make sure youre not always alone in your room loneliness could cause wat youre experiencing u can invite your female friend over or youll go to their house.and make sure u avoid tinking abt sex or watchn romantic films.watch lot of horror and comedy movies

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

U feel guilty to mastur.bate but no guilt to fornicate.
l don't understand.

hahn:


We sell Vibrators. Pm me

Pls how does it work ? Can it be as pleasurable as the real thing ?

Must u ave sex b4 marriage, wen u ar nt married u ar thinking of stil having sex, wat if in d process a baby is conceived n d guy denies d pregnancy, wat wil u do, prevention is beta dan cure cos to cure dat pregnancy wil lead to death, so abstain.

ohaleoghene:



no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

sorry for you,i live abroad and i know how it goes,don't be deceived with blind love

If you r thinking self service is a sin, how about sex before marriage? You better enjoy yourself and dont let anyone deceive you..

konji na bastard...

Flautist:
If they talk bout sex like dis, you think is a big deal, not knowing is way too overated

Thank you jare

By the year 2020, most relationships may not last a week and the institution called marriage may become a long forgotten ideal. The cause? We will all just love sex and nothing more!...

Yawns........

ohaleoghene:



I usually feel like killing myself after self service. it affects my morning prayers... shy... I told him I self service he didn't take it well.

Then fornication is never a sin right?

do it via skype...the fun is unending

Self servicing safe and healthy

RedBenson:


Buhari must hear this.

say wetin happen?

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Self service is your only option, no shame in it, it's your body. Tell your bf, to buy u a bullet vibrator, it's the. Truth.

As u would be joining him soon just like u said u cud still wait it out

fuckerholic:

Pls how does it work ? Can it be as pleasurable as the real thing ?

Yep. It uses a battery and has the real feel of a Dick. Its 7inches in length and costs 7k

A guy that has sex with u 2 to 3 times a week (before marriage)! and u tell me he's faithful over there! lol...

kelvin100:


Anyone that tells you you can stay without sex is not honest with you.
There's how long you can stay without sex before the urge overpowers you.

Once you start having sex, then you can't stop.

I can guarantee you that he has a gf abroad .

This is a lie. He may have a gf, who knows but the rest is a lie.

People with such mentality are the ones who have no self control and would ra.pe anything, goat, child or even a mad woman.

Control yourself!

VAL wanted for valentine flings.
Interested gals should ping BBM 747541B7 .

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....





God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

LOOOOOLLL>>>> BADDDTTTT BOYYYYY

ohaleoghene:



I'm joining him this year

Tough times don't last.

You have won already....but watch and pray, when you think you're standing, that's when a fall could be very imminent...keep your fingers crossed and endure the remaining days or months before you join him. Get busy, try to create something from scratch, whether it will profit you or not. Find a new schedule, like visiting prisoners or motherless babies and bringing them goodies every weekend. After your first visit, you'll be so inspired that you'll look forward to another visit...that can driveway the sex urge for as long as you do it until you join your fiancé.
Goodluck!

JoeCutie:
I guess your man is also somewhere abroad, thinking the same way as you? Lmao.

Well, since you're here thinking of having sex with him, and he's also probably thinking of having sex with you too, it does mean that you guys are already having the sex...in your mind. Even the Bible says that if you think of doing it in your mind, you've already done it. Abi my own Bible different?

Op, I swear to God, that's not what I wanted to say. I only came here to ask you ONE question:
Please, who's the guy that has taken over your guy's place? Is he a 9incher? Is he sweet? Does he do it like your man, or even better? OK, I said ONE question.

See ehn, even from your post, I've already noticed that you indulge in, and enjoy sex more than many of us here. Of course, you're a Nairalander, you've got to create your own avenue of seeking attention. So it's okay, we understand you.

You can go ahead and cheat on him all you want, nothing dey happen. After all, it's mutual. Or you no know? My guy dey there dey do his own thing while his babe dey here dey hustle her own kwa. Ideal couple. The hustle is real.

Abeg go back to the bed and continue doing your thing with your lucky (other) guy. But ensure you use protection oh, cos na there the wahala go come. Enjoy, nothing do you. Sharp Naija babe.

My thoughts exactly

ohaleoghene:



no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

Ladies like you OP should be commended please as someone said it's a thing of the mind occupy your mind with other stuffs and neither self service nor sex would cross your mind.. Being loyal is not an easy task

RedBenson:


So make person avoid all these stuffs because him/she wan shift away sexual urge? Something that even with all the above mentioned is not possible?

its nature , and is not easy .
keep self control ....
keep your self busy with something all the time
do not have time for your self...

Sign up for 18hrs community service daily and you'll be too tired to even remember the word "sex" let alone think of it.

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

Guilt kills you for 'self service', but nothing kills you for fornicating thrice a week.

onila:
I just bounce on it

hehehehehehehehe, when you start doing the real thing, you'll know that bouncing on pillow is not just it.

The same problem is affecting us, my fiancee had travelled four years ago,the solution is that
u contact me so that we can be praying together.

dmola:

Queues behind U̶̲̥̅̊ we all here to learn.....

thank God

at least someone understands me

danielmichael:

Self service?

learn how to self service?

come on read the post over again you will see there is no such thing there.