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Husband Scarcity by jhuzcoyle(m): 9:45am On Jun 12, 2015 |
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need.. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 9:55am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Instead of me to marry a poor man, I would rather snatch another woman's husband and become wife no 2. There is nothing pretty in poverty and management. Women just dey dull. 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by henribj(m): 10:03am On Jun 12, 2015 |
OP nice write up, but unfortunately you are preaching or trying to communicate to a female generation of "block heads/air heads". 1 Like |
Re: Husband Scarcity by Utchgirl(f): 10:05am On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: Really? Plz stop praying 4 dt rather pray 4 ur own. |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 10:08am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Utchgirl: The end result is having it abi? Forget the methods. 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by proxillin(m): 10:15am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Right. But the opposite se.x will not admit it. Proud creatures. There are thousands of them in my church. praying for husband. |
Re: Husband Scarcity by proxillin(m): 10:22am On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: When the wife number 1 outsmart u and jaz you with juju. I have seen many girls die or run mentally ill due to this. A woman who suffered (Poverty) with her man to make it in life. After making it, you come from nowhere to be wife number 2 to enjioy what you didnt work for. Its not only men that are wicked, women are far more wicked. You sleep with another woman's husband, when you get married and your husband fck little girls, please dont complain. Just buy him enough condom. 3 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 12, 2015 |
proxillin:Gbam @kilode You think wife no 1 will sit and watch besides geez this is the most unintelligent statement ave heard from a woman. Snatch another husband. What happens when the same is done to you. If he can get tired of wife1 what makes you an exception 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2015 |
proxillin: Complain about what? No complaints where there is cash... He is free to knack every knackable. As for juju, Honey dear , give me a break biko. 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by proxillin(m): 10:42am On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: I think I like you. So I can marry you as wife figure (wife position) and carry girls. A woman of my dream. First of her kind. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by Nobody: 10:47am On Jun 12, 2015 |
proxillin: Even her signature tells me everything I need to know about her. Have fun guys. |
Re: Husband Scarcity by Nobody: 10:56am On Jun 12, 2015 |
Which reminds me I have an aunt married to Fashawe the popular one and he had other wives, they were rich as in mega rich, but for some weird reason things have turned upside down for them. Obviously it seems the guy moved on to his other wives or wasn't making money as before. You know how people think money always going to rain all their lives. Money is never permanent today you have it tomorrow you don't. Just wanted to state that out for peeps here. |
Re: Husband Scarcity by chigoizie7(m): 1:44pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: If u re actually the one on ur profile, den u ve given verdict to ur case already. Why would u dream of husband not to talk of 1st wife? U re already settling for 2nd wife. Good for u and ur physique . Best of luck. If u know wat I mean. 1 Like |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 2:41pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Poor man on da lose 12 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by chigoizie7(m): 2:53pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: Look @ dis fugly/ugly orobo who has already concluded within her that no sensible man(even a stupid man sef) will ever take her as a 1st wife, perhaps relegating herself to the post of a 2nd wife if @ all she will ever be in such a position, sweetheart, u re just a demented old slowpoke. See her mouth life rich man, keep dreaming, don't go and look for something to do with your misreable life so as to elevate ur wretched state of life. Keep looking for rich husbands, akwuna kobo kobo. Ur talks are allowed, I ve always known how wretched people talk. Keep it up once more. One more thing. #quotemeanddieAsap. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 3:53pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
proxillin:You self dey disturb yourself, na guy dey operate that account |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 4:35pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Poor man 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 4:36pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
stephenqueen: Serious? Add up, send 1k glo and I will surprise you... But of course you no get 1k. Poor man 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 4:52pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: Ebuka make thunder fire you , you wan cum dey maga people for here and you think say I knw go no say na you Ebuka na wetin your brother wey dey lagos dey do be this ooo wey make dem burn am , you see how he take shorten his life.You self wan follow hin foot step ba .Chai you be bastard oooo, no go hustle, dey here dey find maga No worry I go helep you find work Cc: kingtom Alberto2k 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 5:08pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
stephenqueen: See how's he shouting because of ordinary 1k Poverty na bastard. 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 5:12pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100:If you are not in poverty, you would'nt be begging for 1k airtime Ebuka make I free you small,na only sex starved idiots go fall for your trap Go and sin no more |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 5:16pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
stephenqueen: Begging? You go school at all? You want to chat with me for free? I be your family member? 11 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 5:22pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100: Ebuka make thunder fire you , who wan chat with you I no be gay na, it's obvious you are a guy... Na only idióts go fall for your trap.You better go find work do, dey here dey find maga.mad boi |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 5:26pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
stephenqueen: He says he's not gay Queen stephen, how far ? They are always the first to say they ain't gay. Queenie stephy, I believe you. 12 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by gbens2000(m): 5:35pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
kilode100:my dear u harsh oh |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 5:52pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
pcguru1: Haven't you heard of divorce?!..... It doesn't ve to be for better for WOR...... 12 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 5:25am On Jun 13, 2015 |
[quote author=kilode100 post=34702940] [s]He says he's not gay Queen stephen, how far ? They are always the first to say they ain't gay. Queenie stephy, I believe you. [/quote[/s]] Ebuka your papa, bring your sisters for me make I lash them Poor boi |
Re: Husband Scarcity by Owoplenty(m): 6:43am On Jun 13, 2015 |
kilode100:continue |
Re: Husband Scarcity by kilode100(f): 6:53am On Jun 13, 2015 |
[quote author=stephenqueen post=34717489][/quote] Queen stephen, lash who? Gaylord 15 Likes |
Re: Husband Scarcity by 400billionman: 7:19am On Jun 13, 2015 |
As a result of... COPY AND PASTE |
Re: Husband Scarcity by stephenqueen: 8:38am On Jun 13, 2015 |
kilode100:Yes you are, dumbass |
Re: Husband Scarcity by cvibe2: 8:39am On Jun 13, 2015 |
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