Slimzjoe:


You wey Hate Sacrifices and 'Suffering' ??

lol me? well nobody likes to suffer

~ What is self-contain ...? Empty bank account?

Adaeze003:


Nope! It's just room kitchen and toilet...


Mehn... I aint asking for too much but self contain we can as well join resources n get a proper apartment...

Some people just wishing hardship on themselves just to look good on nl... and telling fairy tales up and down. yes, I know people who rose from grass to grace but some didn't too! It's life, that you're poor today doesn't give you license to be rich tomorrow... lets tell ourselves the truth sometimes...

If you go into such with the mindset of "self con today, duplex tomorrow" and the duplex doesn't come you will get frustrated! #fact so before you go ahead to wish yourself hardship, you better tell yourself that it may stay that way forever then if duplex comes, fine.

Lemme not forget to say that women now work(for those still living in 1914). Work and try to get the things you want biko. And if his ego is too huge that he won't let you contribute, he's adviced to use that huge ego and refuse to live in a self con as well.

hmmm alright

amokeme:
it will be easy to clean sef

a big mansion with lots of maids n workers is just fine
chores are stressful

Ipledge:
will U live with ur husband in a Studio

your dad didn't keep your mom in a studio and you wanna live in a studio with your wife? ain't u wicked?

U sooo wish.... Lol, a bedroom, small bathroom, petite kitchen.com dats all.

mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store

mirexxx:
lol me? well nobody likes to suffer

Lol....that's right tho

Are you not yet sleepy??

Good night in Adv

mirexxx:
your dad didn't keep your mom in a studio and you wanna live in a studio with your wife? ain't u wicked?

well believe me or not,i wanna start my family in a Studio,and buy house after two years...U don fail

cocoberry:
U sooo wish.... Lol, a bedroom, small bathroom, petite kitchen.com dats all.

mehn u guys are taking this self contain ish seriously! there are different types u know!

dechandel:
Choi..

Nairaland girls eeh¿? I bow for them o

U never sleep

Ipledge:
well believe me or not,i wanna start my family in a Studio,and buy house after two years...U don fail

lol fail ke
bye am out!

Slimzjoe:


Lol....that's right tho

Are you not yet sleepy??

Good night in Adv

lol
goodnyt

mirexxx:
lol fail ke
bye am out!

Why U con dey run

doris4u:
I don't see anything wrong wit settling wit a guy staying in a self con as far as there is love,u might not know wat d future will be.I know of a couple dat started living in just one room, few yes after d man won a lottery and they are in d USA for over 10 yes now.

Good one

op pls change the question to: can you settle down with him in a self contain when you ar of age 38

pressplay55:
op pls change the question to: can you settle down with him in a self contain when you ar of age 38

Why?

Just reading all the comments

Some NL ladies are really insincere.
I listened to a song: "I NEED A GIRL (2).

I picked a lot from Diddy's rap, he said, " I NEED A GIRL, TO SHARE THE DREAM THAT I BELIEVE... SOMEONE WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND, HOW TO TREAT A MAN, THIS IS ALL I NEED..."

Many other things he said...most girls are just blind to what Marriage really is.
It's beyond bread and butter. It's love and vision.

You love him and believes in his vision. This tells me, we have many girls, not ladies here...

Well...

Definitely.

mirexxx:
No i won't

Some self con get levels o!

So nah massion u wan take start?

emusmith:

Just reading all the comments

Some NL ladies are really insincere.
I listened to a song: "I NEED A GIRL (2).

I picked a lot from Diddy's rap, he said, " I NEED A GIRL, TO SHARE THE DREAM THAT I BELIEVE... SOMEONE WHO TRULY UNDERSTAND, HOW TO TREAT A MAN, THIS IS ALL I NEED..."

Many other things he said...most girls are just blind to what Marriage really is.
It's beyond bread and butter. It's love and vision.

You love him and believes in his vision. This tells me, we have many girls, not ladies here...

Well...

Bros, most of them have been indulge by the lullaby of nollywood movies painting a perfect picture of marriage at expense of the reality.

It takes heart and brain to get a wife material.

jamex93:


any lady that cant settle down wit you in a self cont

dont worth being around your bungalow

PARA MODE

Baba nor vex na.... Abi ur heart Don break tire....

the most important thing here is 'true love' with the way i love him,i dont mind anywhere,even if in an uncompleted building,i will stay with him cos hes my happiness & i know with our hardwork we will go higher.

what i mean is 'anywhere...mansion, duplex,bush, under the bridge....as far as its him cos we cant do without each other.

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Midehi:
the most important thing here is 'true love' with the way i love him,i dont mind anywhere,even if in an uncompleted building,i will stay with him cos hes my happiness & i know with our hardwork we will go higher.

what i mean is 'anywhere...mansion, duplex,bush, under the bridge....as far as its him cos we cant do without each other.

bae.. some suffering can Edit LOVE

Midehi:
the most important thing here is 'true love' with the way i love him,i dont mind anywhere,even if in an uncompleted building,i will stay with him cos hes my happiness & i know with our hardwork we will go higher.

what i mean is 'anywhere...mansion, duplex,bush, under the bridge....as far as its him cos we cant do without each other.

Perfect answer!

emusmith, there's your answer.

Nnemuka:
No I won't.
I started from grass and I live very comfortable now, if he can't afford it then I have to pay for a bigger apartment.
Can't go back to grass days when God's grace is sufficient aalready.

and if he doesn't agree?

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Nnemuka:

No man will reject such offer when he cannot afford it. Truth is I can't go back to that stage of my life so if he doesn't agree then he takes a walk. Life is too short

stop Generalizing some will definitely do..
You knw men and our ego..
Lol he takes a walk easier said

2dice:

bae.. some suffering can Edit LOVE

not with the kind of love we have

goofyone:

Perfect answer!

emusmith, there's your answer.

thats the main truth my dear, true love knows no bound.

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