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TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

smsdigito:
So you will prefer to be immoral to make wave? lol.
So 21st Century says values and good norms should be thrown into the garbage huh?
So all trendy things are good? Moving with the crowed whether it is for good is what you stand for? Well, the fact that everybody is doing it doesn't mean it is right. Like i mentioned earlier, we are not preaching religion here but what is good is good whether it comes from the mouth of Obama or shekau, we all know what is good and what is bad.
You cant say you are in love yet you dont mind your very same lady you are in love with getting layed everyday by other men and you come here and tell me 21st Century? go and tell that to the dogs. Only animal believe those kind of bull,sh.it

TheSonOfMark:

It's just the way I am, maybe a gift. You can train yourself to predict and outthink people if you hone your psychoanalytical skills. No female has ever outsmarted me relationship-wise. I wouldn't even stalk nor ask her certain question - I wouldn't want her getting edgy.
FEIGN IGNORANCE AND ONCE THEY ARE MADE TO THINK YOU AREN'T SUSPICIOUS OF THEM THEY'D LEAVE TRAILS TO YOU TO TRACK THEM.
The key is always remaining one step ahead- I always am .

Darkrebel666:
~ I'd rather be promiscuous and be a Billionaire than be a Mother Theresa and live in penury.
Sorry.. but that's just me...


Read my post well
I said so long as I don't find out..but I won't start stressing myself to find out...
You can't tell me you would know if your girl is faithful if she schools abroad and you don't get to see like after every 8 or 10 months.

This is my last comment on this thread. A lot of you are retardedd and lack comprehension skills..
Total waste of time

vjsmiles:
[size=14pt] yes....
the heartbreaks i have suffered os enough to cause earthquake [/size]

9jatatafo:
Whenever the person she is bleeping called her phone and she form "network is not clear by saying hello repeatedly and saying I am not hearing you" in your presence. Watch out!!!

dechandel:
This is applicable to all parties joor..
Atleast i have seen guys who went from being Mr.Ibu to being Cristiano Ronaldo because a new angel came down from heaven..

dechandel:
This is applicable to all parties joor..
Atleast i have seen guys who went from being Mr.Ibu to being Cristiano Ronaldo because a new angel came down from heaven..

starlingbawa:
Always have it at the back of your mind that things could go sour at any time and without prior notice (IT'S VERY IMPORTANT) also, develop shock absorbers for your heart and trust me, you WON'T call for NO fvcking dialogue!

Works for me and it can for you too. The ball's in your court and NOT in hers.

Think this way!!!

Cheers mate....

vjsmiles:
[b] A lack of trust can doom a perfectly good relationship to failure. Still, if you have good reasons for suspecting that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then the sooner you know, the better.
here are some signs which individually may not prove your gf is cheating on you. But if you can identify one or two of these signs in your relationship, the chances are good your gf is cheating on you.

1.she doesn’t answer certain phone calls when you’re around. They look especially panicked when the phone rings.

2.You notice a sudden change in their appearance, or they have an increased concern about how they look. Your gf probably has a new “reason” to look great, and that person is the most likely the one they’re cheating with."na this one pain me pass
let's analyze this part...
*when she wants to visit you *
[img]http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQAuNMD73Kkf7xNFXinNHfyUTf8gujdAMzDTDRIEQsO_tecs3Dv[/img]
* when she wants to visit brother mattew *
[img]http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRhIq2Blf50VEsRIvIKrgoJwcGonHKXjfglm-7Zde1LEp4C6Dewug[/img]
imagine wickedness!! ...
this is a pure sign...watch out!!

3.she begins to be increasingly critical of you, or blames you for cheating, even when you haven’t. This is a way of putting you on the defensive and making them feel better about what they are doing.

4.she hangs around with a “new best friend” of the opposite sex a lot, or spends time with his/her ex, but claims nothing is happening.nothing ko best friend ki lo de ?


5.She won’t let you anywhere near her phone and has it on lock down with the customized fingerprint phone lock *in this case na only her fingerprints fit open the phone *
brotherly ask your girlfriend what she is hiding


the above indicators are all meant to be warning signs. However, don’t turn your relationship into a situation where you feel you have to play detective. But if you notice multiple changes in behavior, routine or personality of the one you feel you love, and not just isolated incidences, you should confront them about these signs. You should always trust first, but don’t ignore red flags. Still, you can’t always trust your “gut feeling.” Sometimes it’s just jealously and insecurity creeping in. If you can’t trust someone over time, don’t date them. Remember, too much drama in your life is very destructive.
cheers... [/b]

Adexchelsea19:
Bros leave love jare,sometimes one have to think abt oneself b4 anything.I was once in that situation,luved d gal so much,and i even tot i cudnt do without her but when i saw d signs,i gv mysef brain bro.I just jejely move on but after i ve given her d last nackin sha.no time!!!

TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

Mhizkel:
If she switches off her phone whenever she is with you

Darkrebel666:
~ Of course.. You don't neglect the ones you love.

Imagine you have a boyfriend schooling abroad in the midst of all the most seductive daughters of Eve ever. He would definitely need to ease tension at some point (I mean sex)..and when he's away from you for like 10 months... Is that still cheating even when he wasn't even emotionally attached a bit to whomever he banged? ..of course not.
The girl could also not have being celibate for 10 months either. Its impossible

Sunxylove:
its impossible to you not everyone ,u jx have to develop ur self control.it aint food

TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

falconey:
my GF is currently doing most of these things and its giving me lots of headache( for now).

Especially the besty( a male), she walk around with him in school almost every second and I get 30minutes to be or talk to her in 2-3days.

NiRfreak:
[/color] look for other girls and break up with her.if u cant spend more time with other gals

TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys
like me.

falconey:
my GF is currently doing most of these things and its giving me lots of headache( for now).

Especially the besty( a male), she walk around with him in school almost every second and I get 30minutes to be or talk to her in 2-3days.

U know wat bro? 2 d other she's hanging out with,u 2 is her bestie..
Shun dat gal cos she has banged dat guy(bestie) alrdy.

vjsmiles:
[b] A lack of trust can doom a perfectly good relationship to failure. Still, if you have good reasons for suspecting that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then the sooner you know, the better.
here are some signs which individually may not prove your gf is cheating on you. But if you can identify one or two of these signs in your relationship, the chances are good your gf is cheating on you.

1.she doesn’t answer certain phone calls when you’re around. They look especially panicked when the phone rings.

2.You notice a sudden change in their appearance, or they have an increased concern about how they look. Your gf probably has a new “reason” to look great, and that person is the most likely the one they’re cheating with."na this one pain me pass
let's analyze this part...
*when she wants to visit you *
[img]http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQAuNMD73Kkf7xNFXinNHfyUTf8gujdAMzDTDRIEQsO_tecs3Dv[/img]
* when she wants to visit brother mattew *
[img]http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRhIq2Blf50VEsRIvIKrgoJwcGonHKXjfglm-7Zde1LEp4C6Dewug[/img]
imagine wickedness!! ...
this is a pure sign...watch out!!

3.she begins to be increasingly critical of you, or blames you for cheating, even when you haven’t. This is a way of putting you on the defensive and making them feel better about what they are doing.

4.she hangs around with a “new best friend” of the opposite sex a lot, or spends time with his/her ex, but claims nothing is happening.nothing ko best friend ki lo de ?


5.She won’t let you anywhere near her phone and has it on lock down with the customized fingerprint phone lock *in this case na only her fingerprints fit open the phone *
brotherly ask your girlfriend what she is hiding


the above indicators are all meant to be warning signs. However, don’t turn your relationship into a situation where you feel you have to play detective. But if you notice multiple changes in behavior, routine or personality of the one you feel you love, and not just isolated incidences, you should confront them about these signs. You should always trust first, but don’t ignore red flags. Still, you can’t always trust your “gut feeling.” Sometimes it’s just jealously and insecurity creeping in. If you can’t trust someone over time, don’t date them. Remember, too much drama in your life is very destructive.
cheers... [/b]

magabounce:
[size=30pt]The Son Of Mark[/size]

NgwaManNaija4LF:
Bro, I gave you the 30th likes and 10th shares because all you're on point,but I don't care because I will only go for a virgin Nigerian girl or marry in Iran.

[size=14pt] lol...funny guy [/size]