Toks2008:
10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

A man asked "What age group of ladies should i approach if i really want to settle down?"

The answer is not far fetched but before i answer i would like to state emphatically that age is no factor as we have some teenagers who are more matured mentally and psychologically than ladies in their thirties but nevertheless i will advice that any man who really wants to settle down should forget approaching ladies below the age of 25years because most of these ladies are still not sure of what they want in a man.

Majority of ladies below 25 don't even have enough experience to go into marriage and will rather want to still play around in the name of dating and if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few.

So the question is..what age group should a man consider if he really wants to settle down and the answer is clear,i will advice you go for ladies of 25years and above and the higher the age the better. WHY?

[b]1.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are matured in mind because most of them are experienced..

2.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.

3. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are financially INDEPENDENT.

4. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her late 20s and early 30s.

5. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have no business with DOUBLE DATING.

6. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.

7. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know what they want in life, unlike d early 20's

8.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have a decent DRESS SENSE.

9. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are COURAGEOUS.

10. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are admirable with heart-melting MANNER which can be a natural virtue or as a result of past experience.[/b]

Well, from what u put up there, what I undstnd is dis, any lady in her late twenties n early thirties and nt married will surely strt doing evrytin possible to. I see no big deal here. M in my early twenties n engaged, m nt proud bt as I read thru ur write up, I cud see myself there. I dont depend on my guy or parents for anytin cos I cn fend for myself. M ready to settle down n thus doing all doz above. Its all about maturity n not age. I kno wat I want in a man n thus ready to go into marriage.

Adufetohposh:

I was expecting ur comments.. seems u fall into d category as per d listed criterias..

Toks2008:


Gbam. Bed warmers confirmed.

For about two years now i have realized this that most girls in their early twenties are ready to get down with you but not interested in commitment and even careless and i just wonder.

If not for christ in me i go don lose count of how many ladies in their teens and early twenties wey person don use warm body but when they realize they are getting old,packaging go start. We guys are in trouble big time because most of these matured ladies are repackaged oloshos but how we for do?

Note the Bolden, you can be very wrong there!

I can vouch that because a lady is of age and not married or is unhooked does not automatically qualifies her as Olosh,

It just like saying every unemployed matured man is a CRIMINAL.

Do you get my Vibe?

Please young people can also give birth through CS too. It depends on the medical condition.

lozanni:


Under 25 alert !

Seriously, age does not determine maturity. Also under 25s' are generally seen as being tmore able to conceive and give birth without CS operations and Fibroid issues.
The under 25s' are also regarded as more easy to mold to your line of reasoning, unlike the late 20s' and early 30s' ladies who, often, have seen and experienced everything and may find it difficult to submit their hard earned independence to just any man.

iranu abasha

After them bad niqqas don pack the better things for the shop abi.

Beamborla:

Are you kidding me? You meet her when she was 19 and dated for 11 good years

WTF!

I thought I was the only one that saw it.

OP...what I love about your write up more than any other is the part about financial independence. There is nothing sweeter than dating a financially independent woman. It's the true definition of a relationship. The first financially independent lady I dated, it felt like the first time I was actually in a relationship. Where the demands were almost non existent. It was a very new experience for me. Since we parted, I told myself that I will never enter into any relationship with someone who is not independent.

If you still a student...on your own. Having something to do is a must for me!

Well.. it's a nice piece up there... Certainly age does not define maturity.. experiences does.. a girl of 22 could be thought as very natured as a result of past experiences...

Flashh:
Yes! But most of them had tasted too many d**ks.

too Much Mileage on those Ladies,Late twenties/Early thirties ladies be Tokunbo

Ok op.
They don hear.
What of ladies in their 40's?

Team 40's anyway.

Toks2008:


Gbam. Bed warmers confirmed.

For about two years now i have realized this that most girls in their early twenties are ready to get down with you but not interested in commitment and even careless and i just wonder.

If not for christ in me i go don lose count of how many ladies in their teens and early twenties wey person don use warm body but when they realize they are getting old,packaging go start. We guys are in trouble big time because most of these matured ladies are repackaged oloshos but how we for do?

That's why it is better to catch them young.

this isn't totally correct though

HAZAZEL:
Toks2008, your points are well laid out. Character wise one truly observes maturity and definiteness of purpose in the upper 25 age class of ladies.

However the reason why men go for far younger women is because: pound for pound women age faster than men. No man wants after say 10 years of marriage one can't differentiate between your wife and your mum.


Another angle is that you can't teach an old woman new dance steps. Women in this age grade assume they have seen it all relationship wise and hence are averse to gainful change.


That is my submission.

Women age faster than men, how come u can't differentiate between your wife & mum?? Is your mum not aging?

I beg to differ... ladies in that age range could be summarized with one word... "DESPERATE ". age is but a number. it's the maturity that matters.

Most ladies in their late twenties are aware of their age and would do anything and here i mean anything to hold on to any eligible bachelor who crosses their path. They are willing to take all the poos that come their way, saying words like, ''its because of the love i have for you that i am ready to sustain this relationship''.

Ladies in their twenties always have this phobia for calendars especially if another year is fast ending.

Ladies in their twenties are so conscious of what they wear when they attend weddings and social events.

Ladies in their twenties prefer guys in their mid thirties rather than guys in their late twenties.

Ladies in their twenties are forced to be nice even when they are not comfortable with it.

Ladies in their twenties are church goers.

I will come back to add more, my table is filled wtih paper work.

[quote author=Toks2008 post=36826019]10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

VERY CORRECT OP , U HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD

But,bros,11 years? Haba! Why didn't you marry her after some years. Yes,you really tied her down.

Toks2008:


Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.

Op, when u copy next time make sure u quote ur source. This same post made front page sometime around may. View my profile and go through the threads I created, this write up is among. Thanx.

Nice 1, na so o. Na u b sei baba or mama for this complete write up. U r so on point.if u date young girl b ready for battle n God help u she changes,if not, na to dey complain.even aged/matured ones have a very funny reasoning, not to talk of young ones..only 5% of this young ones r wise enough to b in a relationship.

Toks2008:


Interesting.


Just that most times the steps you teach the young ones will usuallky be used to dance with another.

I was 27 when i met my ex at 19 but all the 11 years we were together i realized that she was always wondering how the outside world looks like and before we parted 2years ago she was saying stuffs like she feels caged all her life that she has no life outside our affair having spent all her life wth me bla bla so she eventually left.

Now tell me if i happen to meet her in her late 20s after she must have had experience will she utter such words?

i have come to realize that only experience can shape us and this is why these age group are usually calmer,wiser and ready to settle down.

Brosiere, 27+11+2 = ..............

Do the calculation and tell yourself your age (minusing economic/football age as it may apply). And you are still unmarried?

Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

maturity is of the mind and not age but,I still subscribe to OP cos he said it all don't quote me or OP wrong.

Kachisbarbie:
This is fallacy of the highest order. Personally I don't preach early/late marriage. Even though I married pretty young.

Let me give you the advantages of girls in their early twenties.
1: Women age faster than men, elites marrying young girls isn't just because they have the resources to. They know this fact.

2: Early marriage isn't a guarantee for early birth rate, but medically it's safer to have your kids early. It's also safer financially and physically too. You wouldn't like to raise your kids with pension_ will you?

3: Maturity isn't a function of age. Marriage/relationships on it's own bestows this compulsory maturity on you. Except your case is critical.

4: Who said ladies in their late 20s are more financially independent? With all the age restriction on jobs? I don't think so

5: Based on experience, older ladies are even more aggressive, don't think their meek nature is natural_ more often than not_ it is SITUATIONAL... unlike a young girl that you might nurture_ who would owe most/all of her life experience to you.

6: Ladies in their early 20s never pressurise you into marriage. Unlike the ones in their 30s. Under 2weeks_ they ask you Where are we headed? Zuma rock...lols.

I can go on and on...

if you check most men on here do not agree with you on the age thing so if you was 22 today and men where seking you lost out here
ladies early 20s and not well off, majority of them are still in school or looking for work
the character of a woman stays with her from her household, a man can never mould a woman for marriage
marriage does need maturity and maturity has to do with i ndividual expiriences so with this idealogy you must agree with me the more you expore the more expirience the more matured you become.
You are still more than attached to your family in early 20s.

missbronze:
Ok op.

They don hear.

What of ladies in their 40's?


Team 40's anyway.

Tha! If I hear say u pass 30, make I know Wetin cause am.

Kachisbarbie:
This is fallacy of the highest order. Personally I don't preach early/late marriage. Even though I married pretty young.

Let me give you the advantages of girls in their early twenties.
1: Women age faster than men, elites marrying young girls isn't just because they have the resources to. They know this fact.

2: Early marriage isn't a guarantee for early birth rate, but medically it's safer to have your kids early. It's also safer financially and physically too. You wouldn't like to raise your kids with pension_ will you?

3: Maturity isn't a function of age. Marriage/relationships on it's own bestows this compulsory maturity on you. Except your case is critical.

4: Who said ladies in their late 20s are more financially independent? With all the age restriction on jobs? I don't think so

5: Based on experience, older ladies are even more aggressive, don't think their meek nature is natural_ more often than not_ it is SITUATIONAL... unlike a young girl that you might nurture_ who would owe most/all of her life experience to you.

6: Ladies in their early 20s never pressurise you into marriage. Unlike the ones in their 30s. Under 2weeks_ they ask you Where are we headed? Zuma rock...lols.

I can go on and on...

Thank you jare omoluabi. One gold medal for you.

RedBenson:

Brosiere, 27+11+2 = ..............
Do the calculation and tell yourself your age (minusing economic/football age as it may apply). And you are still unmarried?

That brother is 40+

Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young'

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason

Catching dem young is waste of time and resources.
U spend so much money on their welfare and upkeep and then they outgrow u,and dump u for d next tin man,who inturn dumps them,cause all dat glitter is not gold.

TEAM #marriedtolatetwentiesandlovingit.

erico2k2:

why would you say that?

Cos my then......she must have developed at least 90%,,,so you know if it will last or not

Toks2008:
10 Reasons why serious minded guys should not date any lady in their early twenties.

A man asked "What age group of ladies should i approach if i really want to settle down?"

The answer is not far fetched but before i answer i would like to state emphatically that age is no factor as we have some teenagers who are more matured mentally and psychologically than ladies in their thirties but nevertheless i will advice that any man who really wants to settle down should forget approaching ladies below the age of 25years because most of these ladies are still not sure of what they want in a man.

Majority of ladies below 25 don't even have enough experience to go into marriage and will rather want to still play around in the name of dating and if you check most ladies who marry below the age of 25,you wil be surprised to find out that it was a circumstantial decision as a result of unexpected pregnancy or parental pressures to mention a few.

So the question is..what age group should a man consider if he really wants to settle down and the answer is clear,i will advice you go for ladies of 25years and above and the higher the age the better. WHY?

[b]1.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are matured in mind because most of them are experienced..

2.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are set for true love and never too interested on a man's MONEY.

3. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are financially INDEPENDENT.

4. The longevity of a lady's beauty is seen fully in her late 20s and early 30s.

5. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have no business with DOUBLE DATING.

6. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know how best to CARE for a man. Men will understand what I mean.

7. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties know what they want in life, unlike d early 20's

8.Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties have a decent DRESS SENSE.

9. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are COURAGEOUS.

10. Most ladies in their late twenties or early thirties are admirable with heart-melting MANNER which can be a natural virtue or as a result of past experience.[/b]

O.P ..


Take one Gordon Spark and Peppered Kpomo for my head..


Most Girls under the age of 25 are good for nothing but sexxx...

But give me a Girl in her late 20's (28+) to early 30's (35) all day Nigga.