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After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Keziehenry(op): 10:26am On May 27, 2015

Please your urgent view is highly needed.

Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by ammyluv2002(f): 10:28am On May 27, 2015

You and the girl's parents

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by NeduLuiZ(m): 10:32am On May 27, 2015

Introduction and marriages are two different things. It's her parents responsibility since she hasn't been handed over to the spouse

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by kilokeys(m): 10:33am On May 27, 2015

ur choice..

but after d dowry.. ur responsibility

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by demmy0325(m): 10:35am On May 27, 2015

The man nw if hes financially ok..

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by olu77(m): 10:35am On May 27, 2015*

It's the responbility of the introductee. No... sorry, the introductor

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by versashee: 5:34pm On May 27, 2015

a wise man would engage her in school and marry her after she graduates! grin

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by marcondo13: 8:11pm On May 27, 2015

It is only a father without self respect that will tell his daughter's fiance to pay her fees when she is still under his roof!

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 8:15pm On May 27, 2015

[color=#150000]After introduction and you start cohabiting with the girl and she spends countless nights at your place, warming your bed at night, cooking and cleaning, etc, in fact, acting like a wife to you. . . Tell me why you shouldn't pay her fees. . . Just give me one moral justification. [/color]

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by jmoore(m): 9:43pm On May 27, 2015

Her ancestors.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 27, 2015

Blackett:
[color=#150000]I have rights to my opinion. . . Don't be a fvcking _retard.[/color]

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by wheesin(m): 1:37am On May 28, 2015

krall3:
did he say she does all that? Don't be dumb.

Blackett:
[color=#150000]I have rights to my opinion. . . Don't be a fvcking _retard.[/color]

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by loomer: 2:06am On May 28, 2015

Introduction na marriage?

Na the papa na

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 3:57am On May 28, 2015

Keziehenry:
Please your urgent view is highly needed.

it is my responsibility...... Please nairalanders, I pay tuition fee for every girl that have done introduction.... I bear the financial burden forthwith ....

Shit thread everywhere

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 4:43am On May 28, 2015

It isn't his responsibility, but I'm sure it would very much be appreciated if he helped out

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by DollyParton1(f): 4:56am On May 30, 2015*

Broke parents will say its yours. Its not yours, maybe a little support here and there.
But really, if you could do an introduction ceremony with a lady in school, be ready to fund her schooling. Or wait for her to graduate.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by XVIER(m): 4:56am On May 30, 2015

You and your extended families.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Nobody: 4:57am On May 30, 2015

introduction or not , payment of sch fees is not your job/duty except you decide to assist in that aspect, she is not yet your property/responsibility guy UNLESS you are MARRIED

The very day you marry her then all her responsibilities becomes yours AUTOMATICALLY

ONCE YOU ARE MARRIED THEN CHANGE WOULD TAKE PLACE

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by Udmaster(m): 4:58am On May 30, 2015

If the guy have married her, then it is the man responsibility but if not, it is the Fathers.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by OMOTOWO(m): 4:58am On May 30, 2015

Responsibly her parents if they are financially buoyant or you pay if otherwise

Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by mykolad2820(m): 4:58am On May 30, 2015

A responsible parent should be responsible for that, but insome cases the responsibly is pushed to the spouse nevertheless the girl education is still solely the responsibility of the parent.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by DollyParton1(f): 4:59am On May 30, 2015

versashee:
a wise man would engage her in school and marry her after she graduates!

lol.... thou sayeth the original.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by mzlizabelle(f): 4:59am On May 30, 2015

She's not your wife yet as it's just an introduction, let her parents continue paying her tuition fee.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by greatgod2012(f): 5:01am On May 30, 2015*

Her parents!

A wise parents gets their children educated before handing them over to men. As such, the lady in question will have her self esteem intact and not be treated anyhow by the husband. Failure to do that, is one of the reasons wives aint been respected much by their husbands.

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by saxwizard(m): 5:01am On May 30, 2015

the new family now

Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by SomebodyLovesMe: 5:01am On May 30, 2015

Shouldn't the girl have completed schooling by then? grin

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Re: After Introduction, Whose Responsibility Is It To Pay A Girl's School Fee? by DollyParton1(f): 5:02am On May 30, 2015

NeduLuiZ:
Introduction and marriages are two different things. It's her parents responsibility since she hasn't been handed over to the spouse

Traditionally, introduction is the most important thing. Once the parents from both sides have pronounced their blessings on the union, I think the remaining ish is just for ceremonial and legit sake.

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