XBLadez:

Pride or self-consolation?

Dyt:


Beau beau
Do you personally have issues with single mum?
True true

pickabeau1:


I don't

However you can never consider a single mom without putting the child in context

I have no issues with ex..

That's the truth

egbedore:
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes at one time or the other. And as the adage says "To sin is human,but to forgive is divine"

But I have noticed that it is always difficult for ladies that have issues out of wedlock to get a man that will love and marry them. After all,having a child isn't a disease.

Why is this so?

Dyt:


Are you thinking of a second wife?

True true

pickabeau1:


Lol..i don't get how this came about
But no

EddyWorld:


Sounds somehow but it's the hard truth without mincing words...

Dyt:


So what's with your child consideration
Na you wan marry her?
Just give your own lil input
But you keep stressing it like you are thinking of bringing home another woman


That your no
Hmmmmmm

pickabeau1:


I meant only few guys will not mind raising another man's child
There is a chance the child will not even appreciate the sacrifice

Timbuktou:


What is the wisdom in marrying a woman with an 8yo child? What makes that one a hypocrite for telling his friend the truth. Why marry a single mother when you can have your pick of a better demographic. I'm afraid, that guy was right. A new car has more value than second, third, or fourth hand. It's simple logic, really.

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

cKaiser:
Most men wont want the drama involved with Single mothers

Some of them are still emotionally involved with their ex baby daddy

Some carry the baggage of what their baby daddy did to them into their new relationship

There is always the fear that the child/children from the previous marriage after spending a lot on them would never see you as their father and would still look for their own biological father

Moreover single girls are in excess demand, why would one need to go for an after 1?

Dyt:


In your own case do you mind?


A child is a child
Whatever you nurture them with is what they grow up to know
If its with love
You get it Ib return
And if its the other way
Do you expect miracles?

Even applies to your own children

Dyt:


So how many gfs you got
Don't lie?

1stola:

Dreamer
Dey der dey deceive ursef
See her mouth like u attract what u like
U are a shît and you think you can attract flies...

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

MadCow1:
Op.

Wiggles...

egbedore:
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes at one time or the other. And as the adage says "To sin is human,but to forgive is divine"

But I have noticed that it is always difficult for ladies that have issues out of wedlock to get a man that will love and marry them. After all,having a child isn't a disease.

Why is this so?

Nursy:
Cos the men don't want extra liability

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

Dyt:


Why you mad?

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

cKaiser:
Most men wont want the drama involved with Single mothers

Some of them are still emotionally involved with their ex baby daddy

Some carry the baggage of what their baby daddy did to them into their new relationship

There is always the fear that the child/children from the previous marriage after spending a lot on them would never see you as their father and would still look for their own biological father

Moreover single girls are in excess demand, why would one need to go for an after 1?

sconp:
in cases where contraceptives fail??

Dyt:
Duh!!!
Who says its hard to get suitors?

They keep rolling in in triple folds
U attract what u want biko
I know lots of single mums that men are pleading to marry them
Even singles never get that kain attention
Bikonu speak for yourself alone
Its no freaking challenge
Accept me with my baggage or take a long walk
No time to waste
*whistling*
And wiggle comes to mind

iyknaz:
U sound like u'v been overused. How many children do u hav now outside wedlock? 10? No man will beg a lady with kids for marriage in this part of the world, except if the guy is handicapped, has a low self-esteem, blind, poor and needs the lady for financial support or just plain stupid. Y should I, with my money settle for an overused lady with a child or children when there are a lot of young, fresh and untouched ladies out thr.

creepsyme:
you are the best. I was actually wondering if the op is a part if this world, as a matter of fact men prefer single mothers these days cos its a comfort to them that the lady is fertile.