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GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 8:35am On Feb 20, 2015
hello gentlemen I know most of us have suffered one heartbreak or the other, I want to know how you handled it and how long it takes. I have some clues I extracted from my pals.


¤ become an alchoholic to forget her
¤ visit the brothel
¤ cry all night
¤ and lastly be a playboy to other girls

MATURE RESPONSE only
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by donfemo(m): 8:42am On Feb 20, 2015
What a friend you have in Jesus, just give him a try. I assure you everlasting joy.

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:44am On Feb 20, 2015
None of the above.

Just channel your energy to other things. Get busy. Never allow yourself time to think about her. Play sad songs, they actually make you strong. Write down all the things you hate about her and read it to yourself everytime.

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 8:44am On Feb 20, 2015
donfemo:
What a friend you have in Jesus, just give him a try. I assure you everlasting joy.
clergyman there is no SIN committed here.......go in PEACE!

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 20, 2015
donfemo:
What a friend you have in Jesus, just give him a try. I assure you everlasting joy.
If you had Jesus, why bother with a relationship in the first place?
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Dubemkelly(m): 8:47am On Feb 20, 2015
As a sharp guy, girl no fit tell me BYE BYE
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 8:48am On Feb 20, 2015
Blackett:
Play sad songs, they actually make you strong.
play sad songs in sad mood?.....isn't that adding petrol to fire?
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:48am On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:49am On Feb 20, 2015
Very simple! get a job,exhaust your time/mind with everything and stop being a a sissy
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:50am On Feb 20, 2015
falconey:
play sad songs in sad mood?.....isn't that addinf petrol to fire?
No. Works like nothing you ever imagined. Heals you faster.
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 8:54am On Feb 20, 2015
I can't let any man break my heart. It ain't happening ever

I can never allow the aftermath of a failed relationship wear me down. I believe I am stronger than that.
What I do is just simply move on. Forget about it and keep going.

Its only when one pays so much significance and meaning to something, that losing it becomes a pain
As for me, I don't give so much significance to relationships. There are other things more important than relationships

So Op, heartbreak isn't meant for people like me
I can never allow any man victimize me for any reason.
I can never give myself so fully to a man to the extent that when he cheats on me or decides to break up with me, it would affect me so much that I would cry. No never, that can't happen. I am a strong woman and I have the heart of a lion. A heart that doesn't fret, that doesn't just fall to the ground and crash to pieces just because of a mere breakup.

Ladies out there, don't ever let it get to the extent that a break-up will put you in a state of emotional and psychological trauma. You are stronger and better than that.
No man has the right to make you sad. You are your own woman. You are strong,both on the outside and on the inside.
If anybody feels they have the right to make you sad. Prove to them and every other person around that they can't
Brush it off like it doesn't mean anything, and just simply move on.

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by demelza: 8:58am On Feb 20, 2015
Dubemkelly:
As a sharp guy, girl no fit tell me BYE BYE
You never jam thats why.

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Ezedon(m): 9:02am On Feb 20, 2015
.Never put all ur eggs in one basket,
.Build up ur relationship in such a way u'll not be the looser when such happens,
.Expect new relationship every time
Dont be contended with the ones u 've.
.Dont trust or give women all your heart by that you can never have a heart break

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by 3Cees: 9:05am On Feb 20, 2015
Those things you suggested can hurt one even more. I think the best way to be healed is to allow time do the job, slowly but soothingly while your ROUTINE life continues. Taking up another lifestyle in a bid to forget may only lead to stress and depression.
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by OGeeKush(m): 9:11am On Feb 20, 2015
Deleted her pictures nd contacts with so much hatred nd anger, it worked for me.. nd i dnt even remember the last tym i think about her
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Slimzjoe(m): 9:11am On Feb 20, 2015
The Last Time a Female broke My Heart, I Banged her Best friend and Felt Better


Try It too
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by allandutch: 9:20am On Feb 20, 2015
missclassy:
I can't let any man break my heart. I aint happening ever

I can never allow the aftermath of a failed relationship wear me down. I believe I am stronger than that.
What I do is just simply move on. Forget about it and keep going.

Its only when one pays so much significance and meaning to something, that losing it becomes a pain
As for me, I don't give so much significance to relationships. There are other things more important than relationships

So Op, heartbreak isn't meant for people like me
I can never allow any man victimize me for any reason.
I can never give myself so fully to a man to the extent that when he cheats on me or decides to break up with me, it would affect me so much that I would cry. No never, that can't happen. I am a strong woman and I have the heart of a lion. A heart that doesn't fret, that doesn't just fall to the ground and crash to pieces just because of a mere breakup.

Ladies out there, don't ever let it get to the extent that a break-up will put you in a state of emotional and psychological trauma. You are stronger and better than that.
No man has the right to make you sad. You are you own woman. You are strong,both in the outside and in the inside.
If anybody feels they have the right to make you sad, prove to them and every other person around that they can't
Brush it off like it doesn't mean anything, and just simply move on.

You know.....being a feminist doesn't change the fact that u're a human being{ a girl } right?
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 9:24am On Feb 20, 2015
It works for me by indulging into challenging tasks that will make me forget about myself let alone her.

I listen to music, watch movie, hang out with friends.

It still hurts though but after few days I will be back to myself.

Besides no heartless human being is worth dying or crying for.

For every relationship I will go into, I always prepare myself 4 heartbreak so my heart will not experience it.

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 20, 2015
Y all that ? Gals aint worth. If she leaves u, take d next available bus to a new focused future. Plan a beta life bro
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by cherryice(f): 9:35am On Feb 20, 2015
missclassy:
I can't let any man break my heart. It ain't happening ever

I can never allow the aftermath of a failed relationship wear me down. I believe I am stronger than that.
What I do is just simply move on. Forget about it and keep going.

Its only when one pays so much significance and meaning to something, that losing it becomes a pain
As for me, I don't give so much significance to relationships. There are other things more important than relationships

So Op, heartbreak isn't meant for people like me
I can never allow any man victimize me for any reason.
I can never give myself so fully to a man to the extent that when he cheats on me or decides to break up with me, it would affect me so much that I would cry. No never, that can't happen. I am a strong woman and I have the heart of a lion. A heart that doesn't fret, that doesn't just fall to the ground and crash to pieces just because of a mere breakup.

Ladies out there, don't ever let it get to the extent that a break-up will put you in a state of emotional and psychological trauma. You are stronger and better than that.
No man has the right to make you sad. You are your own woman. You are strong,both on the outside and on the inside.
If anybody feels they have the right to make you sad, prove to them and every other person around that they can't
Brush it off like it doesn't mean anything, and just simply move on.
nice
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by cherryice(f): 9:37am On Feb 20, 2015
allandutch:


You know.....being a feminist doesn't change the fact that u're a human being{ a girl } right?
really? I'm sure if she had said "cry day and night for the guy", she would have been more of a human undecided
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 9:42am On Feb 20, 2015
missclassy:
I can't let any man break my heart. It ain't happening ever

I can never allow the aftermath of a failed relationship wear me down. I believe I am stronger than that.
What I do is just simply move on. Forget about it and keep going.

Its only when one pays so much significance and meaning to something, that losing it becomes a pain
As for me, I don't give so much significance to relationships. There are other things more important than relationships

So Op, heartbreak isn't meant for people like me
I can never allow any man victimize me for any reason.
I can never give myself so fully to a man to the extent that when he cheats on me or decides to break up with me, it would affect me so much that I would cry. No never, that can't happen. I am a strong woman and I have the heart of a lion. A heart that doesn't fret, that doesn't just fall to the ground and crash to pieces just because of a mere breakup.

Ladies out there, don't ever let it get to the extent that a break-up will put you in a state of emotional and psychological trauma. You are stronger and better than that.
No man has the right to make you sad. You are your own woman. You are strong,both on the outside and on the inside.
If anybody feels they have the right to make you sad, prove to them and every other person around that they can't
Brush it off like it doesn't mean anything, and just simply move on.
WOW!!!! Miss......your post is longer than the OP post. Please try and understand. Most times break up is not something men/women wish for circumstances cause it sometimes. And if you are deeply in love you will commit to the relationship
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 9:45am On Feb 20, 2015
Slimzjoe:
The Last Time a Female broke My Heart, I Banged her Best friend and Felt Better


Try It too
hope her best friend knows you banged her to make you feel better about her friend's breakup with you?
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 9:48am On Feb 20, 2015
Blackett:
No. Works like nothing you ever imagined. Heals you faster.
seriously men .......sad mood + sad songs= crying
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by allandutch: 9:52am On Feb 20, 2015
cherryice:

really? I'm sure if she had said "cry day and night for the guy", she would have been more of a human undecided

And if she had said "heartbreaks aren't meant for people like me" she would have sounded like arnold schwarzenegger[terminator] right?
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by cherryice(f): 9:58am On Feb 20, 2015
allandutch:


And if she had said "heartbreaks aren't meant for people like me" she would have sounded like arnold schwarzenegger[terminator] right?
Nope, but her other post about how best to handle hrtbreaks were quite encouraging. That was what I meant and I think you should see it that way and quit with the feminist ish
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 20, 2015
falconey:
WOW!!!! Miss......your post is longer than the OP post. Please try and understand. Most times break up is not something men/women wish for circumstances cause it sometimes. And if you are deeply in love you will commit to the relationship
Of course I will commit to any relationship if I truely love my partner but that doesn't mean I should so uphold the relationship that it becomes my only lifeline.
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 10:05am On Feb 20, 2015
allandutch:


You know.....being a feminist doesn't change the fact that u're a human being{ a girl } right?

Its good you stated the fact that I am human.
If there is anything every human has been blessed with, its the ability to make choices and this choices have the power to shape our lives

I have made a choice to never let the aftermath of any relationship put even a single atom of strain on me
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by allandutch: 10:13am On Feb 20, 2015
cherryice:

Nope, but her other post about how best to handle hrtbreaks were quite encouraging. That was what I meant and I think you should see it that way and quit with the feminist ish


Okay............."World's sexiest mum"

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Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by shaizegotswag: 10:17am On Feb 20, 2015
Its not easy ooo especially not having friends around I hardly sleep or eat still going through it, sometimes I blame myself a lot for not being a cheat but the stress is too much jare I know God will heal me soon sha..she still wanna be FWB with me but its not cool at all
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by Nobody: 10:25am On Feb 20, 2015
visit nairaland often especially romance section#that is how some guys roll to ease any breakable hrt grin
Re: GUYS How Did You Handle Your Heartbreak Frustration? by falconey(m): 11:05am On Feb 20, 2015
prettythicksme:
visit nairaland often especially romance section#that is how some guys roll to ease any breakable hrt grin
guys? What of girls? you ladies suffer heartbreak too

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