My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post

Let's get to business

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses.

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

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Written By : Tosyne2much

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#RESPECT to my virgin fiancee..if u are reading dis now u are my world

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Taah! Forget all that. It's either she's not Hot, or you're repulsive.

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Oga... u no dey tire?

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nawa o!
same way its sometimes hard to get money 4rm d guys.
d only thing is dat it took guys a lnger time to wisen up

dnt even think of quoting me typing shiii coz im ready

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2SWT:
Nice write up

but how did you become a specialist in women affairs ?

Funny enough, most of these things are true.. Tosyne oya come and defend yourself

Why do you know so much about ladies ?

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So,



Ladies still makes it difficult to get under their pants

Where I being dey all this while......not to have known this

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Some are scared because you might find out the series of abortion they have done

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