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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by armyofone(m): 8:20pm On Jul 06, 2015
Parents should have the numbers of kids they can possibly take care of. Too many girls depend on men for their necessities. The parents are partly to blame... I'm saddened for the fact that many parents are still having large numbers of children.
Guys, life without big O isn't bad. Stop taking advantage of bad situations or the unfortunate conditions of other people.

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jul 06, 2015
troy20:

ok jus confess smal.i wan tel u one secret.
No need to confess any sh1t.

No Nairalander can proove that I'm a female but some can attest that I'm male.
Do I even have a point to proove to you? NO
The blog name on my siggy. undecided
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by kliq(m): 8:25pm On Jul 06, 2015
aflyingbird:
might be that she doesn't know he's married, it's possible. but maybe she does or he told her but still wants to date him anyway. any self-respecting woman won't date a married man 'cus if the tables were turned she wouldn't like it if it happened to her. this isn't even the question you should be asking, but... why do married men have side chicks? they're the ones going out to look for these women when they should be responsible, faithful and loving husband to their wives. if you know you can't keep your vows to your wife, why get married?



Wise response but regards married men going after other women well there's a say;"men are naturally polygamous " lipsrsealed
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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Ewuro4: 8:27pm On Jul 06, 2015
armyofone:
Parents should have the numbers of kids they can possibly take care of. Too many girls depend on men for their necessities. The parents are partly to blame... I'm saddened for the fact that many parents are still having large numbers of children.
Guys, life without big O isn't bad . Stop taking advantage of bad situations or the unfortunate conditions of other people.


cheesy cheesy

Nobody's taking advantage of anyone, they're both two adults in mutual agreement to commit a heinous crime.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jul 06, 2015
@OP

Look no further for an answer . The major cause of such ill attitude from some men towards their wives always happen when a wife start practicing " see through " toward her husband . Over familiarity breeds contempt .
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:31pm On Jul 06, 2015
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 8:33pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry



Amen! cheesy
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by IceDude(m): 8:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
I will neva treat my side chick beta than my wife. B4 side chick go chop my N10 my wife don chop N100..........I pray make i get beta wife shaembarassed

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:34pm On Jul 06, 2015
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jul 06, 2015
Empero1:
@OP
Look no further for an answer . The major cause of such ill attitude from some men towards their wives always happen when a wife start practicing " see through " toward her husband . Over familiarity breeds contempt .

Trying to figure out what you mean.. but anyhoo @OP

I feel that there is a Tradition that has failed to accept the realities of modern-day social living and adjust accordingly.
Women feel a sense of entitlement to their Man as part of a ladder of achievements set-out from Childhood.. Get to be 16--> get a boyfriend--> Have Sex-->University-->Boyfriend-->More Sex-->Get Married-->Have a Home-->Have Kids--Keep her Man MEN are not built that way emotionally or spiritually

Truth is Marriage is not about Love and Love won't keep it going cos we all know that Love is as good as a bowl of chocolate ice-cream. it is not forever and it is definitely not Magic.

Mutual Respect is the key, anyman can cheat on his spouse or girlfriend, it takes a sense of mutual respect not to. Women must also recognize that peeking and poking is a sign of doubt and disrespect, if you continue peeking, you shall find what you seek.

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by pBuhari(f): 8:37pm On Jul 06, 2015
what is your question please ?
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by PunterTim(m): 8:38pm On Jul 06, 2015
coldHeat:
The man is the problem.

Its that simple.

A man is and must always be a symbol of strength and self-control. I cannot blame a woman for anything when a man is involved. As the head and fore-runner he is automatically responsible and irresponsible if any event occurs within the influence of his power and he falls short of the standard.

Only an animal would beat up his wife.
If he loved the mistress so much why not marry her?

I have always said as well that "women may be the source of all the problems of the world, but it is we men that are the problems of the world".

Do your research, any woman today that is happy or sad, or hurt or mad, it is a man that made her so and not another fellow woman.
We men are the architects of the misfortune that is come upon this world. If we all can act mature for just 5 hours every day I am sure the world will be a much better place.

Imagine if every father was always at home (and not outside chasing another man's daughter in a bid to treat his male organ to a temporary, sensual venture only possible by the laws of oscillatory motion and lubrication found in physics) raising their daughters well to feel and know they are princesses and their sons to always cherish, respect women and treat them like queens, imagine how our society will evolve morally in a few years...

But no, all we have are children who think they are men (because they have large male copulatory organs or academic titles {MD, Phd, Msc, Bsc, MON, HIV,} ) and the world belongs to them living in sheer stupidity, fathering sons and daughters who will obviously out-do their own calculated acts of foolishness.

As men, the future of this world, this eternity, though spotless like a virgin awaiting her first sign of bleeding, is very much in our own hands.



U jus Obfuscating,dnt type dis poo ever again...

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Qweenedo2(f): 8:39pm On Jul 06, 2015
The truth is that naturally or psychologically men are polygamous in nature, Its their make up. Have seen lots of Men who have pretty wives at home, they still flirt. So its something you shouldn't brother storming your head for or trying to find the answer to the question, cos you cant stop it. To show how worse it is, some men wives are more prettier than their side chick, there is this discontentment nature that is associated with men and it even stems up when HE become rich.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by kevoh(m): 8:40pm On Jul 06, 2015
Hope eligible bachelors like us are allowed to comment on the topic, I love side chics tongue. Side chics make sense. Side chics make good loving grin Side chics help keep the body sane for those in distant relationships. My Side chics can be upgraded to girlfriend/fiancee level if girlfriend messes up tongue Infact side chics make the world go round! cheesy











#just.playing.around Shout out to the pretty side chics though.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Certifiedboss: 8:41pm On Jul 06, 2015
yorubadelta:
Gone are the days when an average young lady anticipated being graced with the title of Mrs Somebody. Nowadays, there is a growing trend of young girls being proud to be dating a married man/sugar-daddy. Aside from the scandalous Toke/Maje/Anita saga, Former Governor in Nigeria reportedly beat up his wife recently in London because she confronted him for impregnating his mistress. This same man publicly displays his love for the young girl he has been dating since she was 18yrs of age.. He showers her with the finest things of life whilst treating his own wife with disdain.

In day to day life, so many women suffer in the hands of their husbands, you will see men spending all their earnings on women outside but refuse to pay their own children’s school fees. This is what I find so disheartening… Morality is so unpopular in our present day.

But.. who is to blame for this new shameless trend? The “seductive” young ladies or the men who have trained them to believe it is more rewarding to be a mistress.


Share your thoughts..


I don't know what to say about this but I believe any young girls that's dating a married man and making him neglect his family that young girl will have her own share in future . But then they will keep running from church to church not remembering it's a problem they caused for themselves

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by IceDude(m): 8:42pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry
This one is strong! Bros abeg take am easy....Lol
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by anigold(m): 8:44pm On Jul 06, 2015
yorubadelta:
Gone are the days when an average young lady anticipated being graced with the title of Mrs Somebody. Nowadays, there is a growing trend of young girls being proud to be dating a married man/sugar-daddy. Aside from the scandalous Toke/Maje/Anita saga, Former Governor in Nigeria reportedly beat up his wife recently in London because she confronted him for impregnating his mistress. This same man publicly displays his love for the young girl he has been dating since she was 18yrs of age.. He showers her with the finest things of life whilst treating his own wife with disdain.

In day to day life, so many women suffer in the hands of their husbands, you will see men spending all their earnings on women outside but refuse to pay their own children’s school fees. This is what I find so disheartening… Morality is so unpopular in our present day.

But.. who is to blame for this new shameless trend? The “seductive” young ladies or the men who have trained them to believe it is more rewarding to be a mistress.


Share your thoughts..

its because some sidechicks can easily satisfy their(men) animalistic and pornographic sexual fantasies... Some sidechicks do give unbelievable Bjs and S*x which their real wives cant give...
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by xynerise: 8:50pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry
Na so my friend wey be cassonava today talk when e still be virgin undecided

Though, I still see no reason a man will love his mistress more than his wife when his wife is "up and doing".


Sexual performance could be one reason I guess undecided
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by cococandy(f): 8:51pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
May a spear be driven into my anus and come out of my mouth if I treat my wife with disdain because of one runs girl, may my testicles be bathed with hot dry danjarawa pepper if I try it, may lakaye use my blood to bathe if I try am. Nonsense!!!!!!! angry angry

Easy bro. Those images are disturbing

We know you won't do such. And your determination will help you stick to it.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by U2ice(m): 8:56pm On Jul 06, 2015
Civilisation takes d blame
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
IceDude:
This one is strong! Bros abeg take am easy....Lol
Na so Na grin
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by fm7070: 8:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
There is more to it than mete the eye.
Some married women are so boring and not romantic
They get relaxed and lose shape after giving birth to 2-4 children
This is not about age but packaging
When their husband warned them in soft tone, they always think he was joking
Not taking him so seriously
Sometimes, they are insensitive to the sexual needs of their husband
When they eventually allow sex, it is always missionary style and they will just lie down like a log of wood
leaving the man to just satisfy himself and even pretend as if sex is nothing to them whereas, they enjoyed it,
but did not make the man feels the excitement
One the other hand, mistress out there is ready to rock any style with you
she makes you feel you're a man and that sex is to be mutually enjoyed
she dance and twist for you during sex, giving you a real sense of action
she knows what to do to get you awake even up to six or seven rounds
Sucking your penis is not a big deal to them.
So, what are we talking about?
3 things are very important to men: Food, Sex and good character
If you can cook good food with good character but without good hot sex
men may cheat on you
If you can rock your man's world sexually and feed him well but with few bad character,
he may be managing you
Am talking from experience
A word is enough for the wise

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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by sandrannna(f): 8:59pm On Jul 06, 2015
Side chicks gv them ecstatic styles. Sheeeee wife fit do 69? No.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:59pm On Jul 06, 2015
xynerise:

Na so my friend wey be cassonava today talk when e still be virgin undecided

Though, I still see no reason a man will love his mistress more than his wife when his wife is "up and doing".


Sexual performance could be one reason I guess undecided
Ichie Udele. Eze ndi ara grin
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:59pm On Jul 06, 2015
cococandy:


Easy bro. Those images are disturbing

We know you won't do such. And your determination will help you stick to it.
It is a constant reminder grin
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 06, 2015
mredwifeosband:
get ready for the angry man syndrome. They'll soon come and descend on you grin grin grin



The only reason most men love their wives dearly is because of the side chick in their lives. They always help to kill boredom in exchange for cash and goodies.
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by xynerise: 9:02pm On Jul 06, 2015
KingTom:
Ichie Udele. Eze ndi ara grin
Abushi ra cha amu gi eba grin
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 9:09pm On Jul 06, 2015
xynerise:

Abushi ra cha amu gi eba grin
Tufia!!! You are right though, the issue of sex plays a major role. Those women Wey ho enter house begin wear draws instead of G string shey Una dey hear grin
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by kobonaire(m): 9:10pm On Jul 06, 2015
Because runs-girls give you the sweetest.....

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