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| Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes at one time or the other. And as the adage says "To sin is human,but to forgive is divine" But I have noticed that it is always difficult for ladies that have issues out of wedlock to get a man that will love and marry them. After all,having a child isn't a disease. Why is this so? 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Fairgodwin(m): 2:44pm On Apr 14, 2015*. Modified: 3:03pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
I am really interested in this topic. Because I have often wonder why as well. It isn't so much of a big deal for guys who already have kid(s) to get hook up and or be married but so much of a big deal for the ladies. Why is it so? Why is the society so unfair to women? And in some cases, it wasn't a fault of these ladies as some of them might have been victims of rape which ultimately resulted in the pregnancies, and of course, abortion was never an option (for them). Yet we fail to see reasons and embrace them as well as give them a second chance just the way we do the guys. Like the poster below just said, maybe they truly don't want extra liability. But what about the lady who would have to take care or start looking after the guy's child from his ex? Isn't that some form of "extra liability" on the part of the guy as well? And even in some, if not most cases, the lady wouldn't bring the child into their 'new home' so as not to put "extra liability" on the guy, yet most guys would still not want such (single mothers) women. So what do we call this? Hypocrisy or simply Insensitivity? 35 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Nursy(f): 2:47pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Cos the men don't want extra liability  26 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by KillerBeauty(f): 3:00pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Getting married as a single mother is challenging because..... I seriously don't know what to say Sorry op  10 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:13pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Duh!!! Who says its hard to get suitors? They keep rolling in in triple folds U attract what u want biko I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them Even singles never get that kain attention Bikonu speak for yourself alone Its no freaking challenge Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk No time to waste *whistling* And wiggle comes to mind 66 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by elomepee: 3:15pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Selfishness and Greed. Its the blood that flow in the men. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:19pm On Apr 14, 2015*. Modified: 5:13pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
It's not an issue and the challenge with regards to availability certainly isn't restricted to single mothers The fact of the matter is, available single men are fast becoming an extremely rare commodity. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:25pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3:*rolls eyes* 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:26pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:Na lie? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:28pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3:Yes 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:30pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
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| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:32pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3: 16 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:36pm On Apr 14, 2015*. Modified: 5:15pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Dyt:Lobatan The world is certainly your oyster with that mind-set of yours It's all about: accepting status quo, not feeling sorry for oneself, being happy and comfortable in own skin then see how the above conditions will transform you into an attractive young woman that most men would want to associate with. It's really as simple as that 8 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:38pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3: 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:39pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:40pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:41pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:Just say YES and see me dance skelewu |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:48pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3:I want u dance snake in the monkeys shadow 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 3:49pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt is that the kind of men that are looking for single mums up and down Basically they are taking other peoples men |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 3:52pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:Bo ya lo mo wipe sharp shooter ni mi I go always find my way to my fav destination oya na 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:54pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:All I am saying is no man is single They have women they just lie We accept the lies n still love them  All that matters is just be the main n highest shareholder Lobatan  Don't worry, I dont intend coming close to u U hear *and I haven't met a man that's got issues with single mums, like I said, u attract ur likes* 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 3:55pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
jaybee3:Clown I miss you too |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by jaybee3(m): 4:02pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:05pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:I get this part and it is debatable it is an opinion I was more interested in your statement that I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them whats the proportion of the lucky single women to the population 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:19pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Like I said You attract ur likes Being a single mum don't mean they can't be the the best things to happen to a man Abi the only thing that qualifies a man to marry a woman is if she's never had a child? 5 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:21pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:No.. that is not the only thing That was not my question You said you know lots of cases where having a child is not an issue explain further The OP says it is a challenge You say it is not Clarify 8 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by cKaiser: 4:22pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Most men wont want the drama involved with Single mothers Some of them are still emotionally involved with their ex baby daddy Some carry the baggage of what their baby daddy did to them into their new relationship There is always the fear that the child/children from the previous marriage after spending a lot on them would never see you as their father and would still look for their own biological father Moreover single girls are in excess demand, why would one need to go for an after 1? 50 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:36pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:37pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:okido ma |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:39pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by pickabeau1: 4:42pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dyt:wetin I go do na I agree with you perfectly that there are more enlightened relationships between guys and single moms the issues are still there and need to be well managed |
| Re: Why Is It A Challenge For Single Mum's To Get Married? by Dyt(f): 4:45pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Oya wiggle for me |
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