Swagk101:
Toks2008 spot on!!!Them go still wan flex since age is still on their side,most of 'em are bed-warmers.#MyOpinion

Gbam. Bed warmers confirmed.

For about two years now i have realized this that most girls in their early twenties are ready to get down with you but not interested in commitment and even careless and i just wonder.

If not for christ in me i go don lose count of how many ladies in their teens and early twenties wey person don use warm body but when they realize they are getting old,packaging go start. We guys are in trouble big time because most of these matured ladies are repackaged oloshos but how we for do?

On point...

Still, different strokes for different folks.

Beamborla:

Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years

WTF!

Yes o see my life?

now ladies wont stop asking me jamb questions like

How come you are still single at 40? i just tell them that i was in one chance affair for 11years so now i dey find matured babe wey go don see experience like must have been heart broken,head broken,everything broken by at least 3 guys. Such will calm down.

If a man thinks he has found love with a naive lady then he just might be fooling himself cos no matter how caring loving faithful cute rich or romantic you may be,a naive lady will always believe ther is something better out there while the experienced knows better that a good guy is very hard to find.

Toks2008:


Gbam. Bed warmers confirmed.

For about two years now i have realized this that most girls in their early twenties are ready to get down with you but not interested in commitment and even careless and i just wonder.

If not for christ in me i go don lose count of how many ladies in their teens and early twenties wey person don use warm body but when they realize they are getting old,packaging go start. We guys are in trouble big time because most of these matured ladies are repackaged oloshos but how we for do?

Yes o!!!Its only the grace of God that saves one from this mess.Person for just dey.......

Beamborla:

Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years

WTF!

it happens. Although most times the only issue might be a partner who feels they need some variety and all that stuff

CertifiedFreak:
Well ma'am, you should add that most ladies in their mid-late 20's cum early 30's are also desperate to settle down as hell hence they'll do just about anything to win a guy over even all your aforementioned. A lady who's not married in her early 30's needs spiritual cleansing as all your supposed viable points abound in ladies in their early 20's as well.

Very very few ladies in their early 20s will you find these qualities

They feel they are still hot so the world revolves around them, so they play silly hard to get till the man runs away

Toks2008:


Yes o see my life?

now ladies wont stop asking me jamb questions like

How come you are still single at 40? i just tell them that i was in one chance affair for 11years so now i dey find matured babe wey go don see experience like must have been heart broken,head broken,everything broken by at least 3 guys. Such will calm down.

If a man thinks he has found love with a naive lady then he just might be fooling himself cos no matter how caring loving faithful cute rich or romantic you may be,a naive lady will always believe ther is something better out there while the experienced knows better that a good guy is very hard to find.

At first, i was shocked... now I'm laughing.

How can you date someone for 11yrs (seen my mixed reaction now)

like who does that?
She tried, she was with you for 11 good yrs before leaving, she gave you the whole of her prime.

You guys were dating for 11yrs? What were you doing in the relationship that you couldn't do in 5yrs at most and get married.

I don't even know how to organize my thoughts. I have a lot in my head right now

If only it is still tight down there

Beamborla:

At first, i was shocked... now I'm laughing.

How can you date someone for 11yrs (see my mixed reaction now)

like who does that?
She tried, she was with you for 11 good yrs before leaving, she gave you the whole of her prime.

You guys were dating for 11yrs? What were you doing in the relationship that you couldn't do in 5yrs at most and get married.

I don't even know how to organize my thoughts. I have a lot in my head right now

lol we had an elaborate intro 6 years into ctship but no trdtnal marriage yet as we both agreed to wait for some rsons but thats history now.

Wonderful!

Trash, so I should probably marry a 30 year old lady wey her puna don turn common entrance. Yua not wise.

Very soon we go shift the age to 35-40years... Naija ladies are in deep shiit.

The OP is so correct...

Girls above 25 really do know what they want...they have their goals all Mapped out and so wont have time to play around with boys...they dont let their hearts to be overwhelmed by their beauty and mundane things...they know who a real man is...they look beyond material things...

OP your head correct...

But let us be warned that this does not appy to all ladies above 25...sometimes younger ladies act more matured than ladies above 30 years...

The OP has a good point tho.

But...

I prefer catching them young.

Most of these late twenties or early thirties girls are over shagged punnaní and desperate.

kjnr:
are you trying to say that true love dnt exist with ladys below 25year of age?

Nice question.

My fiancee is 19 and her reasoning is great

Na headache them be!

Op! This thread is just timely. I had a chat this morning with a girl in her early 20s. Took ages to get her to talk, but when she eventually did, she was giving me attitude and "racking sense". I just laughed cos I know I can't have anything serious with that attitude. And she was claiming age is just a number. Imagine!

On the other hand, discussions with girls in their late 20s are usually worthwhile and productive. U learn a thing or two everytime.

True. Very true. Small girls get plenty wahala. Many of them are myopic. Just a few reason with a realistic future in mind.

Am expecting a counter thread soon.

I really don't think it's all about age.....
I know a lady who is 28 and still a virgin and a lady of 22 ,still a student but I'm sure have lost count of the number of guys she's slept with.
I also know a girl of 19 who is more mature,intelligent,decent ( not because she's young or don't have men flocking around her)focused and well behaved than some ladies in their late twenties. So,it's not about age but the individual. Search for the right person but don't marry a woman who is your age mate!

Mind you guys,desperation to settle down amongst ladies have nothing to do with age,just like some older ones,most younger ones also want to settle down. You need to see those younger ones stalking guys they really wish to settle down with. And ladies can pretend to be whatever you want them to be just to tie you down. Only 2% will show you who they truly are while dating. Such ones are termed stubborn and disrespectful or not showing signs of a wife material but she's not. They are not just pretenders and ready to learn if they sincerely love you.Age or no age,women are the same.

And unlike you Toks,early marriage is common among guys these days. My older brother who is 29 is thinking of settling down soon and you don't expect him to bring home a girl of 28,29 and above....
Well,people like Dare art alade and Peter Okoye who married women older than them,said experience counts for them but then every one can't be the same.

Number 4 is on point

very true

Thank You so much ... Knowledge Speaks Wisdom Listening

Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

The Op sadly is right, the days of catch them young is long gone,no one wants libility in all its episodes,I think most men these days want a woman with foundation so he can lay his base there in order to build on if you get waht I mean.

enitey:
Number 4 is on point

why would you say that?

You have really spoken well on this @OP.

Most ladies in their late twenties are not tight down there due to different types of prick they have consumed.I no dey enjoy kitty wey open like borehole o.But most early 20's are still fresh and tighter.

are you trying to say that true love dnt exist with ladys below 25year of age?

Adufetohposh:

Nice Moustache ز@dp

Age means little as far as their is no cradle robbing
A bad girl is a bad girl at any age and same for a good girl. Age brings maturity yeah but some 45 year olds immature. So just try your luck whatever the age


As for me I can't get married later than 25 sha

Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

Under 25 alert !

Seriously, age does not determine maturity. Also under 25s' are generally seen as being tmore able to conceive and give birth without CS operations and Fibroid issues.
The under 25s' are also regarded as more easy to mold to your line of reasoning, unlike the late 20s' and early 30s' ladies who, often, have seen and experienced everything and may find it difficult to submit their hard earned independence to just any man.

This is ur own opinion, the young shall grow decency is not by age is by character, if u are complaining that younger one's cnt take good care of u then show her how to take care of u, if u are dating older one's because of her financial stability dat mean u are irresponsible man u take care of the family not allowing her take ur responsibility I believe in catch them young man not catch them old