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Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by LegenduryNueLs: 2:47pm On May 12, 2015
In my own notion. Any good guy with intrinsic
respect for females shouldn't have or engage in any
long-term relationship with a female having the
attitude of the feminist movement.

A relationship with a women that has the feminist
movement's mentality won't be healthy. As the
females sees men as there competitors and not
companion. A feminist woman doesn't consider
marriage as the holy matrimony, she see it as a
means to acquire new name.


Why You Shouldn't Hook-up in any long-term
relationship with a feminist;

* Feminists are taught to be independent and self-
sufficient. While it might sound nice remember the
institution of a marriage states that one partner
depends on the other for one thing or the other.
That's what keeps the love flowing.

* If you happen to relate with a feminist. She tends
to be defensive and uncontrollable as she sees
nobody else than her self. And as a guy in a
relationship, I don't think you will feel comfortable
when you can't influence the woman you are dating/
marrying.

* A good guy shouldn't indulge in any long-term
relationship with a feminist, because she sees doing
the house work, clean and cook for her husband as
the work of slaves. I bet such marriages doesn't last.

* Feminists were enlightened to believe that
marriage and mothering were conspiracies to
eliminate their female power, worth and voice.
That's to tell, that they are in a relationship just to
compete.

* Feminists, apart from being bad partners, they are
arrogant and pompous at times.


Conclusion
In as much as there are some men unworthy of
several women. And the women resolving to
feminism isn't the solution, as it will always lead to
broken home, divorced family, abandoned children.
If the feminist women are so independent then
there isn't any need to get married because there is
no space for a man in your life.

Over to you guys. Have u had any feminist encounter? cheesy cheesy

Stolen from : www.recent24online.com/2015/05/why-guy-should-avoid-women-with.html

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by CountDracula(m): 2:49pm On May 12, 2015
In conclusion; Feminists are jus giant pains in d ass and u shud try to avoid dem as a guy

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by LegenduryNueLs: 2:53pm On May 12, 2015
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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by LegenduryNueLs: 2:54pm On May 12, 2015
CountDracula:
In conclusion; Feminists are jus giant pains in d ass and u shud try to avoid dem as a guy

Exactly o grin cheesy

I won't forgive this feminist gurl I last dated undecided

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by CountDracula(m): 2:56pm On May 12, 2015
LegenduryNueLs:

Exactly o grin cheesy
I won't forgive this feminist gurl I last dated undecided
Lool. Wat did she do to u? Did she say she wants to b d groom wen u wanna marry?

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by marvelous000: 3:04pm On May 12, 2015
LegenduryNueLs:

In my own notion. Any good guy with intrinsic
respect for females shouldn't have or engage in any
long-term relationship with a female having the
attitude of the feminist movement.
A relationship with a women that has the feminist
movement's mentality won't be healthy. As the
females sees men as there competitors and not
companion. A feminist woman doesn't consider
marriage as the holy matrimony, she see it as a
means to acquire new name.
Why You Shouldn't Hook-up in any long-term
relationship with a feminist;
* Feminists are taught to be independent and self-
sufficient. While it might sound nice remember the
institution of a marriage states that one partner
depends on the other for one thing or the other.
That's what keeps the love flowing.

* If you happen to relate with a feminist. She tends
to be defensive and uncontrollable as she sees
nobody else than her self. And as a guy in a
relationship, I don't think you will feel comfortable
when you can't influence the woman you are dating/
marrying.
* A good guy shouldn't indulge in any long-term
relationship with a feminist, because she sees doing
the house work, clean and cook for her husband as
the work of slaves. I bet such marriages doesn't last.
* Feminists were enlightened to believe that
marriage and mothering were conspiracies to
eliminate their female power, worth and voice.
That's to tell, that they are in a relationship just to
compete.
* Feminists, apart from being bad partners, they are
arrogant and pompous at times.
Conclusion
In as much as there are some men unworthy of
several women. And the women resolving to
feminism isn't the solution, as it will always lead to
broken home, divorced family, abandoned children.
If the feminist women are so independent then
there isn't any need to get married because there is
no space for a man in your life.
Over to you guys. Have u had any feminist encounter? cheesy cheesy
Stolen from : www.recent24online.com/2015/05/why-guy-should-avoid-women-with.html
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This is so wrong bro.

They should be independent and self-sufficient.
That's how it ought to be,but as a man,you shouldn't allow her to take up the responsibility of your home.
Make sure you provide what is need at home,but if you are not financially fit.
Make sure you carry the lion share of the responsibility,even if she is more financially fit than you.
That's what makes you a man..the rest of your list are on point bro8)
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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by tpiadotcom: 3:14pm On May 12, 2015
feminist mentality such as washing the car.
Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by micktoxin(m): 3:29pm On May 12, 2015
If the feminist-wannabes on nl are anything to go by, then I will agree for intellectual reasons.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Mznaett: 4:20pm On May 12, 2015
Because a lady choosed to be independent guyz should not date or marry her bah? ok na we shall see

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by rapmike(m): 4:45pm On May 12, 2015
Mznaett:
Because a lady choosed to be independent guyz should not date or marry her bah? ok na we shall see

You get his point wrong. While there is nothing wrong with an independent woman, some feminists take it to the extreme, to the extent that they refuse to help their husbands and vice versa on top independence.

Marriage supposed to be a relationship of interdependence, not just two people who refuse to help each other once in a while or during difficult moments.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by lilmax(m): 5:07pm On May 12, 2015
The question is do we have them in Nigeria?

@op your first point is not necessary
Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 12, 2015
lilmax:
The question is do we have them in Nigeria?
chimamanda adichie and her naira land wannabes. Names withheld because I just don't have the strength to argue this evening.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by lilmax(m): 5:13pm On May 12, 2015
Teempakguy:
chimamanda adieche and her naira land wannabes. Names withheld because I just don't have the strength to argue this evening.
names withheld grin i know them sha,funny people

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Nobody: 5:14pm On May 12, 2015
FALLACY!!!

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by MrsChima(f): 5:21pm On May 12, 2015
First niggas bish about women asking them for things and depending on them but then complaining about women making her own money and not depend on men for support.

Make up your fucking minds niggas! Pick one and stick to it! Gotdamn

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by TrishaP(f): 5:58pm On May 12, 2015
Any guy that reasons this way is suffering from inferiority complex and will never appreciate women.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Nobody: 8:51pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:
First niggas bish about women asking them for things and depending on them but then complaining about women making her own money and not depend on men for support.

Make up your fucking minds niggas! Pick one and stick to it! Gotdamn
------>>>>>>>>

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 12, 2015
The traits u mentioned up there don't describe a feminist..that's just an air head!



A feminist sees men as equals not competitors.



Even if she is financially independent,everyone needs spousal love and affection,as long as she is a woman,she needs them too.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Abaccha(m): 9:05pm On May 12, 2015
Forget all those small small girls running about forming feminists. True feminism can't survive in Nigeria especially with the kind of mindset our nigerian sisters have.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Abaccha(m): 9:15pm On May 12, 2015
Before you toll the feminism lane, remember the following:
1. No man opens the car doors for you again
2. No man helps you with a heavy luggage
3. No man initiates sex with you first
4. No man approaches you for a relationship first, if you admire him, you must open up to him, since it's an equal world.
5. No man foots the bills for you again.
6. No man pays your bride price again
7. Etc

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by MrsChima(f): 9:30pm On May 12, 2015
Abaccha:
Before you toll the feminism lane, remember the following:
1. No man opens the car doors for you again
2. No man helps you with a heavy luggage
3. No man initiates sex with you first
4. No man approaches you for a relationship first, if you admire him, you must open up to him, since it's an equal world.
5. No man foots the bills for you again.
6. No man pays your bride price again
7. Etc

Men are holding doors for women? I dey laff oo grin

The bride's family is getting the money...not the bride. Women can carry their own luggage and foot the bills...what is the issue?

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Abaccha(m): 10:10pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:


Men are holding doors for women? I dey laff oo grin

The bride's family is getting the money...not the bride. Women can carry their own luggage and foot the bills...what is the issue?

We know women can carry their luggages, but i remember you peoples model Chimamanda once said that men couldn't even help her with her luggages one of the times she visited Finland. Finland being one of the places where feminism is thriving very well. Now is that not hypocrisy?

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by MrsChima(f): 10:21pm On May 12, 2015
Abaccha:


We know women can carry their luggages, but i remember you peoples model Chimamanda once said that men couldn't even help her with her luggages one of the times she visited Finland. Finland being one of the places where feminism is thriving very well. Now is that not hypocrisy?

Men are not by force to carry a woman's luggage and she is crazy to think such!

I am a feminist and don't think men should carry luggage if they don't want to and i have better things to be fussing about!
Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by Abaccha(m): 10:37pm On May 12, 2015
MrsChima:


Men are not by force to carry a woman's luggage and she is crazy to think such!

I am a feminist and don't think men should carry luggage if they don't want to and i have better things to be fussing about!

It's turning to an arguement and i dont want that. Bt just look deep into your heart and you must see that all those your feminist ideas are bunches of hypocrisies

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by sinizia: 12:25am On May 13, 2015
LegenduryNueLs:


* Feminists are taught to be independent and self-
sufficient. While it might sound nice remember the
institution of a marriage states that one partner
depends on the other for one thing or the other.
That's what keeps the love flowing.



This is absolutely bullshít!! No iota of sense in it. Utter fuckéry!! Some men are confused sometimes. They are quick to say they hate ladies that leech on them, ladies that contribute nothing to the relationship except séx. Yet when they find a self-sufficient and independent lady, they cry blue murder and label her a feminist; ranting on how they want the woman to depend on them. I just don't get we men sometimes. What do we really want?

i for one beseech ladies to be independent whether married or not. Men that won't tolerate them are egocentric chauvnists. The type that will easily want to dump them because they know if she's a leech, she can't fend for herself and will come running back to them. Men with low self-esteem!! Arrogant pricks that can be happy that a woman is crawling the floor to beg them for material stuffs. I won't ever raise my daughter to depend on another person. Being independent is what any sane individual should strive for. I won't marry any girl that's a leech or not independent.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by tpiadotcom: 12:54am On May 13, 2015
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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by UncleLondon: 1:01am On May 13, 2015
Feminism is evil it has destroyed the Western world. Men are now going their own way. Good there are no real feminists in Nigeria.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by rapmike(m): 1:28am On May 13, 2015
ahsekeena:
The traits u mentioned up there don't describe a feminist..that's just an air head!



A feminist sees men as equals not competitors.



Even if she is financially independent,everyone needs spousal love and affection,as long as she is a woman,she needs them too.

Thank you for this post.

A lot of females that commented here missed the point. Nobody is against a woman having her money. Its when she sees having money (perhaps and usually more money than the man) as a reason to compete with him/ put him down, then flags begin to be raised.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by tpiadotcom: 4:00am On May 13, 2015
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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by tpiadotcom: 4:02am On May 13, 2015
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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by khiaa(f): 5:43am On May 13, 2015
Some people are really clueless to what a feminist is. You should want someone who isn't totally dependent on you for EVERYTHING.


Only insecure men would be afraid of a confident woman, some of you men lack confidence and if you had any idea what a feminist was you would know that she would have your back and some of life's burdens will not be so heavy because she'll be right there with you to help carry the weight and that is what you men should want, a woman to HELP you carry the load, not a leach that is only there until she drain's you dry.

lol.. grin grin Some of you men seem to think that feminist hate men and are a bunch of butch lesbians. grin We just want to be able to make it in this world fairly and not be discriminated against because we are female. Thank God for feminist in the US or we would still be living like we were in the 40's and 50's.
Come on!! Man up guys!!!

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Re: Why A Guy Should Avoid Women With Feminist Mentality by khiaa(f): 6:02am On May 13, 2015
Abaccha:
Before you toll the feminism lane, remember the following:
1. No man opens the car doors for you again
2. No man helps you with a heavy luggage
3. No man initiates sex with you first
4. No man approaches you for a relationship first, if you admire him, you must open up to him, since it's an equal world.
5. No man foots the bills for you again.
6. No man pays your bride price again
7. Etc

It isn't necessary for the man to do 1-5, a woman is capable of doing them all hersslf, especially #3. grin grin grin In my and others situation #6 is obsolete.

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