Guyz all those ideals u got from foreign books or authors can't work on our African ladies here, they just think & act in a different manner

Billyonaire:
Seun's Nairaland is making people advertise their mental laxity daily. What did he say again ? That he has not gotten the pussy he deserves and he thinks we are all like him ? Nigga Please.

go n sleep...

octopusfreaky:
Money,money,money can't buy love,,if you're rich and unattractive,mennn i will be wf u but wont stop me from rolling wf an attractive guy

No sane attractive nigga would wanna roll with a weird freak

morethanadoll:

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

I totally agree with you but gold diggers exist still.
But With the many rings on your fingers, one would have a second thought @ your first sight. Another reason why men don't get interested in ladies I guess.
No sane man goes after people's wives. If u aint married give some freedom to the marriage finger.

harry509:
go n sleep...

Yes Sir.

sinizia:


No. He wrote "K" because he had no answers to my arguments.

k

octopusfreaky:
Money,money,money can't buy love,,if you're rich and unattractive,mennn i will be wf u but wont stop me from rolling wf an attractive guy

The guy will be with your pussyyyy and that will not stop him from getting a modest girl.. Cool?

Like 4 real, this topic I just read really made my day. I presently know somebody who will buy me heaven and earth (if its possible). But he's d most boring guy I have ever hanged out with. Money isn't everything! One day, this same guy said that "he rather be rich and be sad than to be poor n be happy"! I took those words very serious! A guy should be able to make a woman happy without his money. Though not all women will buy this idea buh once you have a lady that demands too much, bros, I do advice u to find your way! Money trip lazy girls....who are called "Alapa ma ise se" (meaning, owners of hands that cannot work!)

Bros ur story too dey long o!!! Na so so man do woman nor do matter everytime.

Lol.
This is the thread

My verdict: OP you are right, and you are wrong too

Your personality brings the pretty girls, money keeps them

Without money, they'll just sleep with you whenever they like abd go marry someone else. Some may even return while married to someone else to have a fling or two

But you got the basic gist sha

CharlesNneji1:
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me.



www.facebook.com/attractbabes

LMAO I just showed my older brother this thread and after reading through, his response cracked me up.

"So men are busy hustling to nail the next million naira deals and this one is busy grooming future womanizers? These tips should be for secondary school boys because a full fledged man no matter how naive he might seem, would inexplicably be the best option for his destined wife."

He further explained his view in details but I can't type all that.

Really

|/|

KingBish:


LMAO I just showed my older brother this thread and after reading through, his response cracked me up.

"So men are busy hustling to nail the next million naira deals and this one is busy grooming future womanizers? These tips should be for secondary school boys because a full fledged man no matter how naive he might seem, would inexplicably be the best option for his destined wife."

He further explained his view in details but I can't type all that.

where have you been ?

Emphasis:
Make i buy land for the first time.

You're buying a Federal Government land allocated to ministers and former head of states and I hereby give you one month to vacate this property.

Nigerians!!!!! Did u have u have to tell us day you have a car and laptop??
Back to the topic at hand,guys with money don't move me.I look out for certain quality in a guy and if he doesn't have it even if his Dad is Dangote,am not moved.

KingBish:


LMAO I just showed my older brother this thread and after reading through, his response cracked me up.

"So men are busy hustling to nail the next million naira deals and this one is busy grooming future womanizers? These tips should be for secondary school boys because a full fledged man no matter how naive he might seem, would inexplicably be the best option for his destined wife."

He further explained his view in details but I can't type all that.

what is this one saying bro nice article. I rep you

i don't know why but this guys post is just too funny, teaching guys hw to toast girls? that is nt something you can learn online

morethanadoll:

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

Baby you got me. That's me right there

morethanadoll:

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

Sure?

I CHEER FOR U

SkinnyDude:
charles, what advise do you have for a guy who stutters? he's afraid of being embarrassed. he hasn't toasted any babe before, and havent dated. he feels he's not a boyfriend material.
how does he regain his confidence

eyaa!

well just so we're clear, you said 3 top reasons, and I've only seen just two...

This one just dey yarn balls...

Abeg I won go sleep! #adjusts AC #

CharlesNneji1:
#2. FEAR

Do you know that most guys shiver and sweat all over just at the mere THOUGHT of walking up to a girl they like - some of these guys even go as far as been single all their adult lives believing that when they get money it would be easier, at the end of the day they end up not been as rich as the thought they would be or end up having their mother look for a wife for them or end up marrying someone they don't like just because na only she gree for them, or end up (should i go on??).

I recently read a post by Farano on how "sweet" it is for guys to be shy sometimes.

Well, i guess the keyword there is SOMETIMES.

If you are the type who ALWAYS get the shivers EVERY SINGLE time you think of walking up to a girl you are interested in then you need to work on that fear ASAP.

See eh, most of the time all the terrible things you think will happen when you approach a girl will just not happen - trust me.

- She will laugh at me.
- She will embarrass me.
- She will shout at me if i talk to her....

All these are just your imagination playing tricks on you.

Yes, there are really childish saucy girls out there who will go all out to embarrass a guy just for saying hi.

But the truth is that most girls are really very nice wonderful tender things, only if you approach them right. The reaction You get from a girl will DEPEND ON HOW YOU APPROACH HER

- I mean; why would you walk up to a girl and say something silly like: "Hey, BABY " (You be American Gangster?)

- What do you expect when you walk up to a girl YOU ARE JUST MEETING for the first time and start telling her how much you love her (Of course she will embarrass you na). Girls of value don't fall for that trash.

- Why on earth will you expect to be respected by a girl when you can't even look her in the eye while you talk (By the way; will soon release a free report on how to eliminate fear of approaching girls; like my page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes to grab the info when it is released)

I know, guys who have this problem wish they can just take a pill that will completely eliminate the fear they feel around a girl they like.

But bro, here is the plain truth - in as much as you want sharp sharp easy change, the truth is that it will NEVER happen.

To eliminate the fear of approaching pretty girls, girls you like or every girl in general, you have to GRADUALLY work on yourself.

Over the years i have helped guys eliminate this fear using a method i call "Fine girl Chewing Gum". If you are shy around girls or feel afraid walking up to them, this strategy i am about to show you will help in drastically reducing that fear by 70%

Here is how it works:

- Look for a pretty girl who doesn't seem like the gossiping type (She must be very pretty).

- Walk up to her (feel free to tremble when you meet her), Tell her you want her help. tell her you get scared around girls and you believe hanging around her will help. at this point she will start to freak out, like, which kind mumu boy be this...don't let the eye she will give you get to you. Tell her you are not attracted to her, make she no fear - that all you want is just to be her friend. To hang around her

NOTE: DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH HER because IT WON'T WORK, A GIRL WHO KNOWS THAT YOU GET SCARED AROUND GIRLS WOULD NEVER FEEL A THING FOR YOU (unless you jaz her.

- After she has agreed to be your friend; start using her to improve - call her up, make conversation with her then ask her to tell you where and where you were boring, hang out with her. as in, become her buddy - she should be like your manest man - do practically everything with her (but don't overdo it, she is seeing you as a nuisance already - if you chewing gum the poor thing all the time it will freak her out).

Now here is why this strategy works so well in eliminating women related shyness in guys.

The more you get to know her the more you find out that girls are HUMAN - Just like you, she dey mess, she squeezes her face when passing out "stuffs" in the loo, her mouth stinks when she wakes up in the morning.

simple basic psychology 101; these realization makes you find her less intimidating and the more you find her less intimidating the more you find other girls less intimidating.

She will introduce you to her "fine fine" friends, plus plenty other benefits....

IT ALWAYS WORKS; i have watched over a hundred guys i have worked with use this simple psychology secret to improve.

When you keep approaching girls with the intention to date them, they will keep rejecting you when they notice your timidity, and the more they reject you the more your ego is hurt and the more timid you become.

You go soon marry, so invest in your social skill around girls or else na your mother go find woman for you

*smiles*

I reject it for you, bro.

Like how many "real" girls does the OP actually get? Its funny how you see single guys that can't get any girl come here on Nairaland and start writing articles about how to get girls!

gragraboy:

eyaa!

that's it

morethanadoll:

I agree with this statement. I don't care how much money a guy has. If he can't make me laugh, be romantic without spending a dime, and I don't enjoy being in his presence, all of his fortune means nothing. I make my own money and can provide for myself. I look for a man to grow old and share life with, not for the dollars.

hmmmm! Untill this world ends, you won't stop 'forming'
you need some to make you laugh, yo no know Basket mouth?

Computer6303:
well just so we're clear, you said 3 top reasons, and I've only seen just two...

I tire oo

It is not my thing to keep a girl's company while another nigger does the banging. Your "fine girl chewing gum" theory is pure foolishness. Let he who does the banging keep the company.