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Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by MrBasketball: 12:24am On Aug 12, 2015
VenusBetty:
kereani
Meaning?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Idowuogbo(f): 12:36am On Aug 12, 2015
toshmann:
Yea baby cheesy
How far? You know say u still dey my list. You nova break up with ur boyfriend yet?

Hurry up biko, I can't wait forever,before u enter category X. cool
Msteeew! U better cross me off like you did with cococandy. Market don sail. tongue
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by MrBasketball: 12:46am On Aug 12, 2015
oshaosha2014:
Catch them young, and keep them!
gbam!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by toshmann(m): 1:35am On Aug 12, 2015
Idowuogbo:
Msteeew! U better cross me off like you did with cococandy. Market don sail. tongue
Whaaaaaaaaaaat !!!! shocked shocked shocked.
What's happening to me? Tonto don marry, cococandy gone, rita dominic voicemail, now even my Candy Dandy I.D is gone too angry
I no gree angry
Notify me when u break up cool

Wetin una wan make i do, make i de follow all these ashawo pikins wey full New York? Mba ooo. No way. I don tire for ashawo. I don try for them grin
Time for real babe cool
I.D im waiting for u, i de go juju for u. It must work whether u like am, whether u no like am, de truth be say u go still become my own tongue
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 2:09am On Aug 12, 2015
SPG4U:
Well said...but OP...wait I dey cum...no ooo I mean am coming not cum ooo
cum is better.so say u cuming grin
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 2:53am On Aug 12, 2015
Beamborla:
What happened to 'catch them young' huh

I don't even know where to start from. I bet you've never heard that age is not maturity.

Your tittle i have no problem with. Your opening sentence is just not it.

It's very funny how people reason
we refuse catching u young! Na by force? I bet u r still in ur early twenties because of ur arrogance!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 6:59am On Aug 12, 2015
Kachisbarbie:
This is fallacy of the highest order. Personally I don't preach early/late marriage. Even though I married pretty young.

Let me give you the advantages of girls in their early twenties.
1: Women age faster than men, elites marrying young girls isn't just because they have the resources to. They know this fact.

2: Early marriage isn't a guarantee for early birth rate, but medically it's safer to have your kids early. It's also safer financially and physically too. You wouldn't like to raise your kids with pension_ will you?

3: Maturity isn't a function of age. Marriage/relationships on it's own bestows this compulsory maturity on you. Except your case is critical.

4: Who said ladies in their late 20s are more financially independent? With all the age restriction on jobs? I don't think so

5: Based on experience, older ladies are even more aggressive, don't think their meek nature is natural_ more often than not_ it is SITUATIONAL... unlike a young girl that you might nurture_ who would owe most/all of her life experience to you.

6: Ladies in their early 20s never pressurise you into marriage. Unlike the ones in their 30s. Under 2weeks_ they ask you Where are we headed? Zuma rock...lols.


I can go on and on...
....ahhhhhhhh....lies...yp...coated lies
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 8:12am On Aug 12, 2015
Jenams:
we refuse catching u young! Na by force? I bet u r still in ur early twenties because of ur arrogance!
You berra don't develop headache because of me tongue
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 8:13am On Aug 12, 2015
Alezy:
ppl re much different n speaking from what I think, u will just give urself hrt attack, stress urself beyond, become a teacher in ur house n will become very patient else ur marriage will just collapse.
Can we talk about this, pls?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 8:18am On Aug 12, 2015
Fourwinds:
na true. All this under 25 dey hardly know what dating or courtship means. Them think say na to fvck and collect money from guys dats d reason for relationship
Two close friends of mine got married at 22 and 23 respectively. Both still schooling, one is a med lab student, the other a medicine student.

No, they didn't get married because they were pregnant neither are they from poor homes. Matter of fact, one of the them is a daughter to a professor.


What do you have to say about this?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by vicben27(m): 8:20am On Aug 12, 2015
Ur fuckin right dy ar soo immature n feel on top of d world because dy gat lots of guyz tellin dem hw prety dy ar! Na wen dy don reach 26yrs n above wit no sign of a potenial husband to Call dy own der eyez dy clear!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 8:25am On Aug 12, 2015
lilkudos:
Not really what an driving at... See age is not really it. But you can't do marriage with an under age.. Cause there's every tendency that she'll act like a baby she is.. When a situation arises... No matter how matured she is..
No matter how old or matured we are, we all are bound to break down at one point or the other.

If you find love and happiness and the 'maturity' you so much clamour for in a 22yrs old girl, it would be unwise to let this prejudice cloud your judgement. Deal with everyone as an individual; everyone deserve the benefit of doubt.


Good morning
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by ib22003(m): 9:13am On Aug 12, 2015
Beamborla:
Two close friends of mine got married at 22 and 23 respectively. Both still schooling, one is a med lab student, the other a medicine student.

No, they didn't get married because they were pregnant neither are they from poor homes. Matter of fact, one of the them is a daughter to a professor.


What do you have to say about this?
who no go marry med babes.them dey make sense to get has babe sef
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 9:26am On Aug 12, 2015
Nice one
i prefer ladies in there 40
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 9:32am On Aug 12, 2015
Not all professors are rich my dear.
Beamborla:
Two close friends of mine got married at 22 and 23 respectively. Both still schooling, one is a med lab student, the other a medicine student.

No, they didn't get married because they were pregnant neither are they from poor homes. Matter of fact, one of the them is a daughter to a professor.


What do you have to say about this?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 9:38am On Aug 12, 2015
I have female doctor friends who are single in their late twenties and thirties. I know one in national hospital Abuja,one of the very best they have there and in her thirties. Very beautiful and intelligent that I always wonder if men are blind. so,no be everybody dey rush them neither is it a guarantee to get married or have the best man.
ib22003:
who no go marry med babes.them dey make sense to get has babe sef
Wow! You love grannies. Interesting
enomakos:
Nice one

i prefer ladies in there 40
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 9:54am On Aug 12, 2015
peppyluv02:
I have female doctor friends who are single in their late twenties and thirties. I know one in national hospital Abuja,one of the very best they have there and in her thirties. Very beautiful and intelligent that I always wonder if men are blind. so,no be everybody dey rush them neither is it a guarantee to get married or have the best man.


Wow! You love grannies. Interesting
40+ na grannies?
There is a diff between old and older
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 9:54am On Aug 12, 2015
xclusivelyurs:
Dis is a gud write up cos its as if d story is referin 2me.. My confused girlfrnds (20-23yrs)bday was on monday(aug 10th).. And u cnt imagine dat I went 2her house and her mum was scoldin her in my presence dat she(her mum) always does her(my gf) laundry 4her dat she jst finishd doin it b4 I came in...she bcame angry @her mum and walkd away.. I dnt knw if dem use dis girl swear 4me wey I no fit leav am..guys, dis a girl dat is currently double datin(she told me 2my face bout it) 2d xtent dat she made it knwn 2me dat it was kinda lyk a competition btw d oda guy and I.. May d best man win dats wat she's lyk tellin me
LMAO!

mY GOD omo i no fit laugh abeg.

I had one like that too especially these ladies from 18 to 23 walahi their head don knack ground and it seems they are all wired same way excepot maybe very few of them wey dem mama use better water baff them for pickin.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 9:56am On Aug 12, 2015
peppyluv02:
I have female doctor friends who are single in their late twenties and thirties. I know one in national hospital Abuja,one of the very best they have there and in her thirties. Very beautiful and intelligent that I always wonder if men are blind. so,no be everybody dey rush them neither is it a guarantee to get married or have the best man.


Wow! You love grannies. Interesting
is she a single parent?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 9:57am On Aug 12, 2015
enomakos:
40+ na grannies?
There is a diff between old and older
Please i need a very beautiful and marriage ready lady for serious take home to mama and should not be less than 25years abeg.

Please im serious as i am no longer interested in trial and error of these babes wey never se greound know wettin dem want.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 12, 2015
wrongnumber:
Please i need a very beautiful and marriage ready lady for serious take home to mama and should not be less than 25years abeg.

Please im serious as i am no longer interested in trial and error of these babes wey never se greound know wettin dem want.
dude get on d street and look 4 a lady,announcing it here wont help u.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 10:05am On Aug 12, 2015
Well, my mum is still in her forties with a grandchild. She used to be very slim and younger until she had an accident that kept her on the bed for almost a year and she added a little weight but still looks good for her age.
You are right thou because I have an aunt who is in her early forties but looks early twenties with four teenagers! Lots of toasters that will make a young lady jealous while moving with her..lol...In Fact most of her friends are jealous of her. It's called aging gracefully.she puts in a lot of effort like dieting and exercise. Following her foot steps and hope to be like her.

enomakos:
40+ na grannies?
There is a diff between old and older
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Beamborla(f): 10:10am On Aug 12, 2015
peppyluv02:
Not all professors are rich my dear.
Well, this one is
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 10:20am On Aug 12, 2015
peppyluv02:
Well, my mum is still in her forties with a grandchild. She used to be very slim and younger until she had an accident that kept her on the bed for almost a year and she added a little weight but still looks good for her age.
You are right thou because I have an aunt who is in her early forties but looks early twenties with four teenagers! Lots of toasters that will make a young lady jealous while moving with her..lol...In Fact most of her friends are jealous of her. It's called aging gracefully.she puts in a lot of effort like dieting and exercise. Following her foot steps and hope to be like her.
you are right dear,there are alots of ladies in there 40 who look very young and sweet,you will not believe when they told you there age

sorry about your mum,hope she is better now?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 10:21am On Aug 12, 2015
markmira:
dude get on d street and look 4 a lady,announcing it here wont help u.
This is where you get it all wrong dear.

On the streets we have a barrage of opportunists,money mongers,unserious ladies,coded oloshos and many more and its mostly a case of trial and error.

But in most cases when you come on a social media to state clearly that you need a partner not a date but a partner for marriage,trust me and i say trust me again, you will be surprised at the choice of people that will contact you and even if there will still be some jokers among them, 3 out of 5 will mean business so forget that fallacious stand of going to the streets,it could work for players but not for serious minded people.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 10:23am On Aug 12, 2015
enomakos:
you are right dear,there are alots of ladies in there 40 who look very young and sweet,you will not believe when they told you there age

sorry about your mum,hope she is better now?
I can date a lady who is 10 years older than me is she has the appearance of someone younger. Thats a fact
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 10:23am On Aug 12, 2015
wrongnumber:
Please i need a very beautiful and marriage ready lady for serious take home to mama and should not be less than 25years abeg.

Please im serious as i am no longer interested in trial and error of these babes wey never se greound know wettin dem want.
ok i hear you

but have you even try to talk to any lady you like out in the street?

Or are u shy?
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 10:32am On Aug 12, 2015
enomakos:
ok i hear you

but have you even try to talk to any lady you like out in the street?

Or are u shy?
You have no idea how many person don try and sometimes you end up wooing 2 sisters at different places and they will start seeing you as a freak.

Some will come close just to strat asking for money and some will just have interest in sex and no plan for commitment. Honestly to get better man or woman no easy o.

Sex mate dey everywhere but a responsible man or woman for keeps is not easy to come by but when you come online, you will definitely see them because most of them are recluse who seldom go out where you will easily see them and the responsible ones are very triangular in schedule from home-work-church/religious ghathering-home but they usually have access to the internet.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Nobody: 10:37am On Aug 12, 2015
wrongnumber:
This is where you get it all wrong dear.

On the streets we have a barrage of opportunists,money mongers,unserious ladies,coded oloshos and many more and its mostly a case of trial and error.

But in most cases when you come on a social media to state clearly that you need a partner not a date but a partner for marriage,trust me and i say trust me again, you will be surprised at the choice of people that will contact you and even if there will still be some jokers among them, 3 out of 5 will mean business so forget that fallacious stand of going to the streets,it could work for players but not for serious minded people.
INTERESTING i will be waiting 4 ur testimony.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by enomakos(m): 10:40am On Aug 12, 2015
wrongnumber:
You have no idea how many person don try and sometimes you end up wooing 2 sisters at different places and they will start seeing you as a freak.

Some will come close just to strat asking for money and some will just have interest in sex and no plan for commitment. Honestly to get better man or woman no easy o.

Sex mate dey everywhere but a responsible man or woman for keeps is not easy to come by but when you come online, you will definitely see them because most of them are recluse who seldom go out where you will easily see them and the responsible ones are very triangular in schedule from home-work-church/religious ghathering-home but they usually have access to the internet.
true talk bro

i understands you now
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by wrongnumber: 10:41am On Aug 12, 2015
markmira:
INTERESTING i will be waiting 4 ur testimony.
I have been contacted by wonderful and decent ladies but its either they are in another country or not my taste physically and so on.

It works.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Serious Minded Guys Look Away From Ladies In Their Early Twenties by Fourwinds: 11:59am On Aug 12, 2015
Beamborla:
Two close friends of mine got married at 22 and 23 respectively. Both still schooling, one is a med lab student, the other a medicine student.

No, they didn't get married because they were pregnant neither are they from poor homes. Matter of fact, one of the them is a daughter to a professor.


What do you have to say about this?
u only gave instance of two people. If u take a good statistics of what d OP said, u will discover it is true
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