Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.

This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.

Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.

However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.

Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.


1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.


2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!

3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.

4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....

5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it!
Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.

6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...

9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.

10) Complete it.



LaurelP

11) I jus prefer Olosh...no time wasting.

^^^^^^Hahaha so they really prefer olosho Hian!!!!!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

12. I don't want my heart to be broken

13.ve not met my ideal woman

yomi007k:
11) I jus prefer Olosh...no time wasting.

Olo what?
Who wants to play with his destiny?

valyzubxx:
She's not even up to my taste

Exactly!
Ur head dey there.

TRADELYN:
"Inability" kee...wooing ladies is among the easiest things guys do today. 10) I wanna make money first before.

With what I see here on NL, its a big lie!

ArchEnemy:
12. I don't want my heart to be broken
13.ve not met my ideal woman

Hehehe, ideal woman keh...

I dey feel like Obama

am guilty of no.2

LaurelP:


Hehehe, ideal woman keh...

Just adding to your post

Cos I know who I am and how far my words can go to affect Ladies' heart. I know the kind of spirit I am and what I can do to Ladies' heart.May sound eccentric but you will never understand until I do it to you. Can't hurt Ladies again have done more harm already.

When I say I don't have time for Ladies it's not that I am scared or afraid to woo Ladies in fact I don't have to woo a Lady to win her rather it's because I care more about them than they do.

So OP don't take "I don't have time for Ladies" as an excuse or a stable of cowardness.

ArchEnemy:
Just adding to your post

Yea I know. I was trying to say that you're right.

starlingslimnet:
Cos I know who I am and how far my words can go to affect Ladies' heart. I know the kind of spirit I am and what I can do to Ladies' heart.May sound eccentric but you will never understand until I do it to you. Can't hurt Ladies again have done more harm already.

What have u done bro? And I wud like to have ur skills lolz...

Sylvarresta:
am guilty of no.2

Go and sin no more

LaurelP:

Go and sin no more

lol, u be priest

All those reasons are genuine and real and not excuses. Some women possess all these godawful, irritating, nauseating, repulsive attributes and more.

I want to wait for d ryt time,

LaurelP:


What have u done bro? And I wud like to have ur skills lolz...

It's innate not acquired.

starlingslimnet:
It's innate not acquired.

OK

LaurelP:


With what I see here on NL, its a big lie!

What do you see on NL ?

chymystique:



Traits of a guy easily friendzoned

Friendzoned? Pray you don't meet someone like me over there cos you are gonna be hearing the echoes of his words in your head every time,his words as he presents them to you,the pause, the fall and rise in his intonation....his blank expression yet filled with evident undying love for you.Trust me when I say till you die his memories will be imprinted in your soul. Just pray you don't meet someone like me...you can't understand until you do.

My brother will you die if you don't chase anything in skirt for one week?? Haba, some guys act like they'll have a nervous breakdown if they don't get pu'ssy for 5 minutes. If you see a girl you like, draw close to her, find out what she likes, make her laugh. Which one is all this gibberish about you must pursue women by fire by force
Its dudes like you that make girls think we're all sex starved lechers

UyiIredia:

What do you see on NL ?

Read D post again

chymystique:


Lol. Sincerely, I might be intrigued but truth is you are going to be locked up in my friendzoned esp on social media and you will be more like someone to entertain me when am bored . There is more to me falling head over heels with someone than the person being romantically poetic. I use my brain

Oh.... maybe it's because you have not meet my type....on our list there is nothing like Friendzoned. You might think you are doing that but in reality you are doing more harm to yourself cos the more you have a chat with us the more you become susceptible.... We can't be Friendzoned because to us we just wanna be nothing more than friend and that is where the confusion sets in. Doubt you will stand a day if you meet my type.

JimiCoker:
My brother will you die if you don't chase anything in skirt for one week?? Haba, some guys act like they'll have a nervous breakdown if they don't get pu'ssy for 5 minutes. If you see a girl you like, draw close to her, find out what she likes, make her laugh. Which one is all this gibberish about you must pursue women by fire by force
Its dudes like you that make girls think we're all sex starved lechers

Who talked abt sex? jst listen 2 urself.