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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:34am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa:You love your husband but can't cook for him. Shame on you!! You're also lazy!! 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:36am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Zeeblamj01:The lady should start cooking. How can she just leave him to be cooking. She says she'll feel intimidated because he cooks better than her. She is not serious. They should do it together so that she can improve. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by emsheddy(m): 10:40am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:Madam, how does African 'marriage' traditions contribute to keeping Africa backward? Infact Africa is better off than other continents in terms of marriages that have lasted for ages! Is this how our mothers behaved and enjoyed their marriages till date? The question should be what is wrong with you and not 'you people'! No wonder we are having break-ups here and there because a lot of our young folks have allowed western culture to corrupt our wonderful marriage traditions! Am not surprised sha! instead of sticking to our traditional marriage system, we allowed 'white wedding' to be more valued and prestigious! I don vex self! lolz.....make I cool down here! pmc01, DeeTus, Aystarz, FolarinLondon, una dey see talk abi? na God go help us ohhhhhhh 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:40am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:Hahahaha. Good that your senses have been restored! 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jennifer89(f): 10:46am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: it seems u woke up on the wrong side of ur bed this morning and u want me to begin to exchange words with u. look else were oky. dnt quote me. thanks. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 13, 2015 |
emsheddy:Please lets forgive her now because her sense organs have been restored back. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:53am On Sep 13, 2015 |
DeeTus:I hope you are okay. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by thelish(f): 10:54am On Sep 13, 2015 |
emsheddy:Bros, how many of these our urhobo/isoko mothers actually enjoyed their marriage? If nor be say their second name na endurance and patience. lol. They were more like slaves to their husband. U go kneel down till ur husband chop finish. abeg babes nor ready for that kind suffering again oo. Even the mothers are not praying their kind of life for their daughters. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by fbtowner(m): 10:56am On Sep 13, 2015 |
What this couples don't know here is that. Just as the way breastfeeding a child can make the love of the mother grow in the mind of the child. Same applies here too. If u don't cook for your hubby. I can bet my last penny the love would be reducing gradually till divorce become the next available option 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ireneidiva(f): 10:56am On Sep 13, 2015 |
emsheddy:You guys and this yeye 'our mothers' talk. Do you know how many of 'our mothers' will happily run out of their marriages given the chance? The ones that stayed back when their husbands use them as punching bags or constantly cheat on them. Try that now with modern girls and you will be forced to go and marry your mothers. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 10:56am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:Yeah sure. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 11:00am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89:That's how y'all will continue to be nothing without a man, pitiful. 5 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 11:02am On Sep 13, 2015 |
DeeTus:Yes I am lazy and I love it. I guess him that won't cook for me doesn't love me, why should I love someone who doesn't love me? 5 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by refreshrate: 11:02am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: You havent met a man who is fed up with you yet...and i pray you never do, i swear to God i pray you never do. Thats all ill say to this 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:03am On Sep 13, 2015 |
This is to the guys, ' anything you can't do in marriage, don't do it while dating.' A lot of men are like that, they will do anything to get your attention while they know its not sustainable. Women look for men to complement them in one area of weakness or the other. Its very possible her weakness is cooking and she accepted this man on that simple point and now he suddenly changed. Some women want men that will help in keeping the house, not men that will be reading paper and watching TV while the wife is cooking, bathing d baby, cleaning , fetch water and he still expects her to wash his cloths and iron them, etc. So don't act like you are one only to turn to newspapers after marriage. To the wife, she should know its the traditional role of a woman to cook and do it. Let her accept that she married a typical traditional Naija man that prefers to read newspapers than help . 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 11:05am On Sep 13, 2015 |
refreshrate:You are a joker. I will not be caught dead with a man like you so need. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by thelish(f): 11:09am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:I was about asking this same question. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by refreshrate: 11:11am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: You know the people who do actually prayed to God for such abi? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 11:13am On Sep 13, 2015 |
refreshrate:Lol, do I sound like someone who believe in myths? Shift jare. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by thelish(f): 11:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89: Thank God u said our mothers sat at home. What will u now say for nowadays men dat want the women to share in the bills? Most women these days are the hidden bread winners dear. So they go to work n crack their brains as well. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by refreshrate: 11:16am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: Ah! now it all makes sense. Forgive me for indulging you. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:16am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa:Hey, don't turn it around here. Pretty face doesn't guarantee a happy home. You should learn how to cook for your husband and be motivated. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by thelish(f): 11:21am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jennifer89:What if a man compelled the wife to contribute to the family finances? Men were OK with full time housewives in the olden days, but which guy is ready to settle down with a housewife now? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ifeanyiokolo: 11:21am On Sep 13, 2015 |
So men can not cook for them self eh. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 11:23am On Sep 13, 2015 |
DeeTus:And having a d1ck does? I am one of the best cooks you'll meet but no man can force me to cook for him, if he's a good cook, he should cook as well, both parties should cook whenever they can, it is not a duty to be delegated to a particular gender. Nothing will give me more joy than to see my baby well fed but he has to understand it's something I do out of the abundance of my heart, not something I should be reminded of and moreso because "I am the man of the house" I won't be with such a man to even start with. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 13, 2015 |
I guess she used to cook for him every seconds before they got married.Maybe she was trying to impress him to marry her........... my opinion though I guess she used to cook for him every seconds before they got married.Maybe she was trying to impress him to marry her........... my opinion though |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by NathyBongos: 11:28am On Sep 13, 2015 |
See gobe! I just pray I don't face such challenges because I cook perfectly well more than a caterer...my girlfriend wayback schooldays would always want me to do the cooking whenever she visit me on weekend basis.may God help us
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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:31am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: What are you saying?As a woman,cooking is your responsibility. The day you signed that marriage register,you indirectly made a vow to be his mother.One who will love,care and take care of him.Am very sure u know a mother will never starve her son. 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 13, 2015 |
thelish:Her mom was a racist and so, we couldn't end up being together! It wasn't really my fault. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by rhames(m): 11:37am On Sep 13, 2015 |
martyns303: i doubt if the two of you dated very well and long enough to know your respective strenghts and weaknesses, likes and dislikes. If not, none of you should be complaining about each other anywhere. If I may ask, did you confront your wife about this matter before bringing this into public view? Marriage is a sacred institution and once it comes into public view and notice, it becomes a target of external threat. Wise up brother. Sit your newly wedded wife down and talk to her about this.But on the other hand, is she carrying a grudge against you? Except if your marriage is a product of matchmaking or forced marriage, this complaints wont be happening. Good luck and happy married life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 11:40am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa:My sister, di.ck does. Imagine after eating the food you cooked for him and he screw you in the bedroom at night? You know how's the feelings like, right? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by cyberdurable(m): 11:44am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123:swerve! |
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