TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

Darkrebel666:
~ I don't care if my girl is cheating...
She doesn't care either.... its not like we are even married yet...main point is we love each other..If I'm not around to satisfy her sexual urges and she seeks someone else, then that's fine. As long as She did it with no strings attached and I don't get to find out.. No time to start stressing our young selves over trivial and unimportant issues instead of making money..

TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

farano:
lol

TheSonOfMark:

Cheating? It wouldn't ruffle my feathers.
When a girl starts cheating, you'll know. If you're discerning enough you'd notice the signs no matter how subtle they are. For me, I'd do nothing about it. I'd limit it to just the sexual interactions between us. By the time she'd realize, she'd bite her fingers in pain/regret 'cause it would dawn on her that I reduced what we were to just being 'FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS' - nothing more than sexual partners.
Either way, it's a win-win situation for me - I get to satisfy my sexual urges and I relieve myself of the emotional burden.

Women cannot outsmart guys like me.

smsdigito:


U must be a nice guy, abeg give me her contact.lol

On a more serious note, from ur post it just shows that moral values in our society keep degrading everyday. Its strange to hear someone truly in love take this kind of position on issues such as this. Well, its ur opinion hence you may be right in your own way.

blublahd:
mama oooo mo gbedi fun yin!

u lyk amazon kwo?

Midehi:

hmmm...am beginning to like this guy, truely some guys dont kill theirselves over nothing.

A guy once told me that in situation like you just mentioned above,that when hes with a lady just to ease his tense,all he does is go on doggie style & off he goes, that his chest can never touch any other girl's chest apart from his girlfriend.
very funny dou*

vjsmiles:
[size=14pt] ireneony i give up [/size]

Umennajiego:
If am to go by all these signs you have here, then i probably wont av a girlfriend. She does all these but plays detective on me.

Na so e suppose be?

tellwisdom:
Nigerian girl?? ...Spits

centjamie:



Not when you have been totally and helplessly consumed by the flames of LOVE broda,you will beg for dialogue.

falconey:
my GF is currently doing most of these things and its giving me lots of headache( for now).

Especially the besty( a male), she walk around with him in school almost every second and I get 30minutes to be or talk to her in 2-3days.

centjamie:



Not when you have been totally and helplessly consumed by the flames of LOVE broda,you will beg for dialogue.

starlingbawa:


'WRONG'!!!!

Every girl cannot be that way...

.. Spits

vjsmiles:
[b] A lack of trust can doom a perfectly good relationship to failure. Still, if you have good reasons for suspecting that your girlfriend is cheating on you, then the sooner you know, the better.
here are some signs which individually may not prove your gf is cheating on you. But if you can identify one or two of these signs in your relationship, the chances are good your gf is cheating on you.

1.she doesn’t answer certain phone calls when you’re around. They look especially panicked when the phone rings.

2.You notice a sudden change in their appearance, or they have an increased concern about how they look. Your gf probably has a new “reason” to look great, and that person is the most likely the one they’re cheating with."na this one pain me pass
let's analyze this part...
*when she wants to visit you *
[img]http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQAuNMD73Kkf7xNFXinNHfyUTf8gujdAMzDTDRIEQsO_tecs3Dv[/img]
* when she wants to visit brother mattew *
[img]http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRhIq2Blf50VEsRIvIKrgoJwcGonHKXjfglm-7Zde1LEp4C6Dewug[/img]
imagine wickedness!! ...
this is a pure sign...watch out!!

3.she begins to be increasingly critical of you, or blames you for cheating, even when you haven’t. This is a way of putting you on the defensive and making them feel better about what they are doing.

4.she hangs around with a “new best friend” of the opposite sex a lot, or spends time with his/her ex, but claims nothing is happening.nothing ko best friend ki lo de ?


5.She won’t let you anywhere near her phone and has it on lock down with the customized fingerprint phone lock *in this case na only her fingerprints fit open the phone *
brotherly ask your girlfriend what she is hiding


the above indicators are all meant to be warning signs. However, don’t turn your relationship into a situation where you feel you have to play detective. But if you notice multiple changes in behavior, routine or personality of the one you feel you love, and not just isolated incidences, you should confront them about these signs. You should always trust first, but don’t ignore red flags. Still, you can’t always trust your “gut feeling.” Sometimes it’s just jealously and insecurity creeping in. If you can’t trust someone over time, don’t date them. Remember, too much drama in your life is very destructive.
cheers... [/b]

tellwisdom:



.. Spits

blublahd:

no mind am, him wan dey form tough guy.
Buh shocked me was the female that quoted him and said she likes that type of guy.

funlord:
......maybe when she supplies you with some modified HIV you will start caring! Grow up son!

TheSonOfMark:


It's just the way I am, maybe a gift. You can train yourself to predict and outthink people if you hone your psychoanalytical skills. No female has ever outsmarted me relationship-wise. I wouldn't even stalk nor ask her certain question - I wouldn't want her getting edgy.
FEIGN IGNORANCE AND ONCE THEY ARE MADE TO THINK YOU AREN'T SUSPICIOUS OF THEM THEY'D LEAVE TRAILS TO YOU TO TRACK THEM.
The key is always remaining one step ahead- I always am .

dechandel:
This is applicable to all parties joor..
Atleast i have seen guys who went from being Mr.Ibu to being Cristiano Ronaldo because a new angel came down from heaven..

tranxo:
Hmmm, why do you have your default setting on defensive mode?

smsdigito:


U must be a nice guy, abeg give me her contact.lol

On a more serious note, from ur post it just shows that moral values in our society keep degrading everyday. Its strange to hear someone truly in love take this kind of position on issues such as this. Well, its ur opinion hence you may be right in your own way.

Midehi:

hmmm...am beginning to like this guy, truely some guys dont kill theirselves over nothing.

A guy once told me that in situation like you just mentioned above,that when hes with a lady just to ease his tense,all he does is go on doggie style & off he goes, that his chest can never touch any other girl's chest apart from his girlfriend.
very funny dou*

Darkrebel666:


~ You are the one that needs to Grow up mmoron if you think sneaking and monitoring your partners that you ain't even married to yet is a priority... I don't blame you..


I have the smartest girl in the world as a girlfriend and she's not sstupid enough to have sex without using a condom....
There's a huge difference between having sex just to ease yourself of tension(prolly cos you ain't had it in a long time)...and there's also intimate sex you have with someone you love..

what do you know? Blockhead

funlord:
..e pain am! Truth hurts Sha! and by their posts u shall know their age! Grow up child! U nor reach!

Darkrebel666:



~ This is the 21st century not 1914


But still the so called immoral people are making more waves than the so called religious lots .financially e.t.c