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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Apr 16, 2015
Bbella:
I cannot,i have done in the past but,What was my reward at the end of the day.No man is worth suffering for.Make he stay the self contain when he get beta house we go,date..#icantform
walahi,1000likes for u,take it

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2015
blessing100:
Self contain beta na, what of one room?
eish,God forbid
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by prettyrosiemua(f): 3:51pm On Apr 16, 2015
I thought of this question for a while and the truth is I can't. But then there are guys that prefer having a house of their own than renting a duplex with a ridiculous amount as rent.I could consider such guys.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2015
Shezhawt:


Because I wouldn't know...


What you want??
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mulattoclaro(m): 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2015
zinachidi:
wow, congrats bruh.
thanks man.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Apr 16, 2015
hayoakins:



That's a mini flat not a selfie.

A self contain is only a bedroom with bathroom,kitchen and without a livingroom/parlour
choii
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by eleshin(m): 3:55pm On Apr 16, 2015
sexyseun:
bla bla bla... For ur information an average self contained in v.I costs about 400-1M per annum. Other axis in Lagos It cost about 200-500 PA so its not that cheap, back to the Topic, only matured and most likely working class/business ladies can properly answer the question as they know what it takes to make money, I will gladly stay with him and marry him in a self contained apartment
Thanks a lot for this cos v been wondering if these Posters knows how much a self-con goes for in Lag? By the way must Marriage/sustainability of it be a responsibility for d Guy alone? We'r talking about Marriage here not just ordinary dating. If a young guy earns 120K I'd expect his wife to earn 70K to compliment the family's income. A wife should always be a stakeholder when it comes to Family building. Well most of the female replies r from Undergrads with bf/gf mentality.You don't deserve a guy with self-con if you can't be his Kryptonite to build Mansion.

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by komzyb(f): 3:57pm On Apr 16, 2015
pbs4real:
dis ur hairstyle is it punk?
no...is not
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Apr 16, 2015
InestamablJewel:


AM ABOUT AND GUESS WHAT! HE'S LIVING A ONE ROOM APARTMENT, AND AM VERY COOL WITH IT. ITS NOT ABOUT THE ROOM
SO ITS NOT AN ISSUE OF IF I CAN, AM DOING IT....
and u re happy with dat
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by pretty050(f): 4:00pm On Apr 16, 2015
No big deal for starters, but we can't have babies there. No privacy
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by mirexxx(f): 4:01pm On Apr 16, 2015
pbs4real:
Lolz,i knw ur type,dt insults any1 on a faceless forum. . And again u sound lyk u nt even 17yet,if u re nt up 2 21yrs and abv and u hv guts 2 tel me 2 shut up cos its a faceless forum,the thunder that wld fire u is on 5k press-ups. . .
cry me a lagoon!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Apr 16, 2015
MojAyo:
hmmm,why d hate now
Which hate?
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 16, 2015
bellychiz:



Back to sender!


You dey inside poverty, you dey send am back to me

You well so?
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Apr 16, 2015
malonephill:
because have been coming to your house for stuff......?

Mind your business


Poor guy.


Go and work
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by ireneidiva(f): 4:05pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:



Another poverty woman sighted.



Mennn I love sighting women with poverty disease grin
It's your sisters that are poverty sighted(whatever that means). With my own contribution, we will be able to afford a much better accommodation. Now go ahead and kill yourself as you don't like my opinion.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nnemuka(f): 4:05pm On Apr 16, 2015
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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by niggi4life(m): 4:10pm On Apr 16, 2015
sexyseun:
bla bla bla... For ur information an average self contained in v.I costs about 400-1M per annum. Other axis in Lagos It cost about 200-500 PA so its not that cheap, back to the Topic, only matured and most likely working class/business ladies can properly answer the question as they know what it takes to make money, I will gladly stay with him and marry him in a self contained apartment
sexyseun May God bless you for your input that is just so correct. Many of d girls shouting No can't even afford a single room rent yet they can't stay with a guy in a self contain. So many girls will end up single for the rest of their lives with this their mentality, little do they know that marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend.
I and my wife share the house rent bills with many other bills without any complain. We used to live in a self contain somewhere around egbeda b4 moving to a 2bd at ajah due to our work place. Now we are almost done building our own 4bedroom bungalow around same ajah axis. Joint effort, we both planned, invested and saved
Marriage is not for Lazy men or Women who can't start from small.

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Apr 16, 2015
Y not,it's gud for starters........provided I ve my privacy and dats wat matters alot

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by initiate: 4:14pm On Apr 16, 2015
emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

smiley

are you saying you don't know any family living in self contain abi which kind question be dis sef

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Apr 16, 2015
Nnemuka:

So your dead brain just assumed all Nigerians and Naairalanders live in Lagos?.
What makes you think I can't afford a rent of 500k?
And who said all nairalanders stay in Lagos dummy? I just gave u an insight of a place in Nigeria citing Lagos as a reference and u dare call me dead brain, u must be silly, stewpid and honestly u can't afford a 500K apartment, I know your type, anuofia
Mscheeeeeew

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by creamynuela88: 4:17pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store

That is a one bedroom flat. A self contain is a room with mini kitchen n bathroom. Pls don't b biased oh.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Maximus85(m): 4:19pm On Apr 16, 2015
ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

Mature
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by yinqus445(f): 4:22pm On Apr 16, 2015
As d matter of fact we just get one self. I can settle down wit him very well
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by malonephill(m): 4:22pm On Apr 16, 2015
Solowande:
Maybe becos ur fingers dey equal
you get it all wrong, everybody do plan how he/she life want to be, this is what I want and I mean......
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by creamynuela88: 4:23pm On Apr 16, 2015
Ivanspring:
As long as i'm in love with him, where we live will be heaven (to me) until things get better.

Do things get better in heaven?? Heaven is already at its best that's y it's called Heaven!! grin
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Apr 16, 2015
Adaeze003:


It's my opinion... and when you blink out of "lala" land where everything is magical you'll find that it's the truth... until then, you are in no position to say it's wrong. wink

fallacy...

well if thats your opinion, you have to wake up from your megamicro brain...cos i see no human wishing he/herself poor.

have you ever heard of little beginning?

all you said is vacuity(emptiness), keep it to your world alone...dont discourage people from sticking to their man in time of difficulties.
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by malonephill(m): 4:26pm On Apr 16, 2015
cutepaul:




[size=14pt]ur initial statement was a bit harsh and self acclaiming.....#datsall[/size]
that's the way I know how to say it better bro!
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by malonephill(m): 4:27pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:



Poor guy.


Go and work
undecided
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Dcaliphate(m): 4:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
mirexxx:
cheesy yeah!
u will teeeey in the bustop
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
Viciyus:

Which hate?
ask urself again
Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Apr 16, 2015
2dice:

hmnn
wat of a guy with a salary btw of 70-100k.. Any hope for the dude?
jokes apart most girls don't see beyond 24hours, some even see lesser, they are only interested in what is in for them today, a guy earning 70-100k with proper vision is much better than one who earns 500k with no concrete plans, that's why you see some bank managers being sacked today and in a month's time they are broke (no future plans at all)
I rather stay with a guy "We" can both build our dreams together irrespective of what he earns

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Re: Ladies: Would You "Settle Down" With Him In A Self-Contain? by Bola4mi(f): 4:29pm On Apr 16, 2015
Abeg all this men they dont worth it jor,u go suffer with them now for self contain,when they make it they will show u pepper.

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