Would I date a lady I knew my brother slept with, or would I continue dating a lady after finding out my brother slept with her while they dated in the past?

....Love says YES to whichever of the two!

jp

God forbid

*spits*

let me park hia...wu knws it mih

No virtuous lady would feel comfortable In such situation, The fact that she wants to date you after realising she once f****d your brother means she got no dignity - In other word 'hoesim'

you dey talk that one?
what of a daugther wey give papa Mouth Action >> see here http://www.zipyamouth.com/2015/02/woman-had-oral-sex-with-her-dad-at-19.html

Lordabas, no matter the advice u get here, at d end d choice is urs to make. Can u actually look beyond d fact that she slept with your bro? How will you look at her when your bro is there? Its only a few guys that can date such a girl. Sometimes LOVE isn't enough when you want to make decisions.

I won't evn go close o that family again let alone dating his bro. Dat gross sha

Date?? yes. Marry?? Still tinking

CAPITAL NO because the respect wount be there anymore

Yes.
Only if he is dead.

I wouldn't date her but, when I'm driven by alcohol I'll probably Bleep her.

Girls don finish for this world ?

no i cnt. she is nt a family food.

dajoaneke:
If at this age Op no see anything wrong, then no amout of advise go make am change mind... "Love" na word wey de turn ppl to mugu!

U have said it all.If op like make him enter all social media go look for advice, the best advice has to come from him himself.

Okafor's Theorem

I once loved a girl n told my younger bro dat I want to go for dat girl, he told me he has slept with d girl immediately d love I had for her disappeared. hope u understand dis?

Do you like 9ice?

Marc9:
Yes!

whr u frm?

Y not ask if u Can date A Gal That has Slept with Someone else Before

I had no intention of commenting but going by what I've been reading I'd say most guys are either lying or just being childish.

For me, I'd gladly do so as long as my brother is cool with it. You didn't hear it from your brother, I believe. You heard it from her and that should cause her respect to run through the roof. Some may say it's a taboo for twon brothers to touch the same lady but I don't see that being applicable here. She had a rough past and we shouldn't condemn her for it. Most guys before me are only being hypocritical as they seem to forget that they have troubling pasts.

OP, you have found a girl whose past is disturbing but that does not imply she should be nailed to the cross. You seem resolute in your quest for love. Love her and take her in if it's cool with you.

I would not have such a situation arise, simply because I don't have a brother(completely alone)!!!!
But if I did, I would find it difficult erasing that past history from my memory.
A situation arises and we are all together and my brothers eyes begins to stray(consciously or unconsciously),the only thing that would come to my mind, would be their past escapades!!!!
I cannot come and die o, I will pass on the girl sharply!!!

[quote
author=malonephill post=30896679]Knowing that someone has dated her
before me is quite annyoing not to talk of my blood banging [/quote]we have the same feeling::

With all d girls in the world! !! Why would i

Ha

personally, I don't see anything wrong in it..........
They met before you ...

and the girl in question opened up to you, you also said she did all this while she was still young and naíve.......

If our past should be held against all of us ........well just imagine it yourself

Lordabas:
just found out now before it got serious or we started dating that she slept with my brother 3yrs ago. She has been very honest with me about how she was wild partying hard, very young and naive.i think i got a thing for her and by her actions of late to me and words of other people i think she's a very nice girl. Whatever actions people had in the past with her when i wasn't involved i tell them to leave it in the past i dont care
To be honest with all of you i really don't care but i think some strong feelings are clouding full judgement

...I and my brother still get along great together

Ok Would appreciate some helpful insight

bro don't even try it for real or u will regret at the long run.

Tosinville:
whr u frm?

I'm from where you need to be an adult before I can tell you.

Ion know why people seek advise when they already know what they will finally do.

YEAH, MY YEAH MEAN USE HER AS MY S€X MATE DATS ALL