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Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by steppin: 11:41pm On Feb 27, 2015
IVORY2009:
are u in anyway related to worry? Or you're same person with a different username?
Busybody.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by IVORY2009(m): 11:46pm On Feb 27, 2015
steppin:
Busybody.
will blast ur head ooh!
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Spirit1(m): 11:48pm On Feb 27, 2015
kmariko:
As a former Vancouver ( a very beautiful city ) resident

In Canada it is BYOJ....that is bring your own job.

Canada has first class infrastructure but a lousy economy overall.

If you have a good job here and a prospect of a good job don't leave it leave for Canada
I don't know why many young people with great prospects are leaving Nigeria to go and start from the beginning abroad. Professionals like you are the face of new Nigeria. Why migrate out just because your hubby's business suffered a set back? There are tons of opportunities in Nigeria. Canada is not a bed of roses
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Nobody: 11:52pm On Feb 27, 2015
UK is a no go route for now, maybe if it was the Tony Blair era, I would have said 'maybe'. Those advising UK are not wishing you well. Plus if your baby is born there, its not auto citizenship. Canada is good, its just the accomodation part that is crazy. But I believe as an inquisitive and hardoworking couple, you will make it anywhere...
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Tegatons: 12:07am On Feb 28, 2015
All I have to say just kindly ask your sister in law the situation of things there before making any move with your man.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by adekanbai: 12:14am On Feb 28, 2015
irridemi:
Hello Nairalanders, Please I need ur advise. Am currently 2months pregnant, and My husband is thinking of us relocating to Canada. I currently work in the bank while my husband is into Forex and Securities Trading Business. We were doing averagely okay until last year when business started shaking, my husband has lost a lot and now he is thinking of us relocating to Canada to start afresh. If I resign and we sell our properties, and the little savings we have should be enough to sponsor him for a Postgraduate Course (2years), while I follow him as his wife ( then I get a job), he wants this option cos am a professional and I have good work experience. Option 2 is for me to do a post graduate course and he accompanies me (mayb I will get a good job fast cos of my qualifications). if I wait till we have our baby, the expenses will be much(I.e the financial requirement for the visa). My hubby's uncle is ready to assist us, but my husband doesn't want to take the risk of investing in business again. He has Sasacheskwan or Toronto in mind. I will really appreciate advise thanks
My dear if you have your way please do. Under no circumstances will you compare naija with Canada, though it might look tough in the beginning but I bet you if you are hardworking and focused you will enjoy in due time. There are better opportunities there, the only problem is getting there. I strongly support you on that.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Ndababa(m): 12:45am On Feb 28, 2015
Left to me, I would rather you or your hubby enroll in a masters course back in Nigeria. After that, he can apply for PhD there at Canada. There are tons of scholarships for phd courses, and some even have family support attached. The other can then explore for opportunities. That way you both are safe. Don't take risk for the sake of your unborn child, pls.

Ps: I'll be going to Vancouver for an Int'l conference in May n the rules put in place for Nigerians before obtaining visa is crazy. All the biometrics blah blah. And that's for me applying from Singapore not Nig.

Pls!
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by JesusDWay(m): 1:11am On Feb 28, 2015
irridemi:
Hello Nairalanders, Please I need ur advise. Am currently 2months pregnant, and My husband is thinking of us relocating to Canada. I currently work in the bank while my husband is into Forex and Securities Trading Business. We were doing averagely okay until last year when business started shaking, my husband has lost a lot and now he is thinking of us relocating to Canada to start afresh. If I resign and we sell our properties, and the little savings we have should be enough to sponsor him for a Postgraduate Course (2years), while I follow him as his wife ( then I get a job), he wants this option cos am a professional and I have good work experience. Option 2 is for me to do a post graduate course and he accompanies me (mayb I will get a good job fast cos of my qualifications). if I wait till we have our baby, the expenses will be much(I.e the financial requirement for the visa). My hubby's uncle is ready to assist us, but my husband doesn't want to take the risk of investing in business again. He has Sasacheskwan or Toronto in mind. I will really appreciate advise thanks
You seem like the typical woman we always get description of, whose sensitivity is very high and can smell rat from far away..hehe. I said this because sometimes, the grass may actually not be greener on the other side and you may regret leaving what you have in hand for what you are yet to catch. However, in this case, I think you guys should give it a try, with careful planning though and definitely not the way you were planning to go about it.

My suggestion is that you try immigration rather than school. It affords a brighter chance of getting into Canada and a better way of integrating faster into the society, with brighter prospects of getting a job. It also costs less and you have access to everything a citizen does(even school fees is same as a citizen from what I've read) except voting right I think. It can also ensure a faster means of going there and, if there's a need for one party to stay back in Nigeria and just be visiting the other, it makes things easier and you can become citizen when you have lived there for 3 or 4 years accumulatively.

Presently, there's a programme called Express Entry which Canada is using to bring in people and now is the time to act if you decide on going.

Let me say some things that may help your decision making. Truth is, banking job is not a very reliable one in this country, infact I just read an headline that banks are planning to downsize because of the what is happening with exchange rate presently. Also, I know someone whose wife was working with UBA and she was the one sending money to the husband in Canada, however, she has gone to join the man and the man now has a job. I also know someone who left his 400k Ecobank job and got to Canada, now has his own house in Canada withing 2years i think and is living well. So, its different strokes for different folks but i think it may be more advantageous at the end, plus the benefits it will afford your children later. Your husband's field of work seem like it can make him get a job quicker when you get there and that profession seems top rated so, he might end up getting a very good offer which will overshadow what you are leaving behind. Juggle all of these options, if you make a decision to go, you can contact me for further briefing.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by abbychi: 1:16am On Feb 28, 2015
Ontario esp Toronto is very expensive and Vancouver is even more.

Saskachewan makes sense but otherwise, focus on more rural areas and not big cities (e.g Toronto, Vancouver, Calgary) because the bigger the cities the more the cost of living and even tuition. in smaller and rural areas, tution are lower and you will get higher paying jobs even with no canadian experience. Alberta is also another option - remember rural areas (i.e smaller cities and towns) within alberta. Ask your sister in Canada to help you with these.

Also, if you guys are migrating as a student then you may not be covered for healthcare when you have your baby. So keep that in mind cos of the cost.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by cbrass(m): 1:21am On Feb 28, 2015
bigfrancis21:
First of all, you are doing very well already in Nigeria and you have no reason at all to leave Nigeria. You have a good job + investment properties (buildings) which you own. Investing in business is preferable in Nigeria than in US or Canada (about 90% of start-ups fail in the US), high taxation (at least 35% of your profits) and there are more profit returns on investment in Nigeria than in US/Canada. When you come here, life starts afresh for you. You will discover that your foreign (Nigerian) degrees and experience are totally nothing and they don't count here and you will have to go to school for about the next 2 years (during which you will have to make-do with meagre, low-paying jobs to survive). On average, it will take you about 5 years to stand on your feet in Canada.

After going to school and getting a job, you will live an average life here in Canada, nothing exceptional or more than that. A great part of your salary will go into heavy taxes (imagine earning $5000 a month and $1200 goes to taxes leaving you with $3,800), bills (mortgage, light, water, gas, phone bills e.t.c), leaving you with just enough to survive and nothing extra. You see jobs, you will find them aplenty here but you will not be left with much as most of your money will go into taxes and bills. The average US/Canadian works to pay bills and it is an endless cycle. Several Nigerians are returning home to invest.

To be honest, life in Nigeria is better financially if you have a good job and several investments.
But why haven't you returned if it's true
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by joetons: 1:26am On Feb 28, 2015
Satkachan(sic)/ Manitoba or other province where you can work for 6 months then qualify to file in for your PR is a good option. My little concern is how you can work now considering your pregnancy. But once you can handle that the health care here can take of you and your baby free. I was in that situation and I resigned now in Manitoba for a two year prog. It could be rough initially but you will not regret the decision. It better still, let your husband come while you still keep your work to support him, once he is settled you join him
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by akilo1: 1:28am On Feb 28, 2015
with my experiences internationally,i will advice you not to quit your job,sponsor your husband for his study and let him invite you ,going abroad is not as we think,your profession is such a good profession but it might below canadan standard,some countries need their local experience manpower,you might not get the auditing job paying you as in nigeria,this will make you stress for bills,let your husband mkve there and be prayerful that everythg should work to your favour.wish you all the best
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by ttmacoy:
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Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by kuulkyd(f): 1:35am On Feb 28, 2015
I really think both of you should take time out to pray about this, cos it's a life changing decision. Are you sure you'll be able to cope with a first pregnancy and a full time job while your hubby is studying?
If on the other hand, you are studying, will your hubby's present qualification enable him to get a good job that will support both of you, and the baby?
When you put to bed in a new environment, how will you cope with taking care of the baby being your first child?
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Mafamafa(m): 1:43am On Feb 28, 2015
My advise is this, pray about it. I came to the U.S on a B1 visa and went straight to school. It's not a bed of rose but trust me, with determination, hard work and positive mindset, you will survive it. You can look into some of this professional short programs, IIBA,PMP and stuff, get certified and you will get a company to sponsor your work auth, it's ain't easy but it's possible. If you know what you doing, you can make six figures, and mark my word 6figures. Not unless you have something reliable to live on in Africa. Lastly, have enough money with you and cover your grounds very well. Ask your In-law if they can accommodate you for about 6months. Make your enquiries and talk to the right people, and not those who don't know what they doing in Canada. Good luck
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by abbychi: 2:01am On Feb 28, 2015
Mafamafa:
My advise is this, pray about it. I came to the U.S on a B1 visa and went straight to school. It's not a bed of rose but trust me, with determination, hard work and positive mindset, you will survive it. You can look into some of this professional short programs, IIBA,PMP and stuff, get certified and you will get a company to sponsor your work auth, it's ain't easy but it's possible. If you know what you doing, you can make six figures, and mark my word 6figures. Not unless you have something reliable to live on in Africa. Lastly, have enough money with you and cover your grounds very well. Ask your In-law if they can accommodate you for about 6months. Make your enquiries and talk to the right people, and not those who don't know what they doing in Canada. Good luck
I totally agree. First things first - Pray about it and seek God's face.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Richy4(m): 2:03am On Feb 28, 2015
based on experience, your ways of banking is quite different from Canadian system of Banking. automatically you have no experience.

i suggest you do your post graduate. and work on your accent. then you can be able to talk about working in an office.
like bank where customer services is not a child's play. it is 100% different from the joke they play in Nigeria where customer stay on queue for hours and no one was held accountable for it.

most of your transaction will be on phone so you do not have to speak the accent that the customer will not understand. keeping him/her hours on phone.

post graduate is the solution for you. except you wanna work in a nursing home
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by 360command: 2:04am On Feb 28, 2015
No work tomorrow, I am reading through nairaland....

My advice is this...

It does not make sense for you to sell property except you have more than enough.

If you are the type that the country has frustrated and you feel like going to another foreign land would be the best for you, why don't you just go.

Also, going abroad, you need to have 3-5 years plan by looking at ways where you can become a citizen.

Lastly, nigeria in someway has something to offer cause when you look at the cost of going abroad and the cost for you thinking of a solid business idea, it could be worth it..

Ps: there is nowhere in the world that is not expensive.. Lagos is expensive as well as toronto so as london,oslo,J'bourg, newyork etc. but that does not mean that there are no place where you can afford cheap living in a decent environment...

Whatever you two decides as couple or family, just do it by NIKE.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by ttmacoy: 2:09am On Feb 28, 2015
Very true. I went into a barclays bank recently and they have replaced tellers with machines now. The machines can be used to pay in cash/cheque, administer your accounts etc and only for certain things do you approach the customer service desk for help. Whilst it's good from a technological advancement perspective, that's some jobs gone just like that.

KoloOyinbo:
Before you do anything investigate the employment opportunities and level of unemployment. Sadly I can advise about Canada but know that my Naija friend who was Bank Manager in Lagos can to Ireland and cannot even get a job as a cashier as ALL the banks here are laying off staff and closing branches as folks move to internet banking etc.

So look closely at the level of unemployment especially as it relates to you own industry sector.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by ttmacoy: 2:18am On Feb 28, 2015
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Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Nobody: 2:41am On Feb 28, 2015
irridemi:
I am just scared of going to an unknown place without guarantee of job for me. I hope to work and support him while he is in school. And he hopes to do that if I am the one going to study while he will be working. My fear is just the job part cos my sister in law just finished her PGD and she hasn't gotten a job yet and she wants to take up another course. My hubby suggested satsachekwan because of what he read that the place is cold but fair when it comes to getting jobs and immigration issues
with ur working experience, if u av d necessary certification or professional certificate it wnt be so hard. follow him with faith, it may be hard at first but am sure you wnt regret it in the end. Naija is a good place to live, you can always visit on ur vacation.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by aitiola: 2:44am On Feb 28, 2015
My advise is simple.If you can afford not to sell your properties don't.Or do not sell all.However,it will be tough in the beginning...you may at some point regret moving but as soon as you settle down,you will find ur footing.You wont breakdown before you breakthrough.Go with your husband,Your banking job is not reliable however...go with as much money as u can and live there in the beginning like you cant even feed urself to safe money and ensure that u guys are not broke.It is worth it.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by sukkot: 2:46am On Feb 28, 2015
DO NOT EVEN TRY IT AT ALL. ARE YOU CRAZY ? THIS IS 2015 AND YOU HAVE INTERNET ACCESS TO RESEARCH AND YOU STILL WANT TO RELOCATE TO CANADA ? thousands before you have made this move and regretted it and are stuck in canada working in macdonalds. i can understand someone living in face me i face you in nigeria with no money and poor family and no connections and total despair - now that is a candidate for someone who should go to canada because he cant get lower than his situation in nigeria in any part of the world he goes. now you ? you say you own your own homes ? and you want to sell it so you can use the money for some pipe dream ? and then become a renter in canada working in a factory ? I DONT BELIEVE IN JUJU BUT YOU BETTER MAKE SURE SOMEONE IS NOT SWEARING FOR YOU IN YOUR FAMILY grin grin grin
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by sukkot: 3:03am On Feb 28, 2015
HAVING SAID WHAT I SAID INITIALLY, here is a condition , and the only condition that i would give you for you to relocate to canada. if you can fulfill this condition you will have the best time ever in canada and would love it. have 250,000 canadian dollars so that when you get there you cash down for a house ( no mortgage ). this way you are rent free and not under stress and pressure. then have an additional 50,000 dollars to get you by for 2 years. so if you can come up with 300,000 canadian dollars ? then i give you my blessing and promise you will never regret it. anything short of that ? i suggest you keep your a55 in nigeria and dont sell your properties
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by beelon1020(m): 3:10am On Feb 28, 2015
You have spoken well tho, This goes out for everybody or anyone willing to come to canada, i read some discouraging comments the fact is canada is like 2 edged sword sometimes is good sometime is bad but at long as you find yourself at the point of entry have only 2 things in mind "determination and success" that will take you a long way, the funny thing is canada is not willing to help the educated no matter what certificate you bring from your country you have to go back to school for upgrading for like a year or two b4 you can find a very good job sure u can work in the bank and some other big companies but that will take a very long time, the fact is most people you guys called "agbero" i mean street boys succeed more in canada but you have to be very very calculative, anyone into handiwork or does not care of any job for a living will make more money faster here, i know a guy that goes from one crazy job to the other to rise capital for exportation business to nigeria few years ago now is a big boy now i adopted that idea and i moved into cars, cellphones and laptop well i dont need to tell u whatsup.
for the OP my advise is let your husband come here 1st and you can apply for a visiting visa b4 the baby comes and make sure you guys calculate your steps well because the last thing you dont want is to get caught in the immigration web, if you do, you will hate canada with passion, aside that Canada is the best place to live on earth.
Lastly try not to go to the northern part of canada because the cold there na die, even here toronto is like living in the freezer if u think is a joke google it or see it on youtube.. Goodluck sai buhari

lighternote:
Hmmmmm!!! It is only a child that will tell you to quit ur job and run to Canada to face uncertainties. The ensuing tension and depression may crack ur relationship if care isn't taken. Pls, pls, my advice;
1. Let him go over to Canada for further studies while u stay back and face ur job. I know you will miss him but stay put with ur pregnancy and ur job, it is all for a while.
2. Let him make plans for inviting you over during your maternity leave (if possible take ur leave early enough before u look too bloated) so that u can ve ur baby over there and gain citizenship.
3. Come back to Nigeria joor and nurse ur baby and go back to ur God given job.
4. while doing all these, you allow him time to find his feet, settle accommodation and other provisions before you join him kpatakpata!
It isn't easy at all abroad especially ab initio.
It would ve bn easier if there's no forthcoming baby. As it is now, going to Canada without enough money and good job waiting while losing ur naija job is tantamount to small suicide. Take calculated risks. There is no midas touch anywhere, it takes a while to permeate the system.[color=#990000][/color]
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by folasade123: 3:11am On Feb 28, 2015
My sister,i will advise u come to canada as your husband suggested. I live here in canada.
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by sukkot: 3:15am On Feb 28, 2015
folasade123:
My sister,i will advise u come to canada as your husband suggested. I live here in canada.
misery loves company.

listen, as someone who has lived in canada for 2 months, i will advise you to keep your houses in nigeria and live in your rent free naijahouse. there are no longer any green pastures in this world. and you will get to find that out if you make this mistake. check the website below. your husband will end up a frustrated taxi driver in canada like most immigrants


https://www.justlanded.com/english/Canada/Forums/Jobs/Visit-wwwNotCanadacom
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Nobody:
I wouldn't have commented if not that you mentioned that you want to sell your properties...Abeg no sell am oo.. There is no guarantee that you would be granted PR as it's not business as usual since the 1st of January this year, do not count your chickens before they are hatched.. They are now using something called express entry which requires a professional job and letter of authority from government before application irrespective of whether you schooled in Canada or not, except you are specially nominated by a province which is highly competitive. Most of the programs like FSW, phd stream , Canadian experience class e.t.c mentioned by some posters above are no longer valid since the 1st of January. (like my friend would say, Canadians and PR on ground never get job, na im someone wan come get job from abroad through express entry and that is in the Oil rich province of Alberta).

You can come over to try your luck as life is all about taking risk but don't sell those properties as it might be what you would return to if things don't go the way as planned by you and your husband. Cheers!
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by beelon1020(m): 3:27am On Feb 28, 2015
kilooodeee easyyy oga haaaha no bi there we they? common is not that bad and cruel here, have been here for a while even i brought my 1st car here the same year i came into this country and this is the 3rd one am using inside the snow outside nah cheesy.. look here bros as an ordinary person with Canadian working permit you are sure of making lowest $2800 and upto $5000 in a month, pay rent $700/month for bachelor, groceries 100-200/month the rest is savings nah, if you want to go on mortgage is up to the person how many people do you see sleeping outside? or you want to say nah all of us buy house? The fact it anyone that can work canada is one of the best place for that person.. end story

sukkot:
HAVING SAID WHAT I SAID INITIALLY, here is a condition , and the only condition that i would give you for you to relocate to canada. if you can fulfill this condition you will have the best time ever in canada and would love it. have 250,000 canadian dollars so that when you get there you cash down for a house ( no mortgage ). this way you are rent free and not under stress and pressure. then have an additional 50,000 dollars to get you by for 2 years. so if you can come up with 300,000 canadian dollars ? then i give you my blessing and promise you will never regret it. anything short of that ? i suggest you keep your a55 in nigeria and dont sell your properties
Re: I Am In Dilemma, Do We Relocate To Canada Or Stay Back by Nobody: 3:28am On Feb 28, 2015
Oh Jesus i can sense your intelligence... God bless you demi, I just pray God gives me your kind of wife that can always protect my image and person even in public...you are so good lady...gosh
irridemi:
in as much as I appreciate ur comment, you should also watch what u say. I never told u my husband was doing an online business, he has an office, a company and he is a broker and not a gambler. If u read my post carefully, I said he wants to further his studies, ( is that sitting on a computer), and I never said I make him go out to work. My husband is a very hardworking man, and there are a lot of companies that have been affected by the exchange rates even the banks. And please there is nothing like sweet promises, he has never failed in his responsibilities, am I here to seek opinion about relocating and not whether my husband is a waster or not. Please watch ur words!!!
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