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Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Youngpo413: 8:58am On Sep 20, 2015

janefrancisca:
All these topics and issues about virginity should point to just one thing for the ladies '' A wake up call". Please try not to have sex with a man who is not your husband because at the end of the day, that same guy u had sex with will join the shallow minded ones to label u ''cheap'' and loose. They are free to sleep with different gals but a gal who does that is termed a LovePeddler, that is the kind of world we live in.

the funny thing is that all these non virgins still pray for a God fearing husbands when they themselves are not God fearing.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by kingsilly(m): 9:02am On Sep 20, 2015

MzNelly:
Lol, sweetheart, if you really love a girl and she's above 25, please don't ask for her body count.

You can't take the heartbreak.

There's no how you won't ask, e hard, and I won't date such, we keep using the "word" love to cloud common sense thinking. We tend to forget relationship also needs trust, I really don't know how I'm gonna trust such person

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 20, 2015

Adaeze003:
Now, this is what I call reality on paper or on Nairaland.

Look around you Mr, what do you really see?
Society who? Lol.

Guys just like to leave the impression that if you sleep around, as a girl, bad things will happen and then I wonder, what's the worst that can happen? People will see you as a LovePeddler? Is that really new? You won't get married?? Lol, just Lol!

People like to paint a false picture of life, be good and you'll have a good life automatically, be bad n you'll have a bad life but we all know "reality" isn't so straight.

Woulda said allot more but I might end up preaching what I don't encourage... buh you'll have to do allot more to dissuade girls from sleeping around than that lame attempt

Exactly, sister.

I don't encourage sleeping around.
But what's the worst that could happen?

They call you a hoe.
And this same hoe is what would attract so many guys because they want "a girl with experience."
And so these 'hoes' end up getting married and the holier-than-thou virgins are seen in churches everyday praying.

I've seen sooooo many examples.
I wonder who these male chauvinists are tryna fool tho.
Us?

Lol

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 20, 2015

kingsilly:
There's no how you won't ask, e hard, and I won't date such, we keep using the "word" love to cloud common sense thinking. We tend to forget relationship also needs trust, I really don't know how I'm gonna trust such person

Okay, whatever rocks your boat.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Adaeze003(f): 9:08am On Sep 20, 2015

MzNelly:
Exactly, sister.

I don't encourage sleeping around.
But what's the worst that could happen?

They call you a hoe.
And this same hoe is what would attract so many guys because they want "a girl with experience."
And so these 'hoes' end up getting married and the holier-than-thou virgins are seen in churches everyday praying.

I've seen sooooo many examples.
I wonder who these male chauvinists are tryna fool tho.
Us?

Lol

He thinks he's talking to 13yr olds... grin

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Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by kingsilly(m): 9:13am On Sep 20, 2015

MzNelly:
Okay, whatever rocks your boat.

, just fighting for my fellow niccur.
Already has a strategy for "dating" i can't just date if someone can advocate for you(yeah a friend as proxy), if I'm dating you someone I know must know you, can't collect random girl number at ICM or Leisure mall. For other reason I can do dat but to date it's a No No,been working well so far cheesy

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by otiigba1(m): 9:46am On Sep 20, 2015

ANd the morale of this long story, is people! Stop fuccking around! grin

But wait o! How are we supposed to make babies? huh

And is fucck!ng around to make babies a sin too?
I thought God says in the book, Go and multiply! How are we supposed to multiply if we don't fucck! around? tongue

....fucck!, now this fuccking confusing.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Nobody: 9:58am On Sep 20, 2015

hbpeze:
I repeat again girls that are not virgins are useless.of they are not why can't they keep themselves.

They are useless

Boys nko?

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Youngpo413: 10:07am On Sep 20, 2015

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It seems teenage girls now disvirgin themselves cos men of all age keep looking for virgins to f:ck even when they themselves are not virgins r exonorated all the time.

Guys if u are not a virgin, don't go looking for one cos u are the ones who deceive them, disvirgin and go away looking for other virgins.

ladies should learn to close their legs,saying NO and sticking to it is not a big deal.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Youngpo413: 10:11am On Sep 20, 2015

thundafire:
imagine na guy ryt dis OP y nt a lady cs dy re dy ones experiencing dy pains nd all in dy poundings guys stop rytin ladies topic

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by kbright911(m): 10:12am On Sep 20, 2015

munchfani:
ABEGI!!

HELL IS REAL! WHOEVER YOU ARE, HELL IS REAL! A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE!

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Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by munchfani: 10:15am On Sep 20, 2015

kbright911:
HELL IS REAL! WHOEVER YOU ARE, HELL IS REAL! A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE!

the slave master has done a perfect job on your forefather....christian for mouth!!

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Youngpo413: 10:16am On Sep 20, 2015

phrenoz:
I'm glad I saw this post, I don't understand why there's so much attention given to sex these days... Being a virgin automatically makes you a prude.
If there is any young girl reading this I'd sincerely like to tell you that there are still a lot of virgins and you don't have to lose it unless you want to.
Virginity doesn't necessarily make u better than anyone but it's just that little something that shows your level of self control.

not a" little something" as you said,virginity is the pride of every lady and they are far more better than non virgins.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Youngpo413: 10:20am On Sep 20, 2015

MzNelly:
Lol, sweetheart, if you really love a girl and she's above 25, please don't ask for her body count.

You can't take the heartbreak.

the reason why every sane man should marry a virgin.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by kbright911(m): 10:23am On Sep 20, 2015

munchfani:
the slave master has done a perfect job on your forefather....christian for mouth!!

Lol... I can't just help but laugh at you.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by munchfani: 10:24am On Sep 20, 2015

kbright911:
Lol... I can't just help but laugh at you.

bwoy!, i dont do religion, so dont fuvkin qoute me nxt time.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by felai: 10:53am On Sep 20, 2015

phrenoz:
I'm glad I saw this post, I don't understand why there's so much attention given to sex these days... Being a virgin automatically makes you a prude.
If there is any young girl reading this I'd sincerely like to tell you that there are still a lot of virgins and you don't have to lose it unless you want to.
Virginity doesn't necessarily make u better than anyone but it's just that little something that shows your level of self control.

Been a while I saw a post from this beautiful mind.
Hope you are fine.?

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by jpphilips(m): 11:09am On Sep 20, 2015

SeverusSnape:
Women don't have testosterone, they have oestrogen or estrogen. Take note.

How did women grow facial hairs without testosterone?
Their estrogen is higher doesnt mean Testosterone is totally absent.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by dust88: 11:10am On Sep 20, 2015

hbpeze:
I repeat again girls that are not virgins are useless.of they are not why can't they keep themselves.

They are useless

Mr.Hipo. Na ur type Sabi cry Whn dem nver give.. "mak I put only d head pls,i won't move pls"

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by kbright911(m): 11:26am On Sep 20, 2015

munchfani:
bwoy!, i dont do religion, so dont fuvkin qoute me nxt time.

Yes sir/ma'am.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by EreluY(f): 11:38am On Sep 20, 2015

ABSOLUTE CRAP. A CLOSE MALE FRIEND WHO DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMAN WHILST DATING IS NOW HAVING TO ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS. WHY? HIS WIFE WAS SUBJECTED TO FGM DURING HER CHILDHOOD AND HER HONEY POT WAS SERIOUSLY MUTILATED TO THE POINT THAT THEY BOTH DON'T ENJOY THE SEX.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by HireKiller(m): 11:51am On Sep 20, 2015

Youngpo413:
the reason why every sane man should marry a virgin.

Man man man man man.

As far as I'm concerned, any man that isn't a virgin himself, is in not qualified to insist on marrying a virgin.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by HireKiller(m): 11:59am On Sep 20, 2015

EreluY:
ABSOLUTE CRAP. A CLOSE MALE FRIEND WHO DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMAN WHILST DATING IS NOW HAVING TO ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS. WHY? HIS WIFE WAS SUBJECTED TO FGM DURING HER CHILDHOOD AND HER HONEY POT WAS SERIOUSLY MUTILATED TO THE POINT THAT THEY BOTH DON'T ENJOY THE SEX.

As crazy as it may sound, a man that is abstaining from sex while dating a woman should at least confirm the condition of things as far as he possibly can just to be sure.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by HireKiller(m): 12:05pm On Sep 20, 2015

Anyway OP thanks for the post I've bookmarked it. After reading it there is no way I'll marry a non-virgin. Unless I read something else that says why it is ok to marry one. This post contains some scary sh!t about marrying a non-virgin.

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Herrmes: 12:20pm On Sep 20, 2015

How many times would a particular subject be called bullshit before people actually recognise and learn that it truly is?

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by moneyj1: 1:02pm On Sep 20, 2015

Nice talk... Abstinence is Ok...But if U re nt a virgin, and U ve decided to be “ Post Virgin” after series of sexual acts, God stills value U! If U want to marry a virgin, good for you. In reality, virgins marry non-virgins ( Post Virgins ).. Accept what you have.. JOD

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Cityguy: 1:57pm On Sep 20, 2015

Don't understand this fixation of peeps on sex, virginity. My grandmum was a 'virgin'. It's what you will eventually lose one way or the other but does that stop you from moving on to achieving your potentials? Youths in other climes are preoccupied with inventions that are transforming the world but here we are obsessed and dissipating energy with mundane, natural phenomena! Abeg, this virginity stuff is already over-flogged. Haba undecided

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Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by nairamaniac: 1:58pm On Sep 20, 2015

NgreportsBlog:
http://ngreports.com/must-read-16-lessons-i-learnt-from-losing-my-virginity/

Nice Post Op..
But This entire thread focuses on females and not the male sex.
it seems to discourage premarital sex for only girls and women.
If u discourage our females, who would we be sleeping with?
R u trying to promote homosexuality huh

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by nairamaniac: 2:04pm On Sep 20, 2015

EreluY:
ABSOLUTE CRAP. A CLOSE MALE FRIEND WHO DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH HIS WOMAN WHILST DATING IS NOW HAVING TO ENGAGE IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS. WHY? HIS WIFE WAS SUBJECTED TO FGM DURING HER CHILDHOOD AND HER HONEY POT WAS SERIOUSLY MUTILATED TO THE POINT THAT THEY BOTH DON'T ENJOY THE SEX.

pls what is FGM? some of us never advance reach you for these sexually related matter?

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by Olaone1: 2:15pm On Sep 20, 2015

nairamaniac:
pls what is FGM? some of us never advance reach you for these sexually related matter?

Female genital mutilation

Re: 16 Lessons I Learnt From Losing My Virginity by nairamaniac: 2:42pm On Sep 20, 2015

Olaone1:
Female genital mutilation

Thanks! U have really gone far. wish I had lost my virginity to you. I WD HV been very well guarded and well-trained by now.

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