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When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 5:23pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine. Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth. After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant. Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy. I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended. The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet. Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons. 90 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by ireneidiva(f): 5:41pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Stop going about experimenting with/without condoms. How can you even comfortably sleep with a lady without protecting yourself? Are you a kid? Your sense should tell you that any lady that insists on sex without condoms has an ulterior motive. Last bullet- abstinence will protect you from these 'evil' ladies. Duh 292 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 5:55pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ireneidiva: Well, I'm yet to come across a woman who insists of using condoms unless she's a prostitute. You didn't comment on the "other" issue about my friend though or have you suddenly invented "selective commentary" to compliment "selective reading"? Btw, I'm now married and safe from those "evil" ladies 203 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by stalwart123(m): 6:27pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
There is God 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by ireneidiva(f): 6:32pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
hahn:I said you should abstain. That should solve the problem. 44 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 6:36pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ireneidiva: And I said I'm married. That has solved the problem I was hoping you'd have an advice for the women as well or is there no solution for such bitchy tendencies? 186 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 6:37pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
stalwart123: I feel you bro. Women are the greates schemers 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Nobody: 6:45pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
So wat do u want to do on her weddin day She lied whc was bad but she was ur girlfrnd @ dat time so y did u want her to pay back? And am sure d money in question is not even up to 50k. Na wa oh! stalwart123: 16 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by ireneidiva(f): 6:47pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
hahn:No solution. Anybody that can't abstain should take anything he sees. 39 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Nobody: 6:59pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
stalwart123: what will you do on her wedding day, tell the congregation she has aborted for you. Na wa for some men oo. better thank God you didnt get and life threatening STD. Forget the whole issue afterall she is no longer in your life. 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 7:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ireneidiva: And "she" can continue lying and deceiving guys. How nice So men can be responsible for their actions while women can't? I'm going to add this to reasons why women can't be equal to men 80 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 7:35pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
sexybaby22: I agree with this. Thank God and move on Good riddance to bad rubbish 4 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by ireneidiva(f): 8:10pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
hahn:Women are already equal to men.' Male and female he created and called them Adam'. Well, you can add it if it will help you sleep well this night. Bye 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by jmoore(m): 8:17pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
How can a lady trap me with pregnancy, huh? No be you dey spread your seeds carelessly. 26 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by teasel: 8:22pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
Some males are so chicken brained. You leave yourselves vulnerable to deception, then, you come here to complain. How foolish! 68 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 8:33pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
ireneidiva: Lol. Now, that's the funniest nonsense I've heard all year since FFK said he had a brain. Relationships are not ego competitions. Add that to your wacky list. Bye 64 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by bukatyne(f): 8:48pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
@ OP: I am very surprised When the lady lies to the guy she is pregnant and they start wedding plans, How does she now put the pregnancy in her tummy? Or does she have an ex on standby? Stupid lies ladies tell You know: you will sleep with a guy and lie you are a virgin Will not collect money for abortion and lie you are pregnant You want to marry a guy and lie about your family You want to marry a guy and be forming like you don't poo Yeye 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by cococandy(f): 1:32am On Apr 13, 2015 |
All these withdrawal method guys. Una never see anything. 91 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by JoeCutie(m): 7:10am On Apr 13, 2015 |
cococandy:Withdrawal method?! From which ATM machine? 59 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 8:35am On Apr 13, 2015 |
teasel: So, loving and trusting your woman even to the point that you're willing to be responsible for the pregnancy if indeed it is yours makes us "chicken brained" and vulnerable to deception, right? So, basically any man that neglets his responsibility and leaves the woman to take care of the child on her own is the smart one. I like this concept and I'm sure many reading this will take your advice. Thanks for the tip 68 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 8:38am On Apr 13, 2015 |
cococandy: With the kind ofnts coming from the females on this thread its apparent that any lady that schemes and gets pregnant should also be ready to take care of the child herself or abort it. Na una never see anything 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by VintageCocktail(m): 10:21am On Apr 13, 2015 |
When They Come With The Phony Pregnancies, Just Chip In That It Cant Be Cos You Are Impotent. Withdrawal Guys Should Keep Off This. 10 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by freecocoa(f): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Chai! I wonder what these men are feeling like o. I blame the women who give you the impression, their lives depend on you, mschew. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 10:42am On Apr 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: Off point 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Wendy80(f): 11:29am On Apr 13, 2015 |
2weeks into a relationship and u are Doing it RAW already na wa oh And who said withdrawal method doesn't fail? Gone are d days when Men marry cos 'she's pregnant for me' i know some ladies who are single mother cos of this. For me, a Man who u have to trap with Pregnancy to get him to marry U isn't a Serious one. #my2cent 86 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 11:34am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Wendy80: Brainy response But you didn't say anything about women who use these tactics to trap men 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by richyblink1(m): 11:47am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Don't really know what our society is turning into, some ladies are carried away with bearing Mrs that they will go any length to drag a guy in. Years back I overheard my ex and her friend disccusing that she should get pregnant for me since I am a working class and ripe enough age wise. Her friend suggested to her that she intentionally get pregnant so we could get married. Two months later she told me that she was pregnant, I said wow! So I am going to be a father, she said yes oh! Then I asked her to start preparing for antenatal. I visited her and suggested that she start getting things for baby etc. She flared up saying I have not talked about coming to see her people and stuffs. I told her I am ready to meet with them as the father of the baby, not for any other thing. After two weeks I called her to know if she has spoken to her people so I could come over with my peeps to identify as the father of the child and provide all necessary support that might be required of me. She immediately cut me short saying she is not pregnant and that I should never call her again, that she is not pregnant, that she has seen that I don't want to marry her bla bla bla! That was the end of the pregnancy and relationship. Men, be weary of any girl that is so anxious of marriage without wanting to know you better, they can go any length to trap you 177 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by Wendy80(f): 11:55am On Apr 13, 2015 |
hahn:I don't support any act of deception to coerce a man or a woman into marriage. That's Fraud. 40 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 12:08pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Wendy80: GBAM! 13 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by hahn(m): 9:20am On May 16, 2020 |
Lalasticlala how far? 4 Likes |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by woky: 9:32am On May 16, 2020 |
Thread since 2015 how many kids the woman don born now ? 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them by CAPSLOCKED: 9:55am On May 16, 2020 |
hahn: BASED ON HOW THIS KIND MATTERS DE MOVE MARKET THESE DAYS, LOLOSTICLOLO SUPPOSE MOVE US GO FRONT AFTER 5 WHOLE YEARS. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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