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Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by MrBasketball: 3:00pm On May 09, 2015
oyindamola081881:
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Who is this iddiot? undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by xtervaganza(m): 3:03pm On May 09, 2015
tohpahz:
Sex on the first date..
...
Doesn't matter really..
Because it all depends on the guy and also feelings..
The guy might really like u and wanna hv sex on the first date.. the guy might also not like u and wana just chop and move..

But as i girl, I'd advice ..to be on the safe side, it's bera to prolong d sex part till u are really sure of what the guy wants. Bfr giving up the honeypot..
As for wanting to hv a relationship with someone who wanted sex on the first.. i see Nothing wrong in it.. depends on feelings.. smiley
But some guys, they will wana prey on the fact that the gal opened her legs.
So, it's bera to wait!!

My opinion!
i understand you 100% but I still think it's pointless. Why delay the inevitable? if all he wants is sex and you did not give him he will wait for his chance patiently, have the sex he only wsnted and bolt!



Delaying the sex is no guarantee he will stick with you and having sex with him on the 1st won't make you cheap.



If If we're a lady( just my own opinion o) I'll gave sex on the 1st date without a problem so far I love the guy. if he wants to run, good, he has saved me a lot of time rather than wait and delay the sex while he's still with me(and wasting my time)
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by tohpahz(f): 3:07pm On May 09, 2015
xtervaganza:
i understand you 100% but I still think it's pointless. Why delay the inevitable? if all he wants is sex and you did not give him he will wait for his chance patiently, have the sex he only wsnted and bolt!



Delaying the sex is no guarantee he will stick with you and having sex with him on the 1st won't make you cheap.



If If we're a lady( just my own opinion o) I'll gave sex on the 1st date without a problem so far I love the guy. if he wants to run, good, he has saved me a lot of time rather than wait and delay the sex while he's still with me(and wasting my time)

I understand u too. That's why i said it depends on feelings too,
If the girl likes the guy,it's her choice to make.. she may decide to. Or not to..
But if it's someone she's just going out with to fulfill all righteousness.. then it's better for her to wait and save herself some stress.. (Except she's a runs girl.)
*mind not my punctuation..

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Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by xtervaganza(m): 3:10pm On May 09, 2015
tohpahz:


I understand u too. That's why i said it depends on feelings too,
If the girl likes the guy,it's her choice to make.. she may decide to. Or not to..
But if it's someone she's just going out with to fulfill all righteousness.. then it's better for her to wait and save herself some stress.. (Except she's a runs girl.)
*mind not my punctuation..
i u der stand you and agree with you now grin grin
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by tohpahz(f): 3:13pm On May 09, 2015
xtervaganza:
i u der stand you and agree with you now grin grin

winkthank God u do

And please vote for me as miss nairaland 2015 smiley

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Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by oyindamola081881: 3:27pm On May 09, 2015
MrBasketball:
Who is this iddiot? undecided
Your younger ones at home are idiot
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by nicerichard05: 3:35pm On May 09, 2015
pretydiva:
A big noooooo. Wait till ur married

U lie too much, that's my only issue with u. Even b4 d first date, u nor dey sex chat? D first date sex for u is jst a normal tin. undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 3:36pm On May 09, 2015
Macmilla:

Well, it's your opinion and you simply can't shove it down our throat.

Okay
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by MrBasketball: 3:40pm On May 09, 2015
oyindamola081881:
Your younger ones at home are idiot
Did i quote u goat?
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by kenex4ever(m): 3:45pm On May 09, 2015
prettythicksme:
That is how i do my things!!!how can i meet 10 guys and i decided to have sex with dem in month shocked#is dat possible?
no but ur bad English is possible
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Icecomrade: 3:55pm On May 09, 2015
vickylala239:



Pls sorry I knw ur not a prostitute ohh

I knw u r not ohh,I Hv said this again.

Oya answer this question.

You Hv 1st boy frnd u date for 3yrs,along d line he loves u and Tke u out,buy gift,cards showed u love as per normal,u loved him So much.at a point u had sex wit him Cuz u loved him. On thing lead to anoda u Ppl broke up.

After a year u met anoda handsome guy,u Ppl date for 2yrs,the love was hot from both side. 1,2,3 sex hppn, u Ppl still love each other.one thing lead to anoda relationship skata.

Along the line u met anoda guy,this was gentle promise marriage, visited ur parent. Engaged. @This point nothing Lik no to sex,u Ppl did Mny tyms that u cnt count.he stone you wit gift,car Wat Eva u nid.Bt later d guy died.as it stand ur aiming the fourth date and possibly and guy wit sex.

Okkkk

Here is anoda gel a prostitute.she slept with d same number of guys Dat u Hv dated,

That's is u have dated 3 and slept with the whole 3 and a prostitute slept with the same number of guys you Hv slept with.which is there.

You collect gifts,Lik cards phones,and cash too, the prostitute collected, phones, cash,cards Jst as u do too.

You love for 3 to 2 Years prostitute love 2 to 3hours.

She said she is a commercial sex wrker, Dey pay ha. while ur a commercial dater. grin
They gv u gift n cash while u date.

Now my question is what's is the difference BTW you Dat has dated numerous men,Jst Cuz ur searching for the missing rib and ashawo?

This is Cuz u said ur not ashawo in ur post.

Pls Ans this question without abuse or insults.Bt if u decide to attack then there is no difference.

If u decide not to answer this comment it means I was Nt wrong after all.

I don't know how old you are, but your comparison is thrash and senseless. Responding to this Is just a waste of precious time and energy. Your appalling
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 4:13pm On May 09, 2015
kenex4ever:
no but ur bad English is possible
undecided undecided and how is dat ur bis?
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 09, 2015
Macmilla:

Well, it's your opinion and you simply can't shove it down our throat.

Ok.
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by ElFiddy1(m): 5:49pm On May 09, 2015
What's the point of delaying sex when you will still donate it?
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Macmilla(m): 6:10pm On May 09, 2015
philmama:
Personaly if I hav sex on a 1st date its simply d end of dat rlship 4 me,cus if u rily care u wil definitly respect nd adore me. Period!
So after catching fun and enjoying the sex, you will tell him he didn't adore you, huh? Are you well? Did he use juju to make you spread your legs?
You know, I had to take a peek at your profile to see who is vomiting this crap and it pains me to see it's such a pretty girl like you.
I normally don't attack ladies no matter how dumb they are, but I couldn't just resist this one.
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Macmilla(m): 7:09pm On May 09, 2015
vickylala239:




Hmmm u and answers to sex topic.....there is no sexx topic that I cnt find you.haba!!!

sex expert!! No b every thing you go comment on Na haba.or better still give way to new comers.

Or try marry So that you go swap to married thread.

Marry So Dat u will lock up small.!!

Or try organise seminar for us....

Sex this sex that you must appear,I Jst cnt wait for you to marry n b matured enuf to leave thread that are meant for kids. angry grin.

I Dnt knw Wat interest you about sex ohh,I use to think that this sex of a thing is mostly guys.

I notice Mst gels view topics Lik this without comment,y r u Lik this.doe I knw d decent gels hardly comment on things that Dnt glory God.

Y cnt u Jst try and pretend a little.I knw gels for pretending wen it cums to Lov of sex.why r u different. Na nawa ohh.

Whr u see 20boys this gel Mst find way in.and average gel is always shy wen too many guys r around.in ur case I Jst taya.Weda ur a Tom boy I Dnt understand.

Haba try retire Na!!

Oya haters tak ova!!!!
Please what is this dumb fool talking about? What is your business in what she comments on? Na you carry am come nairaland? Or are you her guardian? What were you doing in all those threads you claim to see her in?

Mtcheeeew. Dumbass busybody.
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by kenex4ever(m): 7:28pm On May 09, 2015
prettythicksme:
undecided undecided and how is dat ur bis?
because I care abt u
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 7:29pm On May 09, 2015
kenex4ever:
because I care abt u
undecided undecided
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by xtervaganza(m): 7:49pm On May 09, 2015
tohpahz:


winkthank God u do

And please vote for me as miss nairaland 2015 smiley
where and how am I going to vote?
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by komek(m): 8:25pm On May 09, 2015
missclasssy:
When a guys wants to have sex with a lady on the first date it means the guy sees the lady as nothing but an object of sex.
It means the only reason he was attracted to her was because of her sex appeal.
Sex on the first date is wrong and it shouldn't be done. The first date is when partners get to know more about each other. It's like the ignition button needed to start the car that drives the relationship.
A kiss is okay on a first date, but not sex.

I don't blame any guy that would want to do this, I think the blame should go to the ladies.
Most ladies portray themselves in way that exhalts their physical attributes above every other quality they have that men only see that part of them.

Sleeping with her and tasting her goodies becomes the only thing in the mind of the guy so when he goes on a first date, the only thing on his mind is sex.

Let me educate u a little about a gurl and a guy.

Everyman has the pics of his kinda woman in his head. If he sees her, sex might be the last thing that would come to his mind. Some women to some men are just for sex and nothing more. No matter how u wasted his time befor giving him ur thing he will still run.

Personally, I like slim, tall dark gurls. As soon as I see the above described ladies I will always stand still. Any other gurl that comes to me with the best xter, prayerful, God fearing, Rich, fair, short, has a Masters, Phd, best cook, etc are just waisting her time.

So if u like sleep with him on the first day or last days o, he knows what he wants.
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by alexis2: 8:47pm On May 09, 2015
say no to premarital sex
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by jokeydamson(f): 8:49pm On May 09, 2015
Be it first day or later,a guy dat will stay will stay so it's no point it's better u knw d true colour assap
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by oyindamola081881: 9:15pm On May 09, 2015
MrBasketball:
Did i quote u goat?
May be that's your surname(GOAT)
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by jcreed: 9:44pm On May 09, 2015
SEX WITH MY GIRLFRIEND TOOK ABOUT A YEAR AFTER WE STARTED DATING...
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 9:49pm On May 09, 2015
Okay boss.!


Macmilla:

My dear, wait till we come to your church before you start with the sermon
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by MrBasketball: 10:34pm On May 09, 2015
oyindamola081881:
May be that's your surname(GOAT)
Frustrated coward!
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Monikween(f): 2:19am On May 10, 2015
adedeji65:
My cousin had sex with his gf on the first date, now they are married with a set of twins
.uhmm sorry o but how u take no
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 8:30am On May 10, 2015
Monikween:
.uhmm sorry o but how u take no

He dey there
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 8:41am On May 10, 2015
Monikween:
.uhmm sorry o but how u take no
me nd me cousin are close, infact I knew before they got married
Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Nobody: 11:26am On May 10, 2015
jokeydamson:
Be it first day or later,a guy dat will stay will stay so it's no point it's better u knw d true colour assap
u r damn right.. Ladies that play hard to get, are just delaying the inevitable.. A guy who won't stay but just wants to eat da doughnut would stay for as long as you want before taking a walk.

Bottom line : be sensible, when it feels right, it most often is right!

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Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by oyindamola081881: 2:13pm On May 10, 2015
MrBasketball:
Frustrated coward!
Is that your other name?

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