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| How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by bizmogul(m): 9:13am On May 11, 2015 |
I have a couple of female friends who have gotten to the " age of marriage" like they say. Between the age range of 28 - 30. Now, these chics as far as I know them are not miscreants ( you know like the kongo aso girls that sleep around). I am not saying they have not done or they don't do but they are good chics. Two weeks ago, I had a discussion with one of them and she practically broke down in tears. Why can't I get a husband? All my friends are getting married; the annoying thing is that most of these friends of mine I know how they live their dirty lives. I am just here being the good girl, going to Church and at the end of the day, I end up with a guy that doesn't appreciate me. Why are you guys like this? I am tired, she yelled emotionally! Now, that's just one of them and the other who said she was tired of being a good girl and doing all that relationship kind of thing, she just needs to man who would come to her and just say " let's get married"... I can go on and on with their stories but I was just thinking... There are lots of ladies out there looking for husbands and it's crazy for these because Men now take advantage of their condition. Some guys even go as far as promising them marriage just to get the cookies. Guys sha! I was wondering, is it that these chics are not doing something they ought to be doing? Is it that they don't position themselves to get the exact kind of guys that they want in their life? Or is it that they have behavioral issues or something? But so far I know, they are good people. When ladies get to this " age of marriage" period, it seems like they put themselves under intense pressure. Like when they see their friends getting married and family and friends asking " when are you getting married?" it makes them want to jump into any man and I tell you, a brother can see through desperation somehow! I think ladies should try as much as they can not to give into this pressure, maybe they should focus on doing something else, get involved in a Church project, activities, join a group, develop themselves further and in the course of this they could find the man of their dreams. I really don't know, but what do you think? 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by DanceVille: 9:16am On May 11, 2015 |
Through Fasting And Prayer... Remember everything in this world needs one to pray and fast, some people thinks it isn't necessary, buh trust me, it's necessary.. Without Prayers, You're doom and doom in your marriage... Everything is God's Plan.Just wait and "A Groom or Bride will be given unto you"... No kidding... Lemme hear what the posters below have to say.. 34 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by temitemi1(m): 9:16am On May 11, 2015 |
Everything in life is by GRACE... 40 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by bizmogul(m): 9:18am On May 11, 2015 |
DanceVille: My brother, while I believe in fasting and prayer but I think there's still more to it. I know those who have fasted and prayed but nothing has happened until this moment. Maybe they should fast and pray more right? What about those girls who don't know how to pray and fast but have gotten married? 27 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by dharay88: 9:19am On May 11, 2015 |
wait 4d person, and b patient... Even if its 10yrs...  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by bizmogul(m): 9:19am On May 11, 2015 |
temitemi1: You have a point there... 19 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by jumper524(m): 9:20am On May 11, 2015 |
at age 30 not less than 10 yrs of enjoyment |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by bizmogul(m): 9:20am On May 11, 2015 |
dharay88: Mhm... Good things come to those who wait right? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 9:21am On May 11, 2015 |
Their husbands they for sea they come...them never reach their sea port 13 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by dharay88: 9:21am On May 11, 2015 |
bizmogul: yea, to d patient ones. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by TheSonOfMark(m): 9:59am On May 11, 2015 |
Any male who promises to MARRY a female when he doesn't even consider it should be castrated. It's understandable if she turns coat negatively character-wise, deceives you about her health status and her loyalty and you decide to back off. 12 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 10:24am On May 11, 2015 |
temitemi1:Do you have job? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by dober(m): 11:00am On May 11, 2015 |
They should position themselves inorder to possess their possessions. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 11:24am On May 11, 2015 |
They should stop dreaming and start living 4 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by nsiazu: 11:48am On May 11, 2015 |
I think its ladies that usually cause themself not getting married coz they always want a guy that ends alot of money and have his land or car. The thing is that "A guy renting a house with a decent salary won't make him poor tomorrow". Ladies always look at a guy today and are forgetting that tomorrow is always better than today. I've met great men and women and what they always tell me is that "They were very poor when they got married" but now they re damn rich coz they believed in each others dream. Ladies of nairaland, please am begging you on my knees; God can send a poor guy to u n ask for marriage so please don't ignore and understand him and reason together with him so that u two can become rich together. 68 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by dechandel(f): 11:54am On May 11, 2015 |
Go out more Socialise Be open Learn to interact freely Take care of your looks What else?? Don't run around from one church to another seeking for divine assistance. 59 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Qualer: 3:15pm On May 11, 2015 |
[quote [/quote] I may have solutions to your friends' predicament, but I need to know the kind of people they are. Let's talk... 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by okooloyun1(m): 3:27pm On May 11, 2015 |
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| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by monsterrock: 3:28pm On May 11, 2015 |
Must they marry 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by demmy0325(m): 3:28pm On May 11, 2015 |
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| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by adesegun121(m): 3:28pm On May 11, 2015 |
Too much of everything is not good too much of serious i think that is the issue let me hv deir number i can hook dem up wth serious guy dat want to settle down but will like to ask dem few question... 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 11, 2015 |
What can u guys say about these decent girls? 5 Likes
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| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Aitee1: 3:29pm On May 11, 2015 |
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| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by aaamos(m): 3:29pm On May 11, 2015 |
Beware of Dog This land is not for sale Ok |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by naijainfogalery: 3:29pm On May 11, 2015 |
From experience Church girls and decent girls suffer more in this regard why? 1. They avoid the good guys because those guys are either shy, boring or broke 2. they want you to keep begging and toasting and running after them for 2 years, gone are those days girls, 3. they think they are too holy or saint and because they think you had a bad past they wont give you a chance at all 4. most of this girls wouldnt even grant you on a date request 5. Good girls/born again girls are very rude expecially when you are showing signs of feelings, they either dont pick you calls nor return your calls, they talk to you like you bothering them, they make communication frustrating 6. They always get it twisted thinking because they are good they will get a husband but unfortunately life is not like that 7. They should stop being rigid and be more welcoming My little cent I could remember i started liking this decent over religious girl, she replied my messages after 3 days, when i call she mostlt doesnt pick and when she does she starts talking like someone is bothering her. I was just trying to get to know her, even though she is a special jewel, sometimes a jewel might become too expensive that it will wilther off in the store for decades, it got so annoying that though i still like her now i just totally ignored and stopped bothering her that the thing is now paining her that she deleted me from BBM cos i didnt ping her , call, text or chat her for over 6 months,  i was like why pretend when you freaking feel the same way Now she is 28 but who cares, God wont come down to answer your prayer, after they have sent out all suitors with their own hands, they will now start crying and disturbing God that one mama is doing them. I know a lot of good girls in that same shoe, One funny thing about life is when you get to that desperate age no matter how good you are, how saint you are men would run away from you. So ladies be wise, You need to know how to hold your self in high esteem without sending away possible suitors, until a man marries you always have a way of keeping possible suitors around in form of friendship, Be wise one of the reason why most girls also have marriage issue is over depending on a guy that has been dating them a long while without puting a ring on it, find a way to allow other guys stick around. When that guy finally dumps them after 5 years, it becomes a disaster 141 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by stinggy(m): 3:29pm On May 11, 2015 |
DanceVille:Typical Nigerian xtain Fasting ko, slowing ni 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by safarigirl(f): 3:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
'dream' husbands only exist IN DREAMS 4 Likes |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by MrCork: 3:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
bizmogul: ..bro...all they need to do is change color to yellow.....then we men will marry them! (No Ofense)!  9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by holyokoto(m): 3:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
DanceVille: Fasting and Prayers or Staving and making noise? |
| Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by saintfizzo(m): 3:30pm On May 11, 2015 |
Too much focus on becoming a wife... kinda myopic IMO... focus on ur career and be the best U can be... see how much attention u get from opposite sex afterwards, the real problem is mispriority Trust me,being churchy doesn't guarantee shiiit 23 Likes 2 Shares |
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