hahn:
I have this business associate. Last year, he told me he was getting married and even invited me to the wedding that was supposed to happen in Delta state. He did tell me she was pregnant and as a good guy that he was he decided to marry her and finally settle down. Fast forward to some months back, I was chatting with him on bbm and I asked him about his "wife" and he told me she was fine.

Concidentally, the next day I was on the Island running businesss when I met him going to the bank. He told me to follow him since I had finished all my transactions. Then I asked him again, "how's your wife?" And I got the shocker of my life, they weren't married. Here's the story: apparently, just about a week to the wedding, his fiance's ex came with some elders to meet him and explained to him that he, the ex, is actually the owner of the pregnancy and since he is not interested in getting married to the lady and he doesn't want his child to grow up with someone else or even exist he came to tell my friend the truth.

After enough consultations with some elders, he took his time and told his wife-to-be that they should go on 3 days fasting. After the first day he told her that the spirit of God revealed to him that there was something she was hiding from him(yes, he'll make a good pastor) and after enough pushing she eventually confessed. Apparently she still had the fear of God in her. In her confession she said she and her ex had a one nighter when he travelled for business. Obviously the wedding was cancelled and till today he has been unable to explain why he cancelled the wedding to his parents because they really loved the girl and sent money to her when they discovered she was pregnant.

Believe it or not, this same lady got married to someone else this year and again she was "pregnant" for the guy.

I have had a similar experience, my ex and I were doing it raw but since I was applying the withdrawal method, she decided to lie that she was pregnant barely 2 weeks into the relationship(she don see mugu). I told her no problem and a week later she was on her period. She later claimed she "made a mistake". Needless to say the relationship ended.

The funny thing is these ladies will suddenly flare up when you suggest or attempt to use a condom. Is this the new trend? Since these ladies have nothing to offer that will convince the guy to marry them they have to use these tactics. OR probably, they are in love with the guy but feel he needs a little bit of "convincing" because he feels he isn't ready yet.

Guys share your experiences. Ladies, give us your reasons.

austinofo:

So even the small colourless drops can impregnate a due female?

Eulalia:
The op sounds so excited about his sexcapades. Very childish.

#saynotopremaritalsex

hahn:

And "she" can continue lying and deceiving guys. How nice
So men can be responsible for their actions while women can't?
I'm going to add this to reasons why women can't be equal to men

Michealky:
Nairaland dey run out of topic. Lol

Ishilove:

donemzy115:
This topic don bring back memories...mine was far implicating than this jor...she told me she was pregnant,lolz..na so pampering start oooh.will always call to see if she okay,she will complain of back pain,headache, breast pain,vomiting blablabla,,,I was like true true my babe don get belle...after like a month + she called me that she is in the hospital she doesn't even know how she landed at the hospital..mumu me,I begin shake like agidi..I called one of her friend that took her to the hospital and she said she fainted..and I was like,well allmost all the signs don show..going to 2 months I couldn't keep it to myself and I had to inform my mum about it...when I told her about my intension to tell my mum,she said I should wait when she comes back.since she travelled..las las I told my mum without waiting for her..after like a week,she came back,.she didn't even wait for me to welcome her with a hug or kiss,she knelt

BuddhaPalm:
No be today...

Na the same format King Solomon mumsie, Bathsheba, use trap David, for Bible.

Kerfuffle:
Nowadays, if you don't open your eyes, you'll be consumed raw- bones and all.

A lot of ladies now keep various sexual partners, and have sex with them without protection. When they observe that they are pregnant, they'll pin it on the most naïve and/or richest maga among them.

This practice is strangely common among single mothers (not widows or divorcees, SINGLE MOTHERS with Bastards as children). Never let a girl trap you with such abomination when you are much convinced that it is not yours. If you do, it will SURELY end in HOT, BLOODY TEARS. Most of the the reports I've been hearing has to do with single mothers.

If you as a single, educated guy is facing this kind of dilemma, and she insists that the pregnancy is yours when you are very much convinced that it is not yours, be patient and start documenting every kobo you've spent on the pregnancy. Once she delivers, opt for a DNA test (it is between the range of 50,000-200,000), and once the result is out, sue her, her family and all those whom where supporting her. Ensure you get back all your single kobo, and get a police order (some few thousands should get you one) barring her from ever contacting you again.

The whole process is worth the hustle, and never be like that Uncle who accepted a pregnancy that it's not his. 20-30 years later, it will lead to tears!

For ladies out there who are currently engaging in reckless sexual behaviours, do ensure to quit ASAP, and change, for ladies who are trying to pin another man's child on a wrong father. Best rest assured that once you're busted, be prepared to lose any or all of these- your dignity, your worth, social standing and in extreme cases your very life. Also, be prepared to accept the following-shame, the crumbs of the crumbs among men, being used and dumped. Ladies, steer clear, you'll almost always be at the losing end if you engage in such. Steer clear from pre-marital sex.



NOTE: I dislike and discourage fornication/adultery. Don't involve yourself if you are not up to the wahala that will ensure. Let's keep pure.

Kerfuffle:
Nowadays, if you don't open your eyes, you'll be consumed raw- bones and all.

A lot of ladies now keep various sexual partners, and have sex with them without protection. When they observe that they are pregnant, they'll pin it on the most naïve and/or richest maga among them.

This practice is strangely common among single mothers (not widows or divorcees, SINGLE MOTHERS with Bastards as children). Never let a girl trap you with such abomination when you are much convinced that it is not yours. If you do, it will SURELY end in HOT, BLOODY TEARS. Most of the the reports I've been hearing has to do with single mothers.

If you as a single, educated guy is facing this kind of dilemma, and she insists that the pregnancy is yours when you are very much convinced that it is not yours, be patient and start documenting every kobo you've spent on the pregnancy. Once she delivers, opt for a DNA test (it is between the range of 50,000-200,000), and

Stacyomolola:

U could be married but there are still chances for a second wifey

farem:


Chai, the godless are troubled. What a life outside the counsel of God.

Romans 1:28 (KJV) And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

richAgnostic:
please rephrase it to When olosho nigerian gold digger women Lie That They Are Pregnant Just To Trap Guys Into Marrying Them because women from usa, australia, singapore etc dont do this. stop tarnishing women image

lukui:
DNA test is the solution, just codedly get strands of your kids hair or blood and take tests for all of them. From there you will know whether she has been faithful with you all this while.

Women have been robbing men since 1910, they will just lie flat on their back, the idiot monkey will be going up and down, sweating profusely while they do nothing. And if she is "full house " wife, the guy don die be that. She will inherit all your properties and finally give you "rice and sniper". Adios amigo,

Before you lie/sleep with a woman, always have a back up plan, they are like the devil, no crime dinning with him, but use a looooooooooooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggg spoon!!

BaddaMan:
My elder brother was a victim as at 2017 his girlfriend claims to be pregnant that was how bro went ahead and get married to her 1yr later there was no baby. The wife later claimed the pregnancy got terminated due to stress I can tell you since then till last year she never tested positive for any pregnancy test, as at last year elder bro find out she has been cheating on him with her boss at work.... guys look before you leap.

richyblink1:
Don't really know what our society is turning into, some ladies are carried away with bearing Mrs that they will go any length to drag a guy in.

Years back I overheard my ex and her friend disccusing that she should get pregnant for me since I am a working class and ripe enough age wise. Her friend suggested to her that she intentionally get pregnant so we could get married.

Two months later she told me that she was pregnant, I said wow! So I am going to be a father, she said yes oh! Then I asked her to start preparing for antenatal. I visited her and suggested that she start getting things for baby etc. She flared up saying I have not talked about coming to see her people and stuffs. I told her I am ready to meet with them as the father of the baby, not for any other thing.

After two weeks I called her to know if she has spoken to her people so I could come over with my peeps to identify as the father of the child and provide all necessary support that might be required of me.
She immediately cut me short saying she is not pregnant and that I should never call her again, that she is not pregnant, that she has seen that I don't want to marry her bla bla bla!

That was the end of the pregnancy and relationship.

Men, be weary of any girl that is so anxious of marriage without wanting to know you better, they can go any length to trap you




You're absolutely right, however, the society doesn't make easier on women, even here on naira land, 'evening newspaper' is the term they use. This is part of reason why some of them take this drastic measures to change their status. I am totally not in support of this, I also feels its devilish and reeks of desperation, but families and society should cut them some slack, and understand that most people don't react well to pressure.