Hmmm

Flashh:
Cheating + gold digging in disguise.

"You don't want to miss out what is yours". Really?

Think more about yourself making your own money without depending on a man in this life.

Ode.

Oloshos trying to be modest.

Bonita101n2,

Marry one of the rich guys. Your priority lies therein.

If you marry the fine boy you are attracted to, if he does not become as rich as you desire, you will fall out of love with him. You will barely tolerate his vices.

You are not a gold digger. Your love language is riches!

NB:
I am married and I know money is very important for a happy home. It is however not the most important criterion.

Those who are rich today may become poor tomorrow. God forbid though. If you settle for a rich man, start a business immediately to enable you support him if he ever has financial issues. Otherwise you will leave him when he is broke!

I wonder y ladies with poor parents always wanting rich guys looking for a rich guy simply shows ure hungry. Marry the not to rich man and both of u should grow together. life is not a bed of roses i guess when ure married to the very rich one and he eventually gets bamkrupt u will divorce him right? Woman like u end up begging a bricklayer at the end to marry them.

Smh vigorously! Some women don't just want to work, they don't see themselves being rich without attaching themselves to the rich.
I just don't get why people get carried away by rich niggas, its not just in me.

What if something happens to the rich guy and he becomes broke? Will u still be able to stay? Make people they give themselves brain na.

DankemzI:
Are you a rich Fiancé
*****
I know of a lady that contributed to her fiance financial status, still loyal and respectful!
The I got to know the car the hubby is driving was procured by her.... I was

It's not about the guys financial capabilities, if he can feed himself, you, the kids. And settle any Emergency

Marry him, go build your family together. Stop looking for ready made!

Lol...well said, that's the problem of young ladies of today, looking for already made men.....

uthor=Bonita101n2 post=37684457]I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.[/quote]

If he's a good person like you say he is, then you should choose him. Money is important, but it's not everything.

Dnt make decisions with those who wl not live with the consequences. Go ask ur family.

Ashawo

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

and you came to nairaland for answers. You are not yet serious.

nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.

Take it easy with her, Some men dig gold more than ladies these days, afterall who no like better thing

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

Remember your root!

If u really love him dnt let riches be a barrier. Remember d scriptures, riches is like a bird, it flies and land where it pleaseth. He may be rich 2mo who knws or y not make him look exactly d way u want

Gold-digger confirmed present.
Why are Nigerian ladies like dis?

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

You don't need a rich man you need a job.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich , bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich . Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich .

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

U mentioned "rich" ten times in ur article..

Pple try saying rich ten times

Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich
Rich


And the op is saying she isnt a gold digger.. I dey laff o

timilehing:
Gold-digger confirmed present.

Why are Nigerian ladies like dis?

Some not all

Sister - you mentioned the word “ rich“ about a dozen times.

Bonita101n2:
I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

It is well,and the guy don't know serious debate is going on abt his matter; dis is a prayer point in disguise

If I may ask U; " Is dating a guy who isn't rich like the previous one(s) tantamount to SETTLING FOR LESS?" where did u keep good morals, personality, God fearing, true love, simplicity, ability to take responsibilities, etc

All I keep seeing in ur write up is; RICH, RICH, and RICH... to u, other qualities of a good man do not matter, but RRRRRIIIICCCCCHHHHHHH!!!

I PITY SOME NAIJA GIRLS. HELP YOURSELF [/font][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#000099][/color]

Am a rich guy too. Come and give me free pusssy

It seems you are from a poor background, and you want a life insurance. Poor folks behave like you and your brother.

Lwkmd,,,d only reason why a gal nowadays would b confused over choosing btwn a rich and poor guy,is because d rich guy aint reach enof,,,

Bonita101n2:
I knew there will be judgement. If I was a gold digger Mr nnachuks, I would not be here plus I am from a very well to do family duh! I am posting a dilemma, a lady with a lot of suitors and making the right decision so please go and rea through again and think well before spitting out garb.

Then use ur well to do status to help the struggling man, since he's the one u r attracted to

AAL Z WELL

AnneMomoh:
Sister - you mentioned the word “ rich“ about a dozen times.

My crush!!!

see as nl dey para for op

gold this
gold that.






op no mind them jare, just wait a little, dangote's grandson ll com 4 u
#golddigger

funny

saintkel:
My crush!!!

dat ur crush is damn pretty ,

minding sharing her??

nnachukz:
Gold digger, go get a job. Remember to get one for your brother as well.

#gbam,true yarn I don't even think tht her brother hv staarted working †̥ knw wht it tkes †̥ mke real money. M sure he is hoping †̥ feed from his sis bf.#thief

mk ur brother go become rich too else same way he kicked d guy out na so gateman go kick m out too!


like say riches comes in one day! you know d hardwork dy v done over time to make them rich! n u siddon dere dy select like say na TV station Wey u wan watch u dy select! wat v u done to make yourself rich?



love me wen m poor...not wen m rich!

To be honest you sound like a gold digger!

All i can hear is "rich,rich,rich".
Ladies like you dont end well because you forget that nothing is permanent in life.
You marry the material not the man