Noted

I agree with most of the point's except the parents/ward giving the girls more..utter bvllshit..



just saying,my younger sister got x2 my allowance in school.I was also the one doing bis and other expenses as a big brother concerned.she saves upto 20k monthly which my parents don't know of.
my point is, they give her far more than she requires and let the the guys have just enough. applies to my female friends in school

girls tho

The op is gravely mistaken. Women always get more attention than guys. As a son, your father will immediately assume you are a man and can take care of yourself.

Abi, na you smoke the pawpaw leaf wey Adamu leave for backyard?

Watin u wan mae we do now?

U didn't raise any questions,neither did you suggest any answers

U just rant as if u dey follow ur yunga sistas talk for haus...thank God u recognised it urself

You just said the opposite. Parents do pay more attention to girls that guys

nairalandbuzz:
Read and Understood.

OP, I just got married last year and my wife asked me last month saying... that I attended a top UK University and at the end didn't marry a girl that did same or someone in my cadre like a Nigerian University Graduate but I just laughed and then explained to her what you just described... ...

I stand to be corrected but I told her that I dont trust them... Most of them are runs girls cos I also attended Yaba Tech and I hear UNILAG girls stories cos they are so close to us like lips and nose.

There are exceptions, which I dont want to delve into but the bad ones don paint the good ones bad and they all look greyish to everyone.

I would prefer a lady that did OND or just Advanced Levels, work and then do part time school studies... To me, they are more material than those in full time school that have gone greyed.

The only thing is this post is you trying to tell us you attended a UK university, otherwise your comment is off topic

Except I want to offend God, my parent ,though, not wealthy give me everything I need... everything. They were and are still my only source of income from 100 and Now I'm in my finals. I lack nothing except the normal student brokeness when you use your money for unnecessary things.
I was not placed on monthly alawi I simple ask the moment my account is becoming red and, yes, I get alert from my bank.
At home or in school I get what I want it only reduces when I'm at home. My dad still gives me money to make my hair whenever he notice my hair looks unkept...
What I know is our parents are trying, they can't give what they don't have... we should try to be contented.

Adontbelieve this.. its d other wayy round.. girls re given more money dan the guys.

nd na dem clamour 4 gender equality pass .. female folks and double standards. .hmm!!

OP my da then will say "Awo my son, ki lo de? I hope all is well, read hard ehn, the sky is your limit. then some change go enter my account. but my sis own na "Biola how are you, is the sun damaging your skin, please please let me not hear of suffering, thousands of naira will be sent to her, so what are you saying?
If you don't want your daughter to be a runs girl then train her properly or better still if that one no work, send am to NDA

Safarigirl,are you a lawyer or law student?


Just curious.

Very nice thread. I happen to be one who really feel for my female friends who are in the higher institution. When they call me and tell me they need some help financially, i try to help. Even to those i am not really close to, not to talk of my girl friend.

In essence, i know if i am their last hope and i dont help, they might be force to get it in the other way round. And in so doing i will not forgive myself if i had the means of helping but didnt.

brownlord:


The only thing is this post is you trying to tell us you attended a UK university, otherwise your comment is off topic

That is the ONLY thing you want to see there. Your mind will work for you my brother.

In life, you only find what you seek.

brownlord:
The money I spent on helping girls ( girl friends ) sought out their academic problems in school is enough to set up business that will employ them after graduation.

The only thing in this post is you trying to tell us you spent money on a girl, otherwise your comment is off topic

#JustQuotingYou

Beamborla:
Except I want to offend God, my parent ,though, not wealthy give me everything I need... everything. They were and are still my only source of income from 100 and Now I'm in my finals. I lack nothing except the normal student brokeness when you use your money for unnecessary things.
I was not placed on monthly alawi I simple ask the moment my account is becoming red and, yes, I get alert from my bank.
At home or in school I get what I want it only reduces when I'm at home. My dad still gives me money to make my hair whenever he notice my hair looks unkept...
What I know is our parents are trying, they can't give what they don't have... we should try to be contented.

You are right. You girls should try to be contented. And if you are not, you can hustle.

Doing runz is a way of hustling. No biggie.

searching4love:



OP YOUR ARTICLE REEKS OF PURE IGNORANCE AND SIMPLY SHOWS HOW LAZY AND DEMANDING NIGERIAN GIRLS OF THIS GENERATION ARE

BEEN A RUNS GIRLS IS A CHOICE EVERY GIRL HAS TO MAKE DUE TO PEER PRESSURE IN SCHOOL. WE HAVE SEEN GIRLS FROM WEALTHY HOMES WITH REASONABLE POCKET MONEY DO RUNS. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PARENTS.

ALL YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE WAYWARD AND MATERIALISTIC IN NATURE. YOU ARE ALL PROMISCUOUS AND MENTALLY LAZY TO THINK OF A LITTLE BUSINESS TO START UP IN SCHOOL.

INSTEAD YOU NIGERIAN GIRLS SEE RUNS AS A EASY WAY OUT AND YOU START JUMPING FROM DICK TO DICK ALL IN THE NAME OF MAKING A LIVING.

THIS IS WHY I DECIDED TO MARRY A FOREIGN LADY.


#TEAM FOREIGN GIRLS

I love the way foreign girls can be open minded. Is your wife a bi?

nairalandbuzz:


The only thing in this post is you trying to tell us you spent money on a girl, otherwise your comment is off topic

#JustQuotingYou

Lmao, nice one

Khabuqi:


I love the way foreign girls can be open minded. Is your wife a bi?

no she's a Tri

Beamborla:
Except I want to offend God, my parent ,though, not wealthy give me everything I need... everything. They were and are still my only source of income from 100 and Now I'm in my finals. I lack nothing except the normal student brokeness when you use your money for unnecessary things.
I was not placed on monthly alawi I simple ask the moment my account is becoming red and, yes, I get alert from my bank.
At home or in school I get what I want it only reduces when I'm at home. My dad still gives me money to make my hair whenever he notice my hair looks unkept...
What I know is our parents are trying, they can't give what they don't have... we should try to be contented.

@ emboldened, bless you for this

Op has been justifying prostitution since she joined nl.

Which family gives more money to the boys than they give to the girls?

Is there nothing else a girl can do to get money aside prostitution?

Poverty isn't the only reason you girls phock around. It's just in your DNA.

Beamborla:
Except I want to offend God, my parent ,though, not wealthy give me everything I need... everything. They were and are still my only source of income from 100 and Now I'm in my finals. I lack nothing except the normal student brokeness when you use your money for unnecessary things.
I was not placed on monthly alawi I simple ask the moment my account is becoming red and, yes, I get alert from my bank.
At home or in school I get what I want it only reduces when I'm at home. My dad still gives me money to make my hair whenever he notice my hair looks unkept...
What I know is our parents are trying, they can't give what they don't have... we should try to be contented.

Easy to spot a child from decent home.

Safari trying to justify reasons for her MTN ( PAY AS YOU GO ) SME business. Smh

Becoming a runs girl is not about finances - i knew of girls from very comfortable backgrounds who became runs babes. you could actually see two sisters - one a hajia/SU, and the other a runs babe. ditto for guys. Cult boys come from all backgrounds

the real question is how insecure is the person concerned. a person who feels the need to oppress/be noticed is a prime candidate for runs girl/cult boy.

hmmmmmm

Safarigirl be "talking" the truth.....

I had a similar experience back in my poly days....No alowee for hair, cream n small frys.. Popsi would say in that his military voice "We sent you to read books not to be beautiful" ...On one occasion I was forced to talk back at dad, "Popsi I know say u no get but 2k for 2weeks? That's witchcraft". The old man chased me back to school with same 2k from which I would pay back the soft loan I used in faring home and also faring back to school is from the 2k also....How much come remain??

Imagine a 2k alert that is suppose to last me 2weeks with very meagre provisions....To even buy new clothes na war and like seriously momsi thought there was a guy somewhere who should be catering for my small needs because she saw some love textmessages on my phone.

Then there was no Brazilian hair ooo but to buy the cheap synthetic hair na double wahala.

A friend and room mate of mine had it worse when I thought mine was the baddest....Her popsi gives her 2k to spend for 1month.

oyb:
Becoming a runs girl is not about finances - i knew of girls from very comfortable backgrounds who became runs babes. you could actually see two sisters - one a hajia/SU, and the other a runs babe. ditto for guys. Cult boys come from all backgrounds

the real question is how insecure is the person concerned. a person who feels the need to oppress/be noticed is a prime candidate for runs girl/cult boy.

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tyconcepts:
Safarigirl be "talking" the truth.....

I had a similar experience back in my poly days....No alowee for hair, cream n small frys.. Popsi would say in that his military voice "We sent you to read books not to be beautiful"

Imagine a 2k alert that is suppose to last me 2weeks with very meagre provisions....To even buy new clothes na war and like seriously momsi thought there was a guy somewhere who should be catering forbmy small needs because she saw some love textmessages on my phone.

Then there was no Brazilian hair ooo but to buy the cheap synthetic hair na double wahala.

A friend and room mate of mine had it worse when I thought mine was the baddest....Her popsi gives her 2k to spend for 1month.

tactical maneovering.

That still doesn't justify the reason you went into runz, look around your poly and you notice student who go into one to two business to survive, I know of student who went as far as writing exams/impersonating ( not trying to justify their act ) but Johore are other things you can venture into without runz.

"There is no dignity quite so impressive, and no independence quite so important, as living within your means." — Calvin Coolidge

nairalandbuzz:
Read and Understood.

OP, I just got married last year and my wife asked me last month saying... that I attended a top UK University and at the end didn't marry a girl that did same or someone in my cadre like a Nigerian University Graduate but I just laughed and then explained to her what you just described... ...

I stand to be corrected but I told her that I dont trust them... Most of them are runs girls cos I also attended Yaba Tech and I hear UNILAG girls stories cos they are so close to us like lips and nose.

There are exceptions, which I dont want to delve into but the bad ones don paint the good ones bad and they all look greyish to everyone.

I would prefer a lady that did OND or just Advanced Levels, work and then do part time school studies... To me, they are more material than those in full time school that have gone greyed.

When I was in YABATECH, I dated a lady and at the end of the courtship, she mentioned the conditions that pushed her into dating in school and most especially someone like me.

1. I was brilliant and I pass without reading cos while in lecture room, I seem to grab everything and don't need to read so I can devote my time to teach her the more. [This she got cos I had enough time to teach her thereby knowing it more myself cos i love programming and calculations... even for exam revisions, she does not give me any breathing space to read but only to teach her, which is at no expense for me]
2. I was the class governor and so, she has upper hand with the lecturers. [Lecturers will even call me to see her paper (ODO) before being marked lol funny right? and Dating the governor made some other lecturers excuse dating her for me]
3. Funds. [I gave it to her cos money NEVER [always] came on time from Ijebu and I should be there to support]

She got full package and she got the best deal.

Are you kidding? How does this write-up relates to the topic @ hand, wake up boy!

Girls get more than guys in school. But there are exceptions too but that does not mean that you must become the latest Olosho.

safarigirl:
I'm writing this article strictly out of necessity. Not only is this based on the experiences of others, but also on personal experience

I want to start by posting a known fact. It's not by force to have a child, neither is it necessary to send your child to a higher institution, ESPECIALLY a girl child

See ehn, make una forget anything, the truth and the koko of the matter, forgetting all these yeye posts on NL is that most girls go into the University WITH ONLY their PARENTS as their source of finances. There is no money bag somewhere that provides money for us. Na only us waka come

There is a popular saying that when you're in 100 level, money comes in steady, as you progress it becomes less frequent and reduces in amount, by the time you're in your final year, if you even see 1k alert from your family, na to shoki reach ATM.

Many students especially those in government institutions can testify to this fact.....but I digress. It has come to my knowledge that most parents do not pay as much attention to their daughters in higher institution as they do their sons, because the female child is perceived as the 'understanding' one, who is supposed to 'persevere' because she's a 'nurturer'....that is by far the biggest load of BS ever peddled by the male folk (yes, na boys cause am )

All those bad belle brothers wey dey like shorten their sisters' monthly allowance on top tales of one (imaginary) boyfriend that is sending her regular money, just know that your village people have already pounded the yam that they'll use and lick soup ontop your head .

If not for the fear of God that some girls have, obatala knows that the amount of runs girls that would've been in this country for don reach to rival the entire Cape Verde's population. Not every girl has a business she's doing in school and we all can't combine business with schooling. Why then should parents transfer their burden to one small boy that made the error of toasting their daughter? Boy wey still dey collect money from house go come dey feed your daughter for school on your behalf, unto wetin?

Even if there is a boyfriend, is it his job to provide food, clothes and hair product from your daughter? If he provides all of that, what is her consideration in such a contract? And by consideration, I mean, her sacrifice. You want your daughter to leave school and immediately marry, but you allow her look unkempt while in school and starve thinking she has a guy that does it all, like say the guy follow una conceive.

Please, if you have a daughter in school, do well as a parent to see to her needs, even the petty ones, don't wait for memos from your child before you know your job. The tertiary instituion is hard enough, but peer pressure is a b*tch and not every child is understanding and persevering. Shame on a child is shame on his/her parents too, so nothing like 'shebi na she get herself?'...na una get her

I'm sorry I wasn't able to pass across my message in what some may term a 'civil' manner, but some things gats come in pidgin for the message to make sense .

I'm not hitting at parents who try their best, I'm hitting at those who don't try at all and expect 'understanding'. Thanks for reading

is that why you are fvcking KOK?

First of all, I commend you for this write-up but you failed to mention the issue of greed! Why blame the male children in this issue? Some of these girls that do 'runs' in universities, do you think their parents don't give them enough money to carter for their immediate needs? Most of them are just so greedy! They want expensive things that are beyond their means. When they can't afford them, they resort to 'runs'.