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Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
[size=13pt]Reasons why Girls/Ladies Date Older Men. 19 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:33pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
I don't date older men the so called older men that act like kids they expect you to reason the way they do automatically! I prefer a guy at most 5yrs older than me and we'll start from there and learn from each other. not one experienced old guy who will treat you as a kid! probably cheat on you,abuse sef most of them are abusive because of the wide gap in the age! 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
HIS EXPERIENCE COUNTS When it comes to sex, an older male is perceived as knowing his way around the bedroom. He's had to time to perfect his technique, and he can show his younger lover a good sexual time.With an older man, women don't expect any awkward moments in the dark. They expect the guy to know exactly what he is doing and to take the time to meet their needs. READY FOR COMMITMENT ady had time to experiment and play the field. Now, they are looking to settle down and commit to a long-term relationship or even to marriage. At this point in his life, he knows that he doesn't want to be alone, and he knows the type of woman who will make him happy. If they have not already had children with previous spouses, older men may wish to immediately marry and start a new family. BETTER AT COMMUNICATING ladies are drawn to older men because they are better communicators. Men with an age advantage of 15 years or more have already been through previous relationships. They have learned from their mistakes. They will try not to repeat these actions as they work on a new relationship. Older guys may dwell less on jealousy issues and instead focus on communicating clearly with you so that there will be no misunderstandings. He will be ready to work at makingthis relationship succeed. #YOLO 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by LogoDWhiz(m): 11:37pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
I agree with every point. Maturity, financial stability, experienced a lot of things, and they are secured. Well, I won't generalise this. Not all girls like older men. And not all older men have all this characteristics 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by NairalandPolice1(m): 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
What older men and younger women have in common is they are both suffering from different insecurities. She is looking for someone to make her feel safe, and he is looking for someone who doesn't answer back.. and that's a trophy. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
QED! There is nothing more to discuss. I often tell people, if I don't get married to my current girlfriend (with whom the age difference is almost non-existent), then my wife is either sucking _breasts or in kindergarten right now as you inferred. It's not rocket science really. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:39pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
mirexxx:You want to keep dating boys? 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by AbuMikey(m): 11:39pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
mirexxx: 14 Years in High School, no Holiday! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by emmysoftyou: 11:40pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
so that they can settled down on time with a guy who is serious with them cos of their old age, and not the young guys who are young in age and ready to hit nd run, i mean play ball and score goals.. cos no time. that matter to them. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
First of all, let's bare in mind that humans develop emotionally and cognitively with age. The older a guy is, the more experienced he becomes in many areas such as decision making, finance, handling stress, taking care of his partner and running a relationship He is able to make better decisions due to the knowledge garnered all through the years. He also becomes more mature in perception and judgment. We ladies believe that an older partner must have engaged in a relationship or two before ours so he would be shrewd in handling our own. We believe an older guy to be more emotionally stable than someone younger. Women naturally feel more relaxed being under a protective figure and we have a default perception to seeing older guys as such. Op, we shouldn't also eliminate the critical concept of love making Most ladies believe an older partner must definitely be more competent in satisfying their sexual needs. But I will always say this, ~ Whenever two people genuinely love each other, "Age" becomes but mere figures. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy: dude, for that to stick, you may need to change your moniker to "naijaman", to let the ladies know that a boy becomes a man 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by falconey(m): 11:42pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
finally naijaboiy opens a thread. I disagree with number3 older guys cheat more. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Enegod(m): 11:43pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
I can't wait to get old 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:43pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
emmysoftyou:But is it really all about marriage though? 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 11:44pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
mirexxx: U prefa boys denn. U wld play d suga mummy role perfectly well. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:45pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy:i never said i date boys na lol i dont like older men! not older than me with above 5yrs most of em behave like little boys |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:46pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
kinglekan:I call u tell you that one? |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:47pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
AbuMikey:whatchu saying? |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:47pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Date/marry an older guy then end up being a widow by 40 7 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:48pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
GhostProtocol:Lol...the boy is still in the transformation process. |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by nanauju(f): 11:49pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
All I can say is that the thread has potentials. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by marieolae(f): 11:50pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Nice thread sha Well it depends on the stage that you're in. I agree that an 18 year old lady has no business with a 28 year old man.. That falls back to the stage she's presently in A 28 year old woman dating a 40 year old man.. I don't see anything wrong with that. What do you think naijaboiy? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by emmysoftyou: 11:50pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy:exactly bro |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 11:51pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Yes it is. Our parents hustled together in their time. Hardly will you see a large percentage of girls nowadays interested in "starting from scratch" and that's where the age factor comes in. The only sensible one among the girls you interviewed is the one that mentioned (Financial) Security/Stability. That's all there is to it and the end point is marriage. At least for Nigerian girls. |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by kinglekan: 11:52pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by daveP(m): 11:52pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Dygeasy:lol well@ bolded that babarinsa(lect) that loves calculus would write and solve and solve on the board then write@ bolded at the end. @topic- i concur. Yet to see a lady that denied almost all of the above reasons. Even though the older guy is ALWAYS CHEATING. Seen a case and these ladies(prolly use girls rather), know and yet live under such all cos the guy dey work. Theyre not even sure if he'l obey Gustavo's law of Rag Utility by his next actions. Hmm |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
mirexxx:. . Isn't it ironic that that D!LDO you love so much is a replica of MASCULINE penile appendage? Keep living in the grandeur of self-delusion. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Ahh, I see... Just like the caterpillar morphs into a butterfly, your wings are on their way. |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
falconey:Lol,,i always drop a thread with care. And it's always a hit As for the disagreement,,the ladies will have to explain to us I guess. |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by naijaboiy: 11:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by Dygeasy(m): 11:55pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
daveP:And what the _fuck in hell would Gustavo's law of Rag Utility be? |
Re: Reasons Why Girls/ladies Date Older Guys. by mirexxx(f): 11:56pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
kinglekan:oya no p |
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