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loomer:
But make una wait o, wat about woman wey de beat husband nko, if the man run, those that make him a boy?

Is ur girlfriend beating you?

Lala247:
Lol

U are just "loling". Don't u at least want 2 have a taste of what you have been waiting 4? After waiting this long, I was expecting a warm cuddly reception from u

lexy2014:
U are just "loling". Don't u at least want 2 have a taste of what you have been waiting 4? After waiting this long, I was expecting a warm cuddly reception from u

But i dont knkw u now .. U dont just see ppl n cuddle do u ?

major466:
Is ur girlfriend beating you?

Hehehe

major466:
Is ur girlfriend beating you?

U say?

Lala247:
Lol black cat .. Thought u meant i was a witch before

Yes, but u come include ur cat/puuvsy, then I became confused.

chigoizie7:
Yes, but u come include ur cat/puuvsy, then I became confused.

Cat is an animal now .. Whats confusing about it

loomer:
You don kuku make matter worse, na another direction u don send am go so o.

Na so.

Lala247:
Y should they endure if ur wife sleep with 10 men will u endure

Fine i wouldnt... Then tell me why a Man should not beat a Woman "REGARDLESS of whatever the woman does"

Even if the woman beats up the man at the slightest provocation? The man should calm and always endure? The woman hits the man with whatever she lay hands on whenever theres an argument?

#tellMe

Some of you here on NL are "Girls" but you're always looking out to find a Man as husband!

#smh4uAll

Lala247:
Waiting for right man ..

With all those your childish points up there, you may end up waiting for eternity.

Get a "boy" and transform him to the man you want.

It's an advice though

Lala247:
Cat is an animal now .. Whats confusing about it

Same as a puvssy,
I tot another name for cat is puvsy.

*yawnssss*





Me i can joke alot oh,soo now you saying that doesnt make me a man?



"MJG's VOICE"

Dont make me laugh

Lala247:
Signs you a dating a boy and not a man

1.)Lives at home with parents
A real man wants responsibilities. Wants to be out in the real world figuring out how life works e.g getting a job , paying bills , studying etc. a man also helps out his family long after his left his home to ease the stress on his parents.
Only a boy would carry on living with parents eating, taking their money and not contributing nothing to the household. With the current economic situation where a graduate earn less than 45k, plus he happens to be sponsoring his younger ones in the university, does that make him a boy. I think what makes him a boy is running away from responsibilities, not helping out in the house and not staying with his parents. Because I know of MANY who are above 30yrs staying with their parents. Yes, this makes him a boy.
2.) does not work
A man is hard working , never wants to be idle plans for his future and is very ambitious, because his working toward having a family settling down and living a comfortable life. A boy on thinks about now, lazy and has no ambition whatsoever .. Some don't even want to study or further their education. But i bet you they are hitting clubs and down with current fashion n music... There are many in this category, but some na money hold them wey never make them settle down o!
3) very childish
They joke alot, they take nothing serious everything they do or say is one big game or party.you can never have a straight or mature conversation with them. Some men are like that... Life is difficult on it own why get serious about everything, a little joke keeps him going.
4.)Anger
They get angry quick over little things and can be very irrational in decision making. A man would never hit a woman no matter the situation but find ways around a hostile encounter. I totally disagree with this point... Anybody can get angry quickly which is not a function of if you are boy or a man, how you choose to handle the anger differentiates you.. Yes, irrational in decision, yes that is a boy.
5.) Rejection
A man is not afraid of rejection but sees it as a learning experience to better himself or move on . A boy takes offence and acts out in a childish manner.... On point
6.)Initiative
A man knows a good woman when he sees one , they look beyond beautiful and overall appearance and get to know a lady inside and out, they are not shy and can take risk even if it means looking silly to get the woman. A boy mostly interested in appearance they are not bothered about getting to know a woman also they find it hard to commit...... You have to be physically attracted to someone before you like such person and after it developed into love.
7.)Honesty
Boy tell lies alot petty ones, a man is honest and knows when to take ownership of his mistakes . A man is not afraid to apologise for wrong doings . A boy would make excuses for them.... You never see men wey no dey honest.
8.)Manners
A man has manners they are polite and treat women right . They respect your parents and family. a boy lacks manners some wont even greet your parents and they talk to women like objects... Blame that on parental unbringing and their inability to learn.


Source: me


You can add yours


*sips tea*

finally, what are the signs you are dating a girl and not a boy.....?

Nneka123:
Oga what is it?

Why should you hit a lady in the first place? hitting her makes you a boy , and not a man. Regardless of whatever the woman did to you.

you shouldn't raise your hands on her. You can walk away from her, if she is nagging. That makes you a man

You are also misunderstanding "honest" in that list, you should re-read it. It's a very nice list.

Hypocrisy is not my thing. I say it as it's buddy

I am afraid to let you know that the post is as senseless as the Op. I have read that crap over and over again and asked myself who is the monkey that pick up a pen to write this rubbish

It's only a boy that would come up with all that crap and subject every man on earth to his silly view.

There are evil women/ladies out there who would do everything within their power to frustrate your life.
Some men could walk away, some could go on shooting spree at shopping malls as seen in US, some could start taking drugs etc it all depend on individual


I am not poor, lazy and ugly like most stupid guys here who thinks that the best way to a woman heart is being submissive and stupid; I run my world.

I have dated more ladies than you can ever ever imagine and I know women too well.

Lest before I forget, I have slapped shit of my girlfriend before and I never regretted it. If a lady has the same audacity to do what my ex girlfriend did to me again, I ll ceremoniously and gladly slap her again with thanksgiving celebration afterward. Arrant Nonsense!!!

GoldenDr:
finally, what are the signs you are dating a girl and not a boy.....?

counter thread ..

youmour:
*yawnssss*





Me i can joke alot oh,soo now you saying that doesnt make me a man?



"MJG's VOICE"

Dont make me laugh

Not alot on a date tho

loomer:
U say?

well you made reference to a wife beating her husband. So i got curious

Macmilla:
And lack of adequate information and exposure de worry you.

Guy wotz adequate abt d information( if dats wot u regard as information ) & in wot context r u using of d word 'exposure' ?

If u dnt give a reasonable response, just look in d mirror nearby & tell d boy in d mirror dat he's a CLOWN.

Lala247:
But i dont knkw u now .. U dont just see ppl n cuddle do u ?

Am d "right man" u have been waiting 4 so cuddling me shouldn't b a problem. U no somethings about me already if not everything. At least u no I have first class in manhood. Whatever u don't no about me, feel free 2 google me. Like I said b4, am yours. Am also keen 2no u

IdiAmin1:
With all those your childish points up there, you may end up waiting for eternity.

Get a "boy" and transform him to the man you want.

It's an advice though

May seem childish to u but its my opinion..
Dont need to transform anyone there are plenty of men out there ..who work,responsible, respect women n are gentlemen

cutietokunbo:
I am afraid to let you know that the post is as senseless and the Op. I have read that crap over and over again and asked myself who is the monkey that pick up a pen to write this rubbish

It's only a boy that would come up with all that crap and subject every man on earth to his silly view.

There are evil women/ladies out there who would do everything within their power to frustrate your life.
Some men could walk away, some could go on shooting spree at shopping malls as seen in US, some could start taking drugs etc it all depend on individual


I am not poor, lazy and ugly like most stupid guys here who thinks that the best way to a woman heart is being submissive and stupid; I run my world.

I have dated more ladies than you can ever ever imagine and I know women too well.

Lest before I forget, I have slapped shit of my girlfriend before and I never regretted it. If a lady has the same audacity to do what my ex girlfriend did to me again, I ll ceremoniously and gladly slap her again with thanksgiving celebration afterward. Arrant Nonsense!!!

Anddd your point is?

major466:
well you made reference to a wife beating her husband. So i got curious

If my girlfriend wan beat me I go run na, cos even if I mistake give am 1 blow and police come na me go still slp for cell.

ewizard1:
Ok!!!

#SeeThem

Please re-read what you wrote in BoldRed!

Tell me "Would you still be with your husband REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER YOU ARE FACING IN THE MARRAIGE"

Women like you would ask fellow ladies to end a relationship because the man maltreats them. Why not advice them to endure... "Regardless..."

Why should any lady endure in a relationship, where she is being used as a means of way, for the guy to showcase his "Floyd mayweather skills"

why should you beat your lady in the first place?

I'm not old enough to get married, but even if I do. My husband shouldn't dare lay his hands on me, no matter what I did. I will respect

and love him, but he shouldn't beat me up, cause I will leave him. period!

you bunch of misogynists gotta learn to stop acting like a "boy" and be a man!!

youmour:
Anddd your point is?

Ask the brainless pig

loomer:
If my girlfriend wan beat me I go run na, cos even if I mistake give am 1 blow and police come na me go still slp for cell.

Lol so u know.. One phone call nah jail b dat if she cry too much self u fit do jail time ... Beauty of LaW

It is not a counter thread. I like logical, reasonable and intelligent argument. Please read my quote and refer back to me.s

Lala247:
counter thread ..

GoldenDr:
It is not a counter thread. I like logical, reasonable and intelligent argument. Please read my quote and refer back to me.s

Males we chting about not females

Didnt u read the topic or u just want to be difficult

stingbreed:
This means u do not have much experience with women.. Its not everything u tell a woman,,,
They very good at getting even when offended or cheated on.....

You might be right, but just remember that nothing stays buried forever. When do you think she will have more reason to revenge? When you confess your mistakes and apologise or when someone else exposes you?

Lala247:
Lol so u know.. One phone call nah jail b dat if she cry too much self u fit do jail time ... Beauty of LaW

It's the truth na, I don't subscribe to man beating a woman, nor woman beating a man, cos at the end, na the man go still suffer am.