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author=favoured234 post=31780664]

Your level of education does not translate into how much you can make
...
If you strongly believe you have so much drive and can make so much
money then you should be seeing a mans money like picture.. (not yours),
in that same manner salary should be the last thing on the "ideal man"
list..[/quote]y u go get dis kin plenty sense? Nyc write up My dear!

Truckpusher:
Are you a monitoring spirit ?

I just gbadun ur presence....

Why are the ladies so mute here D question geh how e be hun

favoured234, you aren't mentioning no more?

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author=EggovinMma post=31780896]


I give so much care about the salary of who I decide to marry tomorrow.
My quest to acquire as much as I can is to give my children the best in
case of any ill eventuality. I refuse to accept such meagre salary,
although I really appreciate ladies who really don't see it as a
problem.
It all boils down to choice. [/quote] in one of ur post u said u are aimn for master's Degree,but seriously your mentality and they way you write seems like you jus get your WAEC,you dnt wrt or reason like an undergraduate.No dis-respect.


i use to wrk in a place wear i earn 4k per-month but in a day i make d list 10k sometimes 20k to 50k

[quote author=danbrowndmf post=31775843]Question For The Ladies, come tell us your Answer.

It's not about how much the guy earns, a person whom you got married to because he was earning 1 million yesterday may be earning 50k 2moro.
It's about who will value you and make you happy. At least he is earning something.

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

Oh na dis one SAI MUMU

....i wld give it a thought if she is ready and she is earning more than 50k per month...
I wont keep a girlfriend with such salary talkless of getting married.
Its not about the money...but for example here in p.h T. Fare alone,house rent,dstv sub. Nepa bills,foodstuff and mehn i ve got 3 siblings in school and my parents need an helping hand mehn.no babe self abeg.

chimkaire:
Why is there so much ado on what ''he'' earns? What does ''she'' earn Abi man be donkey nii
Some ladies who aint working will soon invade this thread with funny replies now. If he earns 50k now doesn't mean it won't increase as time goes on and if it's not okay by your lady, by all means, take a hike

hungry and poor naija girls always nosing around to know how much a man earns, how much do their fathers earn?

dasparrow:


The question you ought to be asking is: is N 50,000 naira enough to raise a family? After all, after marriage, you are going to knock your wife up right? And then junior will come along 9 months later. Pampers are expensive, baby food is expensive, daycare costs are climbing. You still have to pay rent, pay for transportation, feeds and take care of other miscellaneous expenses. Can N 50,000 take care of all that?

If you are indeed an intelligent man, you ought to know what N 50,000 naira is worth in today's Nigeria. You don't need to come in here asking your females if they can marry a man that is making N 50, 000 naira. Men like you are in a hurry to get married forgetting that it costs money to raise a family. When you dig yourself deeper into abject poverty, you begin to blame your leaders for your sorry predicament as if your leaders asked you to marry and have 4 children on a meagerly N 50,000 naira salary.

Be wise!

oga pls no vex I sign up today to be a fan of urs because this post of urs reeks too much wisdom.its actually funny how people are trying to castigate those saying no bearing in mind dat one can actually be one a 50k salary for 5yrs or more,and u wanting a family does dat makes u rational?Abeg women work hard o so not to depend on anyone salary because someone would soon ask of marriage with a 20k salary question.

hifaif:
favoured234, you aren't mentioning no more?

chairman you attention is needed in the phone section

50k is not a problm ,love answer all ting ,u can used and living above somebody with 1m,happiness joy ,peace is de makeup of marriage ,wen I was a corp member ,I have a corp member friend who I so cheer and love everyting about ,and I concluded in heart if dis younger man is ready even without work I will marry him,it take love to build a sucessful home ,every grate marriages today one day started smalll,please women is high time ,we seperate love from money ,so dat we don't miss God give opporunity,woman have to contribute to de wellbeing of his marriage ,financially ,spiritually and otherwise

favoryte33:
4rm ur write-up,I can see d level of ur mentality,,,,U have such a low IQ.

that's why shez egovinma it means foolishness dwells in. Spend your time on a reasonable comment bro

Ajekpakororo:

Who cares

You do and I know it!

majalisa:
chairman you attention is needed in the phone section

Me? What thread?

Edusouls:
hungry and poor naija girls always nosing around to know how much a man earns, how much do their fathers earn?

what is this one saying?

EggovinMma:


Lover ke?
Please suffer and love are like water and oil.
Love isn't everything. It's not rosy to live in povepoverty.its painful and unbearable. THE ONLY WAY I CAN DO THAT IS IF WE ARE LIVING IN VILLAGE WHERE THE STANDARD OF LIVING IS QUITE LOW.

If he earns this amount in some part of core North, deep in the states of south west, that's understandable. One can manage, but if na Lagos, Abuja, PH, abeg the guy no try at all to buy ring for my hand.

Na dis kind one dey feed e husband at last, shame no go let talk am come out

hifaif:


Me? What thread?

tweaks

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

you are that spirit of poverty you are binding, sorry for any man that will hook up with you as wife, cos once you invade his house with ur chronic poverty spirit, his finances will start to dwindle fast, and eventually he will end up bankrupt and miserable and he will start regreting why he married a human bad luck like you..how much do ur father earn before marrying ur mum, was it up to 50k? And you poor rif raf how much do you make a month? U are here casting and binding urself..

Acidosis:
With N200k/monthly, I won't think about marriage.


Mind you, N50k can sustain a family of 2 - 3 in some parts of Nigeria.

A man earning N50k in Damaturu, Ado-Ekiti or Oshogbo would surely live a better life than someone earning N120,000 & living in places like Maryland, Alausa (Lagos) etc.

I do not judge people by how much they make; my judgement is based on how well you have managed your resources over a period of time.

Some people have earned these 6-7 digits, and now back to zero level. I do not pray for such.

Exactly my point.in Ekiti,Osun and co fine....but in lag.,p.h, abuja....its undo able.

Bro if u noticed I wrote "met ur type" so knw I'm nt only refering to her,btw I'm igbo too imo state,orlu LGA,I love my people,but our girls too dey Bleep up

Caleycash:
abeg abeg,guy no carry d matter go tribal oo...she is on her own;Ogini di!!!

A girl who wants her husband to earn more than 50k should be ready to earn at least 50k. Otherwise she doesn't deserve a guy earning even the 50k.

majalisa:
tweaks

There is a mix up somewhere. I am not active in the phone section. I hardly go there.

God bless u,ur family and ur entire generations...people like her don't even have good paying jobs,their husbands are their ATM,all they hav to offer is pussy

Edusouls:
you are that spirit of poverty you are binding, sorry for any man that will hook up with you as wife, cos once you invade his house with ur chronic poverty spirit, his finances will start to dwindle fast, and eventually he will end up bankrupt and miserable and he will start regreting why he married a human bad luck like you..how much do ur father earn before marrying ur mum, was it up to 50k? And you poor rif raf how much do you make a month? U are here casting and binding urself..

sokotoburundi:
do u tink d pple dat are earning 50k dont like to earn better? Or they dont know GOD? Sometimes its jst a test frm GOD or nature, to test ur strength, ur toughness n ur willingness 4 a better life no guy on earth prays to earn 50k a month every body wants to make it but it boils down to if u really want to by show of ur character towards it.
If u like tell me ur father or u gr8 grandfather is rich b4 they met their wives, one of the line of the generatn of ur father must have started frm d bottom. Is jst like saying u must marry a guy earning 10m a month riding rollsroyce b4 u marry him. While ur mother married ur father dat doesnt even have keke napep then.

dont mind that foolish and very poor girl..she is the spirit of poverty herself, anyman that marries such a woman is dammned to chronic poverty and misery..

hifaif:


There is a mix up somewhere. I am not active in the phone section. I hardly go there.

sorry about it.i just realized that

3cycle:

Except you live in a mud house. 5ok is how much abeg? Be realistic

You must be born with a silver spoon? I am very realistic, nigga

EggovinMma:
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U dint ve to lay emphasy on the 'no',mere seeing ur pics shows that u jus finish a long term service..kip digging dem guys dry,the lord is ur strenght

EggovinMma:


My brother, that was during our mother's time.Where I come from, as an igbo gurl, my father made sure he slaved to give me the best, despite the fact he is not a graduate. I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN THATS LESS THAT MY FATHER. I CAN NOT EAT THERE SQUARE MEALS IN MY FATHERS HOUSE, ONLY TO EAT ONCE A DAY IN MY HUSBAND S HOUSE.THATS ILL LUCK.I should be the one earning that kind of amount to support my husband, and not him.Its not a sin o, but it's way below what I grew up with despite we weren't rich.BROS, ONCE AGAIN HOLY GHOST FIREEEEE! !

poor girl,you girls go around with the spirit of poverty you reject, holyghost fireee you to shreds.cos you are poverty herself and any man you encounter will naturaly go poor,you disaster ladies..

mrkel:




Thinking of getting married by December this year. Earning N65k at my present job in PH but is hopeful of securing a better job soonest. My reason of wanting to get married is to have a companion and not necessarily to start rearing children with my future wife. Looking at the possibility of starting the process of having kids in two years time.

So to your question, people have varied reasons for getting married. And life itself is all about planning and prioritizing your need. Life is progressive and as such you don't expect that N50k salary to be static do you?

In p.h Oga u try oh....i cant unless she has something doing and she wld be the one to make d decision we get married....ko easy oh

If he has another source of income I will. If he doesn't then Am I mad?

Actually, most girls don't see a probelm with initial salary, no matter the amount....

As a graduate then, my first salary was 25k, my girlfriend, was earning 27k, I still paid her tuition in a Federal Polythenic, and others. I lost my job, she left. About 7 months later I got a better one, That Sunday I attend our Church Branch where she worships also and gave a testimony which included displaying my official car keys. . .(Missing paragraphs)

Don't despise little beginnings as the "Good Books" says....