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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 8:48am On Jul 07, 2015 |
KingTom: My o my! Igbati of life.. Hahahaha 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bashydemy(m): 8:50am On Jul 07, 2015 |
KingTom:Lol hahaha funny |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bashydemy(m): 8:51am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta:You just can't what? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:55am On Jul 07, 2015 |
bashydemy:Na true Na |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 8:55am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta: 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by yorubadelta(f): 8:59am On Jul 07, 2015 |
bashydemy: Just can't argue any further because as much as I feel slightly offended, I can't seem to counter ur statement.. it definitely holds an element of truth. So like I said before, shine ur eyes before taking the leap. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bashydemy(m): 9:03am On Jul 07, 2015 |
yorubadelta:Thanks for being honest... But i hope we can change someday.. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by deebsman1(m): 9:30am On Jul 07, 2015 |
If u feminists allow the Islamic injunction of marrying 4 wives be, there will be a great reduction in agbere (adultery) |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Chidoks(f): 9:49am On Jul 07, 2015 |
in my opinion both parties are wrong. on a strictly serious note what the hell is side chick??a prostitute is a prostitute.a prostitute is any person be it male or female that indulges in sex solely for monetary gain.ladies these days prefer to keep their bad characters and still get maintanance allowance from adultrous men.these days they are littered everywhere especially in that demonic network called badoo.my point is married men should respect their wives, home and bodies.stick to the one thst loves,respects and prays for you.stick to the one that will be called a widow if the slut kills you with hiv.stick to the one thst washes your clothes,cleans the house cooks your meals and wishes you well. as for those smelly whores,i dont have their time in 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 07, 2015 |
KingTom:Hahahaha. Me ke. Sha I be Yoruba and Delta at the same time Omo Delta ni mi o. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Emmaville(m): 10:06am On Jul 07, 2015 |
If ladies were decent, we won't hav dis problems. And if married women were submissive too and adventurous. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bukatyne(f): 10:14am On Jul 07, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Bro 5mins, Can you state specifically where the Bible says men are 'naturally' or 'have tendencies' to be polygamous? I know you believe solely in the Bible, your submission thread pointed that out Thanks |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by KingTom(m): 10:16am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Herzumpther:You be Yoruba na Unto that level |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bukatyne(f): 10:17am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Emmaville: I agree with you that if ladies were decent and if married women were submissive and adventurous, married men will not cheat. Can you tell us what guys and married men should do to avoid wives cheating? Thanks in advance 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bukatyne(f): 10:21am On Jul 07, 2015 |
In my opinion, 100% lies on the feet of a husband who steps out of his marriage. I hope the people apportioning % blames would post on tpia's counter tread. When a married woman cheats with a single guy, what is the blame ratio? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by troy20(m): 10:27am On Jul 07, 2015 |
dt coldheat no de ever make reasonable comment. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by canDy4eva(f): 11:00am On Jul 07, 2015 |
kliq:truest talk! 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by 5minsmadness: 11:01am On Jul 07, 2015 |
bukatyne:What has that got to do with anything? It's not a bible principle that all men are polygamous, I was responding to what coco typed:
And no, I don't believe solely in the bible. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 11:16am On Jul 07, 2015 |
Let me re-follow this thread because someone is about to LIE. There's no-where I was taught in my Catholic tradition that men are polygamous if he switches to the direction. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bukatyne(f): 11:44am On Jul 07, 2015 |
5minsmadness: I am sure her post was tongue in cheek Solely is the wrong word here... You are a Christian? What part of the Bible says men have the 'tendency' to be polygamous. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by amacastel: 11:47am On Jul 07, 2015 |
crackhaus: Ur post is quiet funny the problem here is us african mixing tradition with religion generally African men are polygamous in natire is impossible for them to have sex with just 1 woman all their adult live that is the way they r mead by God even men of old in the bible don't have 1 wife A man is no 1 woman property. If he marry the side chick like some alleged there will be war in the house , his property and accents will be shared so is even beta he is not married to a 2nd wife Men seems to treat side chick beta cos they knw that's all they can get cos if they are gone every thing goes to the wife and kids Besides some girl friend understand the man more than the wife cos most women esp the rich men wife spend most of their time grouping themselves discussing their husband shortcomings, arranging parties while side chicks play the role of real wife to the man . IF WOMEN TREAT THEIR husband the way they treat their sugar boys the man won't cheat so is a 2 way thing 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by egobetatoday: 11:49am On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat: wise words...i envy your mother. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
KingTom:Lol. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by 5minsmadness: 12:38pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bukatyne:None that i know of. What's ur point? |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by jonesanna: 12:41pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by adebisicutie: 1:20pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
bukatyne: Lmao, don't you know the gist yet? No matter the scenario the woman is to be blamed nairaland 101 |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by whoisuche: 1:56pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
FrancisTony: True talk |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by bukatyne(f): 2:04pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
adebisicutie: |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by damiso(f): 2:46pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
BABE3: I just had to like and also quote. I also used to think Western( white men to be precise ) were the epitome of Prince Charming Human beings are human beings. No matter how much Maria Shriver got in the divorce settlement I don't think it can account for the Hurt of knowing that your husband had a love child under your nose. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by refreshrate: 3:11pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
coldHeat: Guy you've not met some women. I tell you. When you hear 'not tonite I have a headache' what comes to mind? Or 'see I'm not in the mood' Meanwhile the poor man must have been planning his smash all day from work only to come to this. I'm not saying women are s3x slaves & only good for such but has a woman ever called you up whilst at work to please pick up some milk on your way home & you forgot? Everything I mean everything is practically out on hold, why? I'm not justifying the act of maintaining side chics, kept women or whatever but like someone said earlier men are supposed to be stronger blah blah blah. for the guy he needs to get it when he wants it, the woman acting up with excuses such as the above meanwhile one smallie outside is prepared to give it to him at the drop of a hat, let's be honest where do you think he'll be spending his money eventually ? Read recently all it takes to overcome the love you have for someone is to think fondly repeatedly of someone else. When the wife keeps behaving that way cos she feels she needs to ascertain her position for whatever reason the man will resort to an alternative no doubt & God help you if the alternative knows the workings of the processes better than the wife at home. Another is when the wife spends all her dedication on religious programs & is always telling oga of how she's fasting more times than the sun comes up in a year. Whoever contests why men do this does not understand the primal needs of men & how it operates trust me. konji na bastard & remarks such, as you think are for fun? Women need to understand the needs of their husbands and I promise you once you're able to work your way round that, dude ain't going no where. Think of it this way, in most cases where the marriage eventually breaks down & he moves in with the kept lady, how often do you see him leaving ? A guy at first is prepared to give up so much for the woman at first, then she (probably) starts using s3x as a weapon. Its only natural he gets out of the line of fire. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
It's no brainer that OP(Yorubadelta) is Lolaredvelvet and "delta" in her username further proves my allegation that she's an alternate moniker of newlyweded female in this section. Chai, I can't continue with this girl. |
Re: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by limamintruth: 3:30pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
To the topic: Only an extremely fo..olish man will treat his who.re better than his wife. .......... Apportioning blames wont solve any issue but will rather complicate things. Adam (the first human) was guilty of same blame-game & that cost him & his entire descendants the garden of bliss (Eden). Lets all learn to accept responsibility for our actions & inactions, rather than pushing the blame to a 3rd party. If you, as a husband or wife feel your love for your spouse does not exist anymore, or that it has greatly diminished, or that you have more love for your partner-in-infidelity than your spouse e.t.c; why not take the honourable step of divorcing the spouse you now disdain instead of subjecting him/her to constant worry & emotional pain? To be candid, i'm tired of all these gender-competition going on in the family section on daily basis as if we all are kids with no sense of direction. Superiority is not of man to claim, but of God alone (cos we are all His creation). Or maybe we northerners are more considerate with our spouses I guess. |
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