the matter just tell am say you big pass that level and he will find His "Square root"

naijaboiy:

This is simply something you ladies will not understand

There are guys that have girlfriends of four years but still bring their side chicks to their friends house to do stuff.

It's bad,,no doubt but it happens.

I'm not surprised at all that ladies are supporting the guy.

But the Op feels guilty that is why he created this thread.

SAMBARRY:
Ok so your point is you can allow a cheat fornicate in your room as long as they clean it up


so if I leave my house keys for your girl friend so that she and her side boyfriend come to fornicate inside my house and I say clean my house after use. Shey you will not come and be venting that I allowed your girlfriend when I know she's dating

soulglo:


What is sad is that you truly believe that this is normal for most guys. This is normal for you and the guys in your circle. There are guys who see this behavior as animalistic. It is not a woman thing to find it disgusting that you call your friends to bring a vagina to their house to sleep with. That is gutter water behavior. You should be ashamed and not slapping yourself in the back because you just found a corner to screw a vagina. You and your ilk behave just like every neighborhood dog that escapes from the confines of it's home. Find a female dog and an available corner. Gross. Seriously, what happened to shame?

This one is just angry

Abeg vent your frustration elsewhere

soulglo:


What is sad is that you truly believe that this is normal for most guys. This is normal for you and the guys in your circle. There are guys who see this behavior as animalistic. It is not a woman thing to find it disgusting that you call your friends to bring a vagina to their house to sleep with. That is gutter water behavior. You should be ashamed and not slapping yourself in the back because you just found a corner to screw a vagina. You and your ilk behave just like every neighborhood dog that escapes from the confines of it's home. Find a female dog and an available corner. Gross. Seriously, what happened to shame?

InZA:


Quite frankly as long as it doesn't involve me participating or aiding his infidelity, then it's none of my business (even though there's a caveat here and I would crystallize this caveat using my friends and I as examples ) . If I go around consciously looking up for cheating friends just to "snitch" on them,now that would make me plain silly, and silliness is far from what I represent.

I have 2 best friends and we hold ourselves to such a high degree of accountability, it's not something you may understand because this shared accountability is rooted in our beliefs, beliefs that are coloured by principles from the good book . If my friend is cheating on his girl, he ACTUALLY expects me to talk sense into him and part of this sense-talking, if the cheating becomes too intense is for me to call his girlfriend and tell her. That's the kind of accountability we share as friends.


As I said earlier, I don't expect you to understand or relate to this concept really, because it's very unconventional. But that's just how it is for us.

Linqsz:
A friend in need is a friend in deed.

Op...you broke the BRO CODE
you let a nigga down


At least we all can understand that our friends can break our heart. Just like dis OP has done.

naijaboiy:
Lol,,you are trying to put words in my mouth.

But last I checked it's none of my business.
If my friend is cheating and I don't feel comfortable with it I tell him and that's where it will end. It is his decision to stop or continue. It will not stop us from being friends.

If the girl friend eventually finds out then that's left for him to face.

Nutase:
summary, chicks go say u do well and guys go say u f up.
Next topic.

I didn't even see this

I come dey waste my time on top argument.

Well as for me Op fùcked up sha!

naijaboiy:

This one is just angry

Abeg vent your frustration elsewhere

naijaboiy:

This one is just angry

Abeg vent your frustration elsewhere

SAMBARRY:
You're an adult. Not a kid or an slowpoke. There's no way I can manipulate you into saying what you don't want to say but be that as it may if you claim you love your friend and you have his interest at heart tell him meanwhile hiv, sti and stds are not far from people of his kind. Awon waka waka men . Every hole he sees must be entered till he enters one that he won't come out again

Ok I don hear

But mind you I never said my friends cheat.

I mean my real close friends that I can help out any time.

Except of course I know nothing of it.

naijaboiy:

I didn't even see this

I come dey waste my time on top argument.

Well as for me Op fùcked up sha!

soulglo:


You're right. Nigerian men like you irritate me. The nice ones do not talk and it's the ones like you that fill the Internet with your filth. Nigerian men have a reputation of being dogs both in Nigeria and overseas and it's exactly because of people like you. You have no self respect.

SAMBARRY:
errm

Why am I now the one getting all these lectures

I don die today

naijaboiy:

Ok I don hear

But mind you I never said my friends cheat.

I mean my real close friends that I can help out any time.

Except of course I know nothing of it.

SAMBARRY:
I don't have a problem with sharing public pussy as long as your girlfriend is as generous with her pussy as you're with your dheek



after all there's no gender that doesn't know how to cheat and cover his or her tracks

Yes she will share it benevolently

I don hear.

naijaboiy:


Why am I now the one getting all these lectures

I don die today

naijaboiy:

Yes she will share it benevolently

I don hear.

sexyseun:
Acidtalk or wateva u call ur rotten name, why pick on me? Were u blind to see the place were i said i am not supporting his friend's action nor his? Do u think girls don't knw dey are being taken to a friend's place for a "reason"? Listen very well, i grew up in d midst of 5 men so i know all una stuffs.
And if u claim am a guy den come ova and suck ma d*ck

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!