FrancisTony:

You are right: A married man sleeping with ladies should be blamed since he has made a vow with a woman.

In most cases, his partner is usually a single lady. Why blame them since they are still unmarried?

@Mredwifeosband, their bitterness is allowed...

mredwifeosband:
side chic of a single man who is just good for a spam donor not partner

pickabeau1:


ok.

So what if he wants the kid later in life

mredwifeosband:
no be only want na wanted
do they want something that you have signed not to want. Shioor

pickabeau1:


ok

So you have deliberately had a kid that you do not want the father to be part of her life

Nkan nbe

mredwifeosband:
and what is wrong with that . must he be part of her life? Agreement is agreement. Raising such issues up is like going to the beehive unprotected and expecting bees not to sting. Let everyone face their issues and be happy. Full stop!

pickabeau1:


Period

edwife:


Frecoco if a girl you know from school sleeps around with married men and decides to get married to your brother,will you be okay with that?and why?

coldHeat:
The man is the problem.

Its that simple.

A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard.

Only an animal would beat up his wife.
If he loved the mistress so much why not marry her?

I have always said as well that "women may be the source of all the problems of the world,but it is we men that are the problems of the world".

Do your research,any woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman.
We men are the architects of the misfortune that is come upon this world. If we all can act mature for just 5 hours every day I am sure the world will be a much better place.

Imagine if every father was always at home (and not outside chasing another man's daughter in a bid to treat his male organ to a temporary, sensual venture only possible by the laws of oscillatory motion and lubrication found in physics) raising their daughters well to feel and know they are princesses and their sons to always cherish, respect women and treat them like queens, imagine how our society will evolve morally in a few years...

But no, all we have are children who think they are men (because they have large male copulatory organs or academic titles {MD, Phd, Msc, Bsc, MON, HIV,} ) and the world belongs to them living in sheer stupidity, fathering sons and daughters who will obviously out-do their own calculated acts of foolishness.
As men, the future of this world, this eternity, though spotless like a virgin awaiting her first sign of bleeding, is very much in our own hands.

freecocoa:
I personally don't think it's okay to be promiscuous, plus sleeping with a married man is not cool, I definitely will not be comfortable with my brother marrying someone like that, but that doesn't mean I get a say in how he decides to live his life, I will ofcourse let him in on what I know(the moment I'm aware they are dating because my brother likes "decent" girls) but if the lady is turned a new leaf, who am I to judge?

This is not about me btw, that statement is merely saying, there are ladies/people who don't care.

edwife:


Thank you for your honesty,i know it is not about you-i know many people who don't care,as long as they have what they want.

Why I asked this question is because we seem to blame married men alone,but i do know that it takes two to tangle.

kliq:


Yeah but then the wise cheating-husbands don't just maintain a side-chic too ...they keep a couple and call any when they need them to do the do ....why do girls date married men?

coldHeat:
The man is the problem.

Its that simple.

A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard.

Only an animal would beat up his wife.
If he loved the mistress so much why not marry her?

I have always said as well that "women may be the source of all the problems of the world, but it is we men that are the problems of the world".

Do your research, any woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman.
We men are the architects of the misfortune that is come upon this world. If we all can act mature for just 5 hours every day I am sure the world will be a much better place.

[s]Imagine if every father was always at home (and not outside chasing another man's daughter in a bid to treat his male organ to a temporary, sensual venture only possible by the laws of oscillatory motion and lubrication found in physics) raising their daughters well to feel and know they are princesses and their sons to always cherish, respect women and treat them like queens, imagine how our society will evolve morally in a few years...

But no, all we have are children who think they are men (because they have large male copulatory organs or academic titles {MD, Phd, Msc, Bsc, MON, HIV,} ) and the world belongs to them living in sheer stupidity, fathering sons and daughters who will obviously out-do their own calculated acts of foolishness.[/s]

As men, the future of this world, this eternity, though spotless like a virgin awaiting her first sign of bleeding, is very much in our own hands.

freecocoa:
It's not blaming them alone per se, but they took the vow and that comes with clear instructions as regards infidelity.

The single ladies are however free to live their lives however they deem fit, regardless of what you and I believe on morality.

edwife:

Why I asked this question is because we seem to blame married men alone,but i do know that it takes two to tangle.

FrancisTony:
1) So much lies in one post.
Satan was the first person to disobey God not Eve and he was referred as "HE" not "SHE".

2) Solomon made that statement not God and we all know he isn't perfect. Eccl 7:28
Even Mary said from henceforth all generation shall call her blessed. Luke1:48

crackhaus:

If the single ladies get a free pass in living their lives however they see fit, why don't the married men get one also regardless of what you and I believe on morality?

freecocoa:
Did you not read the first paragraph of that post?

Marriage comes with some responsibilities/rules. No?

mredwifeosband:


You don't know how much I'm enjoying this thread

FrancisTony:

Who gave birth to Jesus? Mary - woman.

Who saw Jesus first on ressurrection? Mary Magadalene and other women.

Who condemned Jesus to death? Pontius Pilate - man.

Who betrayed Jesus? Judas Iscariot - man.

Tsk! Tsk!!

crackhaus:

And single-hood comes with no responsibilities and rules? Yes?

Does morality kick-in only when one is married?

FrancisTony:
1) So much lies in one post.
Satan was the first person to disobey God not Eve and he was referred as "HE" not "SHE".

God himself treated eve like a queen, what did he get in return? Eve was the first human to disobey God, was she not a woman? Samson treated Delilah like a demigod, what did he get in return?

freecocoa:
I don't know any rules that comes with being single in this context. I'd be glad if you can help me with that.

Morality like I already said is subjective, married people remaining faithful to their partners is not about morality, as some married people swing.

This is about cheating, which I am yet to see anybody be okay with.

freecocoa:
It's not blaming them alone per se, but they took the vow and that comes with clear instructions as regards infidelity.

The single ladies are however free to live their lives however they deem fit, regardless of what you and I believe on morality

crackhaus:

Why do you think I keep saying it's a man's world?.... and still 'they' keep catching feelings from this statement of truth

crackhaus:

A single girl dating and sleeping with a married man is a sin resulting from breaking two commandments (fornication and coveting another woman's property), is it not?

A married man cheating on his wife is also a sin resulting from breaking his marriage vows and the commandment against adultery, is it not?


Now my initial question to you which stemmed from your comment is this:
If the single girl gets a free pass because she's not bound by morality regardless what you and I think about it, why is the married man not getting a free pass also regardless what you and I think of his vows?

Is the sin of a single woman dating a married man lesser than that of the married man she's sleeping with?
Aren't both of them breaking commandments at the end of the day?

BABE3:


This is what's adding to the boldness of side chics nowadays... lack of accountability. Side chics were never this bold. Never, ever

lf we say single girls are free to do what they want, and married men must zip up, how long before the married men fall into temptation? Do you know the level of temptation a man is faced with in this day and age? In the day and age where pùssy has been liberated and women are as sexually aggressive as men? A day and age where you can now transfer fat from your waist to your bùtt for a token?

Even if the married man is Jesus, how long before he falls for the side chics? It's not easy abeg. Let's be practical. If these side chics are not stigmatized, their population will keep growing.

So far we keep "evolving", side chics, gáys and trannys are here to stay. Anything goes.

freecocoa:
You still don't seem to get me.

Not everyone is a christian and I'm not one either so that your sin analogy is not applicable here.

Come up with something else.

freecocoa:
Oh really? So can a married woman also fall for temptation? Or are you of the opinion that married woman aren't also tempted?

You are saying that, that the ability to control oneself is dependant on another, no?

freecocoa:
Oh really? So can a married woman also fall for temptation? Or are you of the opinion that married woman aren't also tempted?
You are saying that, that the ability to control oneself is dependant on another, no?

crackhaus:

A single girl dating and sleeping with a married man is a sin resulting from breaking two commandments (fornication and coveting another woman's property), is it not?

A married man cheating on his wife is also a sin resulting from breaking his marriage vows and the commandment against adultery, is it not?


Now my initial question to you which stemmed from your comment is this:
If the single girl gets a free pass because she's not bound by morality regardless what you and I think about it, why is the married man not getting a free pass also regardless what you and I think of his vows?

Is the sin of a single woman dating a married man lesser than that of the married man she's sleeping with?
Aren't both of them breaking commandments at the end of the day?