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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 2:57am On Sep 13, 2015 |
refreshrate:Just see talk. I really wonder the kind of women these ones roll with. So a woman you probably met in a city different from where her parents live, is the one you'll just tell "we are going to visit your parents" without knowing if her parents are even home, if she wants to even see them or if she's in the mood to even go out and she'll just enter the vehicle without asking questions? She must be a robot sha. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 3:03am On Sep 13, 2015 |
4stylz:This is laughable. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 3:49am On Sep 13, 2015 |
GboyegaD: May your wife do same thing to you. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by JayJustus(m): 4:27am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Olalan: nope...never...cooking is never a duty of a wife...where did you see that?? from all the Asian countries I've visited and lived with locals, cooking is done by whoever is available...it is a stoooooooopid African mentality that a woman should cook, clean and still work...what the hell?? in my family you arrange food as availability is... all my life my mum doesn't do the most cooking as my dad could do it, a private chef could...women are humans and not marital objects...nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Bigcake: 4:42am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:when someone like you still reasons like a kid? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by babygirlfl: 5:01am On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: Those funnily annoying comments are the reason we somehow keep finding ourselves in Nairaland. ;DThis place will be dull without them. Some things I read here is just hilarious. Seriously it's obvious the kind of women they roll with. Quite frankly, they carefully select them. That's their definition of wife material. If the woman was a doctor who has to be at work the next day, she would not follow the man to her mums and then wait for renegotiation. With Nairaland who needs comedy. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by agarawu23(m): 5:01am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Physika:iranu rada rada. If she isn't alright, there is nothing bad in helping her. But everyday cooking ? Ko jor |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by agarawu23(m): 5:03am On Sep 13, 2015 |
odinese:I have my "followed board" so I gat notification when there is new topic |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by agarawu23(m): 5:07am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jetjacky:we will do that later |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Lilkingsamuel(m): 5:16am On Sep 13, 2015 |
I am just here to say that she should simply go home to her parent. Thanks. Am counting on you bro. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by CandyBar: 5:47am On Sep 13, 2015 |
The Sun does not blow a trumpet to announce it's existence, if you don't see its light, you feel its heat. Once a man resorts to ranting "I am the Man" forget it......He isn't Jack !! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ideology(m): 5:50am On Sep 13, 2015 |
JayJustus:that Africans don't practice what asians practice doesn't make Africans stupid, so Watch your words. There is Nothing wrong with a man helping out when he's available Read the op's write up and u will understand that the lady is taking advantage of the guy. Am of the opinion that, A home is built by both sides not one side, the husband should not see kitchen as the lady's office, if you return home before your wife, take off your ties and make the meal, shikena!! it won't take any hair from your head or change your name or your position in the family 6 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ammyluv2002(f): 5:54am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Bigcake:Ewww! |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by obiak4(m): 5:57am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ebubey:help him you are supposed to be his help meet the last tym i checked man hustle for money go still come back from work enter kill-chen(kitchen) you better make ur marriage work stylisly work out of thread like benteke goal yesterday |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by ideology(m): 5:59am On Sep 13, 2015 |
martyns303:From your post, i could deduce that the wife is immature, very at that, she's may not listen to anyone at the moment, except someone who is advanced in age. She doesn't even know that "minor " issues like this could spilt a home. Since your friend opened up to you, its already public knowledge, My advice is that 1. The guy should be patient 2 your friend should pray, minor issues like this do degenerate into bigger ones 3. As he prays wisdom will come to him on how to handle the situation. 4. If she doesn't change before Dec 1, he should arrange a visit to her parents and from there call only her mum aside and explain everything to her in her wife's presence. 5. If he intends consulting anyone outside family, he should speak with his pastor's wife or someone very matured in marriage and age eg the couple that chaired their wedding ceremony. Thank you Btw, i had similar thoughts while preparing meal yesterday, anyway, I'll always try to be available to assist but My wife is a wise woman, full of grace and love and she knows what is proper, she's blessed and a blessing to many, amen. A home is built by both sides not one side, howbeit, the husband should not see kitchen as the lady's office, if you return home before your wife, take off your ties and make the meal, shikena!! it won't take any hair from your head or change your name or your position in the family 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by persius555(m): 5:59am On Sep 13, 2015 |
misspicy:And when he decides to get a housegirl who can cook the best meal, she gradually loses her place in the home. These days, ladies see marriage as a trophy, once u get it its all over. I dont pity many. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 6:04am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Op are u in Nigeria or in a foreign country?ds question will help determine alot.If in Nigeria,Please tell d woman to respect herself and do d cooking.If later is d case,u've to be patient dn discuss wt or find someone dt"l talk sense into her cos from d look of things,she is influenced by a particular cultures Idea.I once had a relation d got married early this yr.Because she is a Us citizen and processed visa for d hubby,she told me is d man's duty to cook over tHere.I jokingly told her to respect herself except he wants d guy to dump her wn he finally settles there.Till today,she does d cooking.This is pure case of laziness. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 6:09am On Sep 13, 2015 |
So bad, guy just send her packing, I don't know what ladies are claiming nowadays, or go outside bring in one lady that is endowed to cook for u, if she (ur wife) shouts ignore her, do that for 4weeks, no one will tell her to cook for u, Guy u are a man not a woman. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by GboyegaD(m): 6:36am On Sep 13, 2015 |
emmyrichie: It's not an issue to me if she does. Thanks all the same. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by espn(m): 6:37am On Sep 13, 2015 |
gabazin080:you are rite..if any lady tries this with me..i will make the marriage miserable for her. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by balogunsam(m): 6:47am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ideology: Best response so far... If this story is true, the lady is simply immature, taking advantage of the dude....and lazy. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by balogunsam(m): 6:49am On Sep 13, 2015 |
espn: Oh..really...and you wont end up miserable too? Well, except you don't love the lady you marry sha. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by balogunsam(m): 6:51am On Sep 13, 2015 |
GboyegaD: Your capacity is impressive sire....and your response sleek |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by chronique(m): 6:54am On Sep 13, 2015 |
There's nothing we won't see in this country again o. So after cooking as a bachelor,I'd still get married and continue the cooking? But my name is not baba basirat or baba put nau... I cook very well as a man,but do not expect to continue that when I'm married. My reason for getting married is to have a companion and a helpmate and I need her help more in domestic matters;not financial. Leave me to do the hustle while you tend to the house;simple. I'm not saying a lady shouldn't work o. All I'm saying is that her first priority,should be looking after the house. Working and earning money should be secondary to her. People should learn how to state how they want their homes to be,before getting married. That way,all parties would know what is expected of them ahead of time. 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EmekaBlue(m): 6:58am On Sep 13, 2015 |
she no sabi cook..shikinah |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by sexaddict08(m): 7:02am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ebubey: this madam na arrogant one... Martins no call ur name, u come mumu come expose urself. ur marriage go get k-leg be that . |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by chimmynev: 7:04am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Nawao. Meanwhile today is my birthday. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by kaka74: 7:05am On Sep 13, 2015 |
RedCard1: Guy if I insult or curse ur tribe now pple go say am immature mtcheEw anyway am jst coming back from mass make I ignore u |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by SAMBARRY: 7:10am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123:gbam |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 7:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Harmonyemerald: I was enjoying the advice until a 20-yr old 100L undergraduate suddenly became an elder! |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by sexaddict08(m): 7:14am On Sep 13, 2015 |
malaria: I reject malaria in my life...but I won't this malaria yansh. where are u in Owerri? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Adeyeancah(m): 7:15am On Sep 13, 2015 |
ebubey:I hardly comment but this is worth commenting to, Sister,according to what I read,ur husband says he doesn't care,he loves u just d way you are sister. See if it was another guy, he would be telling his friend his wife aint a good cook as he is....please for christ sake, don't let this little thing cause wahala for your home, Happy Married life jare! _ By the way, me still dey look for a Gf. |
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