Ok

dunsman:
atory story.. we gats to gv God glory we gats to live life slowly p*ssy no go gv life back

u lie mama!

Unilag student electrocuted...so sad

op,I completely agree with you but you can try arrange your points in order of importance. "Fear of God" should be number 1.

Number 1 & 2 is OK by me

You said casanova , thats now a different case. Just like a good man marrying a slut. She also cheat no matter how good he is. #exceptional cases

Chelseafan1:


These are really good points, every ladies should take note, it will be hard for the guy to dump the girl really but trust me, a Casanova will still cheat if he wants to.

Some Men are just programmed with that annoying mentality of sraffing more than one woman, there are too many good looking women around, if you like, be sweeter than an angel, a cheat will always cheat.

A good woman is she who have brains and beauty. Having brains includes being able to know what your husband likes, his favorite food, being obedient and submissive etc. Beauty includes being of good character and supportive to your husband.

http://infobizstream.com/optin.html

Noted

Sabrwahaqqo:
That's so not true

A faithful man is just a blessing. It's not about how tight the grip or love is baabe

dunsman:
atory story.. we gats to gv God glory we gats to live life slowly p*ssy no go gv life back

You can never satisfy most men,its not about all the story above,its about eating the same food every day

NOBODYY:
Do all this over nd over again


They'll still snatch me...Na only u wan dey chop better thing

DEN OBVIOUSLY U DNT DESERVE A DESCENT/LOVING WIFE.

That is not 100% correct. In as much as doing these things can make some men happy and loyal, it won't keep some from cheating or still getting a new woman. A cheating man or woman cheat for no reason even when they have everything.

On point

Lol

I don't like the word snatch

Simply put

The woman lost her husband time and affection to another woman

No long tin

The lies you tell, OP. If she's like that, he'll either take her for granted or find her boring, which will lead to the cheating. Hell, I'm a girl & that type of woman would bore me too.

Now I'm beginning to think that men also don't know what they want. Or maybe it's the case of the grass being always greener on the other side. People tend not to appreciate what they have. So yep, even if she was perfect a housewife like Martha Stewart, he'd still look for something nasty elsewhere to balance the serene & perfect lifestyle out. #Fact. Come to think of it, Martha Stewart is single & last time I checked, she was looking for love. She has all the good qualities but how come no man is snatching her up? I bet they find her boring once they finally get all the so called good qualities they howl about online

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

seconded jawee

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

He said no woman can snatch ur man completely, he wasn't talking about cheating

bettercreature:
You can never satisfy most men,its not about all the story above,its about eating the same food every day

ehn wetin con be my own

are they anything like "satisfaction" in human life

I agree with point 1...I don't know what I will be doing with a woman who can't cook..

Of all the things I've learnt, one of dem is the fact that most serious minded naija guys don't want a woman that has only "BEAUTY" to offer, myself included
I wrote beauty in quote because I know how the society defines beauty.
Most times, beauty is a cover up for flaws, emptiness and even wickedness. The society has changed so much that it may want to pressurize you to invest in the wrong things to win the right people.
So babes, Don't waste ALL your time learning how to draw eye shadows, fixing brazilian hairs, wearing mini skirts, body trimmers, cosmetics for spa and make up....money can buy these things and it doesn't guarantee happiness( I didn't say u shud activate deeper life mode or luk unkempt)

Learn the simple things like getting a career, having common sense(which is nt common among chics), growing more tolerant and patient, how to cook and spend time with people that will help teach you good manners, compassion and kindness...This is real beauty, the type money can't buy, it remains even when the facial beauty fades away. This is the kind of beauty guys expect wife you.......then as 4 d guys, ur case wud be for another day.

dunsman:


ehn wetin con be my own

Because you were plaining to apply the theory above

MRBrownJ:
@Toks2008
you should have written that these are the attributes needed in order to have all the chances for your man NOT to cheat... but as we know that men cheat for many different reasons, these points you mentioned are weak. here are a few men that would still cheat on a woman who possess all the attributes that you wrote:
- a disrespectful man who has absolutely NO RESPECT for his woman.
- an unfaithful man who believes that there is nothing wrong with cheating (or that it is men's way).
- a polygamous man who has NO intention one settling with one woman only.
- a rich man who thinks he can "buy" any woman he desires
- a man who is never satisfied with what he has.
- a man who gives 0 value to the attributes you mentionned
- a man who at a particular time in his life is weak (due to whatever reason)



the above is the reason why so many women are miserable in marriage, foolishly staying married in order to pretend to the whole world that they are happy.

I guess i would have expressed this article in different languages for peeoplle to read and assimilate because its so baffling that people writting funny stuffs of a man still cheating on a lady despite these virtues definitely did not assimiilate.

Cheating on a woman is never the same as dumping her outrightly for another woman and as i have explained in my write up i was hammering on the fact that a rrandy man will still do side chics but will never dump a woman wiith these attributes.

Please people should learn to assimilate n not just read.

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

madam shut up..men are polygamous in nature just put follow the op article to remain relevant in ur hubby house.

It takes two, the effort shouldn't be one way, it unlikely to work.

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

Olè!

Olé!

dunsman:
atory story.. we gats to gv God glory we gats to live life slowly p*ssy no go gv life back

Baddo!

Toks2008:


Who be this?

by her signature you should no she is an ashi, she no get hubby, everybody thing. Guy your compositions are on spot, good work.

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

Oponu ayirada

Toks2008:


See me see wahala o. Of-course she can operate it and maybe do the laundry but it should never be part of why a man should score any lady.

Infact i am not into allowing a lady do my laundry and i will rather ask a wash man to come if i cant take them to the laundry service. I personally see it as suffering ion the lady's part to start washing my cloths.

lazy generation.. so washing clothes is equivalent to suffering now abi?