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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by StunnazJay(m): 10:00am On Feb 18, 2015

Yeah, enough said. Let us also remember that man is a creature of habit, many problems in relationships can be attributed to habits.

Because when something is done repeatedly, it sets itself up on the way to becoming a habit e.g: Apologizing whether you are right or wrong.

Some folks find it hard to apologize, even when their mistakes stares them straight in the face, that can be construed as a habit. And a whole lot of examples I don't have the time to delve into right now.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by freecocoa(f): 10:03am On Feb 18, 2015

I agree, except to saying sorry always, especially whenever he's in the wrong.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by freecocoa(f): 10:11am On Feb 18, 2015

Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

You are right too but I don't necessarily think these points only apply to dead relationships which one wants to resurrect, some people in relationships still love themselves but maybe encountering difficulties, these set of people are the ones who should apply some of these points.

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Kingsasian(m): 10:13am On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:
NB: This thread is by no means referring to Friendship With Benefits ( FWB ).

Don't comment from that angle.

I'm referring to relationship with marriage in view.
Is that how you breakup easily? Well, it can be curbed by some changes in your character, which I offer you.

If it doesn't go well with you, ignore

Ignore abeg. The weather is hot already..

hahahahahahaha, I can feel the pains of guys here ooo. Abeg no hurt them the more becos the weather too hot.lol

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Kingsasian(m): 10:16am On Feb 18, 2015

zick19:

@emusmith, can u see her reply i swear if itz not bcoz of u, i would av broken bottle on her head oooo.... jez help me talk to her b4 i do d unexpected

oga na wetin dey ur signature dey control u so o....too much weed.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Kingsasian(m): 10:18am On Feb 18, 2015

neutrotoba:
when u grow up, bcome a pastor, yhu av d talent of twisting pples words to suit ur purpose... Datz if u eva grow up tho

CHOI!!! oga, all these venom on just one person? He isn't the cause of ur problem na......

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Dwady(m): 10:21am On Feb 18, 2015

Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

He gave his point. if you're not ok with it, keep it to yourself or create a thread of yours. To each his own.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:27am On Feb 18, 2015

VICTORIA91:
Timely post,let me quickly drop my ego n call my baby boo to break the silence. Nice one Op

I'm glad I could help... grin

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:29am On Feb 18, 2015

bellychiz:

I like I like!

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:31am On Feb 18, 2015

StunnazJay:
Yeah, enough said. Let us also remember that man is a creature of habit, many problems in relationships can be attributed to habits.

Because when something is done repeatedly, it sets itself up on the way to becoming a habit e.g: Apologizing whether you are right or wrong.

Some folks find it hard to apologize, even when their mistakes stares them straight in the face, that can be construed as a habit. And a whole lot of examples I don't have the time to delve into right now.

You're tryna say, You don't apologize or it's okay not to?

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 18, 2015

freecocoa:
I agree, except to saying sorry always, especially whenever he's in the wrong.

Yea...There's nothing really wrong with apologizing even when you're right, you know? wink

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by watchindelta(m): 10:32am On Feb 18, 2015

Uhmm girls want u to dey beg dem like children aba. In fact am tired of dis ppl kiss

if not for my prick waiting concerned me n dem cool

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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by freecocoa(f): 10:37am On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:

Yea...There's nothing really wrong with apologizing even when you're right, you know?

There's something really wrong with that.

I will not apologize when I did nothing wrong, except in a situation where my actions hurt someone in my bid to do the right thing.

But to apologize to someone who did wrong and knows it, may the gods forbid it, the best I can do is, move on without expecting an apology from the person.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 18, 2015

freecocoa:
There's something really wrong with that.

I will not apologize when I did nothing wrong, except in a situation where my actions hurt someone in my bid to do the right thing.

But to apologize to someone who did wrong and knows it, may the gods forbid it, the best I can do is, move on without expecting an apology from the person.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:40am On Feb 18, 2015

watchindelta:
Uhmm girls want u to dey beg dem like children aba. In fact am tired of dis ppl if not for my prick waiting concerned me n dem [img][/img]

Lol...Just for it alone?

There are many other uses of a woman naw? cheesy

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:44am On Feb 18, 2015

Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

Guy, the OP was making valid points. If you are married or in a relationship with someone you plan to get married to, then you will know that the points he made are very essential for the sustenance of your relationship.

You said, " The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on." Is that not the summary of the OP's point? Everything he listed is all about doing everything you can to make it work, especially in marriage where there is no going back.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:53am On Feb 18, 2015

ILIDEFI:

Guy, the OP was making valid points. If you are married or in a relationship with someone you plan to get married to, then you will know that the points he made are very essential for the sustenance of your relationship.

You said, " The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on." Is that not the summary of the OP's point? Everything he listed is all about doing everything you can to make it work, especially in marriage where there is no going back.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Rajjah(f): 11:04am On Feb 18, 2015

Guys dont break my hart, I break theirs

knew dis tay tay sha. cool

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Rajjah(f): 11:11am On Feb 18, 2015

freecocoa:
There's something really wrong with that.

I will not apologize when I did nothing wrong, except in a situation where my actions hurt someone in my bid to do the right thing.

But to apologize to someone who did wrong and knows it, may the gods forbid it, the best I can do is, move on without expecting an apology from the person.

u re one bad nigga. funny signature cheesy

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 11:17am On Feb 18, 2015

Rajjah:
Guys dont break my hart, I break theirs

knew dis tay tay sha.

Really?

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Rajjah(f): 11:24am On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:

Really?

yup. can swear it

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 18, 2015

Rajjah:
yup. can swear it

How many hearts have you broken this year? cool

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Rajjah(f): 11:35am On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:

How many hearts have you broken this year?

nah...settld wit one for three yrs nw. Broke alot bfre finally meetin my darlin. cant evn count. some came n i ad no feelins 4 em yl I drov som away cos d feelings died.....

M a good girl o...

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by FredHandsome(m): 11:36am On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:

To?

Robot, I guess

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by r33d(m): 11:45am On Feb 18, 2015

Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

I agree and will quickly add that, a good relationship is built on the sacrifices that the parties make. You cannot have it your way all the time and it may not be all rosy all the time but, with mutual understanding, everything will go on smoothly.

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by FredHandsome(m): 12:07pm On Feb 18, 2015

When a nigggar or a chic is fed up with ya, Ur 'peace offerings' ain't worth shi.t no more and can't move no mountains! If you keep begging for his/her love, and she/he accepts u, u are gonna beg to keep that love. Summarily, run when shi.t ain't working no more!

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mathematical(f): 12:08pm On Feb 18, 2015

oga emusmith..you'll need instant deliverance if your marriage doesn't last a decade cox yu seems to understand much about this..nice one..

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 12:15pm On Feb 18, 2015

mirexxx:
tried all the tips and it didn't work

#kidding#

d dumdass ops aim na frontpage,none of dose tips go work 4 naija girls n boys....i cn bet my relationship on dat

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 12:17pm On Feb 18, 2015

Blackett:
This thread confirms you are a baby, and that you haven't been in a relationship.

Now listen.

In life, not everything happens as planned. What will be will be. If a man or woman is fed up of a relationship, they are fed up. They may only remain out of pity. If you like, make these points 20, a girl that has fallen in love with someone else will break up with you. Personal happiness comes before anyone else, yes, even whoever it is that you are in a relationship with. If I'm not happy in a relationship, you cannot be happy. If a lady is not happy and is tired of a relationship, give her all the money in the world, tell her everything you want to, she will leave.

Life is not a one way street where you think these _stupid points can correct everything or anything. The key to relationships is doing all you can, while accepting that in life, plans can change and you have to adjust and move on. . . Only kids use the words "magic words". Magic words simply do not exist. What works for one person doesn't work for the other.

When a person decides they no longer need you in their life, let them be. If it was meant to be, it'll be.

Getting tired of these dumbass lists.

i wonder how such a clueless post made fp..i knw d pst wld b senceless wen i didnt lalastica....on d ops name

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by mirexxx(f): 12:17pm On Feb 18, 2015

Smartestelvis:
d dumdass ops aim na frontpage,none of dose tips go work 4 naija girls n boys....i cn bet my relationship on dat

Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 12:20pm On Feb 18, 2015

emusmith:

Yea.

I learnt something some time ago: If you expect to be disappointed, you will never be disappointed. .

den u r bein paranoid 2 fink like dat...

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