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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 05, 2015
I don sell all my gold give abo.ki, Baby come let's dig six feet for poverty grin
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Norenal(f): 10:44am On Sep 05, 2015
DankemzI:
Are you a rich Fiancé
*****
I know of a lady that contributed to her fiance financial status, still loyal and respectful!
The I got to know the car the hubby is driving was procured by her.... I was lipsrsealed

It's not about the guys financial capabilities, if he can feed himself, you, the kids. And settle any Emergency

Marry him, go build your family together. Stop looking for ready made! grin
both men n women have bin lukn 4 ready 3BC
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 05, 2015
Madam, there are certain things in this world money cannot buy, e.g good character. Riches and wealth can be acquired in this life at any time, buh one who doesnt have good character is difficult to change, from what i can deduce, the rich suitors u arent as nice as the other dude.

If you want to be happy ma'am, I'd advise you drop that "i cant settle for less" attitude, also don't blame the ones who are calling u a gold digger , you presented yourself as such to them.

But if you want the riches, by all means go ahead.
But knw that we are all responsible and accountable for our choices.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by fairygeh(f): 10:44am On Sep 05, 2015
At OP,you are just the kind of lady that make men feel all women are gold diggers and all for the money.so so annoying

Is it that you are crippled or what or are you an 1mbecile ,you mean you didn't go to school/ you are uneducated that you cannot pray to have a good job yourself and not rely on a man for money saying he's not rich, bla bla,bla.
As for your parents expecting you to bring a rich man home at all costs,i guess you are from a poor background, omo oju o ro la ri.
I pity you

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 05, 2015
Go make your own money.

Reading this trash, the only thing I could see is rich rich rich and not so rich

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by cyprus000: 10:44am On Sep 05, 2015
timilehing:
Gold-digger confirmed present.
Why are Nigerian ladies like dis?
[size=13pt] I think we have to ask God bruh. [/size]

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by cyprus000: 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by ladansun(m): 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
A Relationship Is Not About Having A Handsome Boyfriend Or Having A Beautiful Girlfriend.It's Not About Looking For A Perfect Person Be'cus Dere Isn'nt Any Perfect Person On Earth. ~~.It's Not About Looking For A Well Off Or Rich Person.MONEY CAN'T BUY LOVE.~~~.A RELATIONSHIP IS About Finding Someone Who Respect U,WHO CARES About U In Any Way He/she Can Afford,who Understands U,who Is Proud Of Having U who love u the way u are.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by AdeniyiA(m): 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.

I have discovered that slothful ladies are the real gold digger, one of the reasons they become fat , chubby and flabby after 2 or three kids. They're only interested in waking up,spend, eat, shop, party, sleep....

so annoying angry

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by mayor20(m): 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
Sijo01:
Sorry to ask lady, are you rich?
How are sure she has a job.
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by biz2get(m): 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.
Killed it grin
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by CSTR2: 10:45am On Sep 05, 2015
No SENSIBLE rich young man will like to marry her type.
Gold digger.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by mayor20(m): 10:46am On Sep 05, 2015
Sijo01:
Sorry to ask lady, are you rich?
Are you sure she has a job.
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by saintkel(m): 10:46am On Sep 05, 2015
adedayourt:

dat ur crush is damn pretty wink,
minding sharing her??
I dnt share, go 4 LadyF

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Hazardd(m): 10:46am On Sep 05, 2015
I have been reading alot of comments and all have been emphasizing on following your mind and going with the poor...

So let me add something different.... I will advice you to leave that poor guy and follow the rich guy even though he is older than your father because life is too short.... Pls don't bother to thank because God will bless me
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:46am On Sep 05, 2015
@Bonita101n2

Please ignore the hypocrites on this forum. If you want advice, go and seek your dad's. He is in the best position to guide you because he is a man and he definitely would have his lilttle girl's interest at heart.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Jennifer89(f): 10:46am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2 i totally understand ur plight. in any marriage finances is very essential. is the average guy doing well? does he have a good job? well, it's not about marring a very rich man or an average man but about who u love the most. its ur decision to take. don't allow any family member pressurize u coz if things go wrong they will still be there to criticise u. seek wise counsel and pray to God coz marriage is not a bed of roses.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by mayor20(m): 10:47am On Sep 05, 2015
Itcis the guy that needs advice to stay clear from someone like you.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by bobomee(m): 10:48am On Sep 05, 2015
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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by vega84(m): 10:48am On Sep 05, 2015
All I see in this ur post is rich rich rich, u are lost already #vegatalks

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Benwems(m): 10:49am On Sep 05, 2015
For her to be talking this way am sure she is from a stinging poor home. Useless Gold digger.
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by misreal(m): 10:50am On Sep 05, 2015
andromida:
I think you should place less emphasis on a man's status and more on his character my humble opinion is a man without good character and sound values cannot love you as you deserve that would depend on your own values too.

Poor is not synonymous with good character either. Most dudes who don't have much are humble for the time being anyway lol.
Among the rich and poor you will find good and bad men. Focus on men with character and values that are in sync with yours.

So if this upcoming guy has same values, a sound character you should definitely get to know him alongside the rich ones.
how old are you? you talk like a 98yr old granny.. you are just wise.
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Epatty(f): 10:51am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.
lv is wat dat matters n d plan of God for ur lyf. Speak to Him n knw his purpose so u cn knw wer to help him. Bt pls, pray very wel for al dat glitters r nt gold.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Olril18(m): 10:51am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.


are u a gold digger in disguise?
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by biz2get(m): 10:52am On Sep 05, 2015
My dear ,,, use your Brain and not your Heart desires to judge !!!!

Before you make wrong decisions ....

Remember a poor guy can bcome rich tomorrow and a rich guy can dump you tomorrow asap

Think think think

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Acidosis(m): 10:52am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich 1 and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich 2 and not so rich 3 , bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich 4 and also having met and meeting still very rich 5 guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich 6 . Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich 7 but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich 8 as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich 9

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich 10 suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich 11

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.


Miss Spinster Gold-digger: Keep digging RICH gold across the globe. The only phrase in your head is RICH, OILY GOLD, etc.

You're a very selfish gold-digger. "luckily for you, you met a very rich & nice guy"

Bad luck for you, you may end up with a guy as silly & jobless like your sick brother.



What a thread!

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Epatty(f): 10:52am On Sep 05, 2015
nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.
did she tel u she lacks money? Always b a problem solver n nt a problem compiler
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by horeejah(f): 10:53am On Sep 05, 2015
My dear, pls pray abt it, evrytin in life isnt abt being rich, happiness is very impt in marriage, so for nw, 4get abt suitors bin rich or not, go to God in prayers to show you d very best persn 4u, i knw He'll direct ur path

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 05, 2015
justwise:


You don't need a rich man you need a job.
but they were dating in an oil firm... grin

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by fairygeh(f): 10:53am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.
Oh please,you are from a rich background and you are shouting rich,rich,rich like a pauper? Huh
My dear if you are from a rich background, you wouldn't find it difficult to date or marry a not so rich guy,u wouldn't see it as a problem sharing resources and having a better life with someone you love rather than shouting rich,rich,rich

You know what the rich guys you said ate after you might just wanna chop you and leave while the only "not so rich" guy is here to stay,
Bae,yiu sound like an omo oju o ro la ri girl, better still "I never Chop" girl,the kind of girl that depends on a guy even to buy ordinary pant.

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Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by cabaliciouscabal: 10:53am On Sep 05, 2015
It seems u ar hanging ur life on a string it takes a dose of sleep for one to miss his or her bus-stop, I don't know if u av come across James hardly chase dat titled COME EASY GO EASY, if u insist on d rich guy dat u ar not attracted to, that title will definitely be urs, my advice for u is to pray to God for directions, no more no less, he is the truth, the light and the way, He can Neva misled u.
Re: I Don't Want To Regret My Decision And Miss Out On What Is For Me. Pls Advice by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 05, 2015
Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.
was ur father rich before he married ur mum?.......Get a job n make ur own money instead of behaving like a lazy n gold digging beetch

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