misssclassy:
First of all, most Nairaland feminists are smarter and more intelligent than their other female counterparts.
Prove me wrong if you can.

Now watch as I debunk your baseless claims.

1. Feminists are not extremely rude. In fact, they are very polite. It's only when you provoke or insult them that they show you their other sides.

2. Like I said before, Nairaland feminists are not rude or disrespectful. If by being respectful you mean "licking asss" or being sycophantic in their comments, then you must be on a long thing, because We don't like asss.

3. Feminists don't hate men. We only hate the fact that men feel they are better or of a higher class than us. And as such we should treat them like our superiors and accord them such respect.
Feminism is all about a believe in the equality of the sexes so if we see a man who feels he is above us, or he is more superior than us, we will prove to him that he is not. Not that we hate him.

4. Nairaland feminists are not biased. I myself I am not biased. I say things as I see them and I know a lot of ladies who aren't biased in anyway.

5. Feminists are not delusional to themselves or the society.
And who the hell told you that feminists find single or divorced mother more appealing?
A lot of feminists embrace the concept of marriage and long for the day they get married. The only thing is that she would want her husband to respect her views on feminism, even if he doesn't support it.
Come on, there are acclaimed feminists who are happily married. You have the likes of Beyonce and Chimamanda

6)I don't know where you got this idea from but you are wrong. Most feminists here on nairaland are not even married so how would they understand a marriage situation and what to do when they have issues.
That being said, a feminist would never advice a lady to leave her marriage because of simple issues that can be handled through other means.
Except the person isn't using her brains.

7)There are many Nairalanders who are championing the cause of feminism and at the same time are still dedicated to their religions.

8 )You are the one making a hasty generalization with this point you gave.
Everyone has a right to their opinion and views. You can't force someone to join in your cause. Because someone doesn't support your views doesn't mean the person is "bad"
Feminists don't see men who don't share their views in the way you just described.

9) I am a feminist and I won't describe myself as naïve. I have had experiences in life and those experiences have shaped my mind and the way I view things.

blublahd:

You mean I failed to understand she is egotistic?

njokusboy:

Bwahahahaahha... I can't possibly be offended.... But tell me, my dear, how old is a boy

VictoriaBee:

It's my life.

Joavid:
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All LIES!!! I have never seen such baggage of lies concentrated in one post by one person.

Yuck!

To pick a few; the very few logical and intelligent women on this forum are not feminists.

Beyonce is not a feminist (if you know what feminism means at all)

And you are a perfect example of Nairaland Rude pseudo feminists.[/s]

blublahd:

You mean I failed to understand she is egotistic?

cococandy:


My dear I won't answer that.

Because it's relative.
When I was 18, a 25 yr old guy was man enough for me but a 19 yr old was a boy.
So in that order. Maybe until a certain point.
But for now another lady's kind of man may belong in that category for me, while my kind of man may belong in the 'too old for me' category for someone else.

There's no universal agreement on who everyone should categorize as boy or man when it comes to matters of the heart and the loins.

Joromi1:

There's nothing like 'Christian feminist'. Don't place a curse on ur head, dear

njokusboy:


Lolzzz, owk...

But don't go and call your age mate a boy outside oh... E no go fresh oh

VictoriaBee:

That shows the kind of environment you came from.
Let me assume you're married to only a woman and her puccy smells.
That also means all men in your family are married to women with rotten puccy plus your friends judging from your posts.
Women hating is allowed.

VictoriaBee:

There is.
Deal with it.

cococandy:


Lol na by force to like boyoyos?

Sorry a 20 year old girl is still more mature than a 20yr old boy most of the time(in my opinion)

No need giving me labels for that.

dinachi:

Alll your assumptions is an extreme nairaland feminist assumption which is always wrong and delusional.
Men and women hating is never allowed under any circumstances!
I have said it already. All you extreme feminists are cursed with eternal foolishness.
To add to it your puccy now smells atrociously!
Prepare to be eternally lonely and blame men for all the world troubles

VictoriaBee:

This thread was created by a man to bash feminism.
Pray tell, how feminists are campaigning here?

How about male feminists?

VictoriaBee:

There is.
Deal with it.

dinachi:

Alll your assumptions is an extreme nairaland feminist assumption which is always wrong and delusional.
Men and women hating is never allowed under any circumstances!
I have said it already. All you extreme feminists are cursed with eternal foolishness.

To add to it your puccy now smells atrociously!
Prepare to be eternally lonely and blame men for all the world troubles

Joromi1:

Which you can never prove. You see, I don't like involving myself in arguments like this because they never end, but it hurts me when someone tries to promote his/her own madness or ideology by lying with the name of God. The bible has clearly set the standard and there's nothing u can do about it. The woman was created from the man and therefore, the man is bound to cherish her, as he wud his own body. Men are meant to protect and love women, and that's the right they have - to be loved! So seeking equality or supremacy over the man is delusional

sinizia:


I didn't read the OP (i don't have time for feminism threads), i don't even know that this thread exist until Darkrebel whom I'm following started commenting on it and i had to pen down that piece you quoted.

Vicky, let's be truthful, how many times have you seen Nigerian feminists, take to the streets like the Aba Women Riot of yonder to protest against inequality? I've lived my life all in Naija and I'm yet to see ONE, just ONE!! I respect the western feminists more, they walk the talk. You'll see them protesting publicly, demanding for their rights, but until i joined NL, i never knew Nigerian feminists exists. That's why i never take them serious. You don't agitate for your rights online and then go back to offline to the status quo. That's stupidity and hypocrisy.

Like i told you before, realism trumps idealism hands down. Be REAL, Ms. Young Soul, men and women are not equal. It hurts but it's the truth. I'm not saying women are lower animals to men, NO!! But we're not equal. Heck ALL humans are NOT equal. Have you searched for the meaning of equality? If men and women are equal, i'd have the same breàst you have. You'd have a dìck just like me. I'd have a womb just like you. You'd have balls just like me. We COMPLIMENT each other, we're not equal. George Orwell said; "all animals are equal, but some animals are MORE equal than the others." This is a hard cold truth. You better embrace it.[ When it comes to racing, Mayweather is not Usain Bolt's equal; but when it comes to boxing, Mayweather will beat the shít out of Usain!! I don't think you know the definition of "equality".


I don't do feminism threads, so I'm gonna take my leave. But note this Vicky, mark my words, you'll keep arguing this equality ish till you grow old. But guess what? It will never make all humans equal. Good day.

VictoriaBee:

I wasn't created from a man.
Only first woman Eve was created from a man.
God told them to go and multiply - I was created from the fusion of male and female gamete.

Truckpusher:
Buhahahahaha.....damn!
You're perfectly right.

VictoriaBee:

I wasn't created from a man.
Only first woman Eve was created from a man.
God told them to go and multiply - I was created from the fusion of male and female gamete.

VictoriaBee:

Sad enough, feminists are happily married and non feminists are lonely.

Have you seen Genevieve, Rita dominic, Linda Ikeji, Funke akindele, Seyi Shey, Yemi Alade etc championing for gender equality?.

P.S I'm not saying singlehood equate loneliness but referencing to your post.

VictoriaBee:
Joavid, mention a logical woman who's not a feminist and don't come with your spurious claim.

The only self acclaimed non-feminists I know are dumb and mostly slutss.
Kim Kardashian
Lady gaga
Omotola Jalade-Ekiende

sinizia:


I didn't read the OP (i don't have time for feminism threads), i don't even know that this thread exist until Darkrebel whom I'm following started commenting on it and i had to pen down that piece you quoted.

Vicky, let's be truthful, how many times have you seen Nigerian feminists, take to the streets like the Aba Women Riot of yonder to protest against inequality? I've lived my life all in Naija and I'm yet to see ONE, just ONE!! I respect the western feminists more, they walk the talk. You'll see them protesting publicly, demanding for their rights, but until i joined NL, i never knew Nigerian feminists exists. That's why i never take them serious. You don't agitate for your rights online and then go back to offline to the status quo. That's stupidity and hypocrisy.

Like i told you before, realism trumps idealism hands down. Be REAL, Ms. Young Soul, men and women are not equal. It hurts but it's the truth. I'm not saying women are lower animals to men, NO!! But we're not equal. Heck ALL humans are NOT equal. Have you searched for the meaning of equality? If men and women are equal, i'd have the same breàst you have. You'd have a dìck just like me. I'd have a womb just like you. You'd have balls just like me. We COMPLIMENT each other, we're not equal. George Orwell said; "all animals are equal, but some animals are MORE equal than the others." This is a hard cold truth. You better embrace it. When it comes to racing, Mayweather is not Usain Bolt's equal; but when it comes to boxing, Mayweather will beat the shít out of Usain!! I don't think you know the definition of "equality".


I don't do feminism threads, so I'm gonna take my leave. But note this Vicky, mark my words, you'll keep arguing this equality ish till you grow old. But guess what? It will never make all humans equal. Good day.

dinachi:

So if your mother Eve was created from a man, where are you from? I said it ,cursed with eternal foolishness!

VictoriaBee:

You are wrong.
Men are women being different doesn't mean they are not equal.

All men don't have the same size of diick same way all women don't have the same size of breast.

I agree all humans are not equal.
A woman can be above man.
A man can be above woman. E.O.D

sinizia:


Omotola is dumb? WTF!! You see why weed is too bad for your health? Do you think every lady will be Chimamanda Adiche? Do you think Chimamanda Adiche will sell records like Lady Gaga or achieve global fame through music? This is why i keep telling you, we're all different. We're not the same. We're not equal!! Jeez!! Why am i even arguing this?

lolaredvelvet:



Wise words. You've said it all dear. Waste no more time arguing with senseless kids for they will eventually grow up... God bless!