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morethanadoll:
I don't think that anyone's emotions should be toyed with. When a man says that he loves a girl, that is generally the truth since it isn't something that comes easy for them to be able to do. If you no longer want to be with someone, just straight up tell them. The process should not be dragged out and a good person should not be treated horribly just because of disinterest.

chipmunkey:
That pain in the arse works I tell ya!
A girl did it to me and I'm the one running away from her.

Odunharry:
lol. girls are funny set of people o.. why go into a relationship with someone you don't love at first?

firstEVA:
There comes a time in a girl's life (not every girl) where she has to dump the guy she's currently dating and moving on to someone she truly loves and has respect for. First question would be why date him in the first place when there was no love and respect? this is it, you can date for so many reasons outside love, it could be out of pity (several years in the friendzone), it could be out of the need to have a relationship at that particular time in question, it could be out of curiosity of how good he is in bed (some guys can look too sexy you know), it could be because he has some money to throw around thereby making like very meaningful and enjoyable at the moment (nothing like getting almost every material thing you need at the moment). Then along the line, Mr. Right comes by, your current boyfriend is already head over heals in love with you, he thinks he has got his future wife, this is a guide on how to gently break up with him with without you feeling guilty and he not feeling heart broken.

First of all, if you dont want to be called a devil, you need to give it some time, no rush, its a long term project, you have to give it some time, lets say two months, if you are very good, one month.

1. If you used to call a lot, reduce it drastically, if he asks whats going on, just say nothing. with time, stop calling completely.
2. Reduce the visits, let it fade away naturally.
3. Gradually change your attitude. If you were a sweet girl, who always smiles, pls no need smiling all the time, but pls remember, the transition should be gradual, not sudden.
4. when he visits, reduce the attention you give him.
5. If you guys are sexually active, complain at every touch, with time, tell him, you have decided to keep your body as it is the temple of the lord. if you are not sexually active, better.
6. Whatever you do, don't tell him there is someone else, if not you will be labelled for life.
7. do things to show you don't care
8. Become a pain in his arse
9. He should leave you on his own that way no one gets hurt.

But if you are as cold as ice, no protocol, just go straight to the point, i don't love you any more, i don't think we are made for each other etc. the problem with this is he will start begging and begging, no one likes to see a guy beg especially when your mind is made up and worst of all, he may never forgive you.

firstEVA:
There comes a time in a girl's life (not every girl) where she has to dump the guy she's currently dating and moving on to someone she truly loves and has respect for. First question would be why date him in the first place when there was no love and respect? this is it, you can date for so many reasons outside love, it could be out of pity (several years in the friendzone), it could be out of the need to have a relationship at that particular time in question, it could be out of curiosity of how good he is in bed (some guys can look too sexy you know), it could be because he has some money to throw around thereby making like very meaningful and enjoyable at the moment (nothing like getting almost every material thing you need at the moment). Then along the line, Mr. Right comes by, your current boyfriend is already head over heals in love with you, he thinks he has got his future wife, this is a guide on how to gently break up with him with without you feeling guilty and he not feeling heart broken.

First of all, if you dont want to be called a devil, you need to give it some time, no rush, its a long term project, you have to give it some time, lets say two months, if you are very good, one month.

1. If you used to call a lot, reduce it drastically, if he asks whats going on, just say nothing. with time, stop calling completely.
2. Reduce the visits, let it fade away naturally.
3. Gradually change your attitude. If you were a sweet girl, who always smiles, pls no need smiling all the time, but pls remember, the transition should be gradual, not sudden.
4. when he visits, reduce the attention you give him.
5. If you guys are sexually active, complain at every touch, with time, tell him, you have decided to keep your body as it is the temple of the lord. if you are not sexually active, better.
6. Whatever you do, don't tell him there is someone else, if not you will be labelled for life.
7. do things to show you don't care
8. Become a pain in his arse
9. He should leave you on his own that way no one gets hurt.

But if you are as cold as ice, no protocol, just go straight to the point, i don't love you any more, i don't think we are made for each other etc. the problem with this is he will start begging and begging, no one likes to see a guy beg especially when your mind is made up and worst of all, he may never forgive you.

elantraceey:
True but not all guys are entirely truthful when they use those words . For some it has totally lost its meaning and have no effect on them.

firstEVA:
is love suppose to be one sided? If she doesn't love him she should keep managing because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings?

mayorall:
Nice one OP. 34687 were the techniques my ex used but I was just foolishly blind to see this. Will always be vigilant if I will have any soon. #Fear women and live long#

Equado:
It works both ways...same thing am doing with my current gf...the relationship done tire me,since we talked about marriage,am putting her down in the soft est way ever(using ur steps)