MzNelly:

You seem unnecessarily bothered. If you have sex, they'll talk. Don't have sex, they'll call you a prude.
Do whatever the fvck you feel like. This life idi too short.

Youngpo413:
it depends on how you comport yourself,its as easy as ABC.

sauceny:


Like how old are they¿

shadowgwalker:
true talk, these days girls are either cheap to fyiok or nah them dey chase guys to fyiok.
Most ashitecs on the road are even doin the job to satisfy their sexual urge and not for the cash.

PROOF! E get one ashitec wey I tidy one time, after that time nah she come dey contact me for more and she be new recruit for the job, all the way from AK

terzurum5:

may be from that part of the world you have come from if you are taking a bearing from morality. But from a religious perspective, both receive the same measure of pressure

Trustworthiness:


Because girls are always at the receiving end. If a man has lost his virginity, no one can tell. But for girls, it is obvious.

Men usually lose trust for girls that have lost their virginity before marriage. That is why girls needs to keep their virginity until they are happily married.

flaminReed:
God bless you. I read through people's write-ups and I can't but be amazed. Are these friends on nairaland robots or *devils or something worse? They lie with pride, hide the truth with fierce guts, even from their own consciences. How can you say that premarital sex does no harm? This is one mistake Eve and Adam made. Rather than pleading for mercy and repenting, they were busy passing the buck. Your weakness and folly have so politely been explained by the Op, instead of commending him/her, you think you can infect others with unholy reasoning. No one is saying that ladies that have lost it should be thrown behind the bars of desolation . For why? Some lost it via means without consensus. Neither is any one saying they cannot be forgiven and re-grafted into society and family life. The point is, 'shall we continue in sin...' . But this life is such a God-balance between wrong and right. For every thing we reap fruits- wrong or right. I'll, perhaps, personally take it up with the arrogant agents of darkness in this forum. It shall not be well with them. Amen. Be thankful and kindly pass on the light to those around you. Besides, I'm not female. I'll marry Whoever God endorses, and not all of them I consider are virgins. I'll gladly marry that Christian woman who shall obey me. Trust me, sincere women desire a no cheat PASSIONATELY. Let's stop pretending like we don't know, and like we can do anything against the truth

Trustworthiness:


Evil men are always looking for virgin girls to deflower because they new the evil they are doing and planning.

Such evil men are friends of Satan, carrying out Satan's orders. Satan knew that the more there are deflower girls, the more there will be distrust in marriage, The more divorce, the more single parenting that will not have time to educate the children about life. The more the crime in the society.

Today, there are a lot of crime in the society, but no one knows the root cause or the Genesis of the crimes being committed.

Girls Loosing their virginity before they are married is one of the root cause of our societal problem.

disneyjdkeyz:

because d ladies re more vulnerable and naive...perhaps if should stop opening deir legs.. guys go be virgin na

Adaeze003:


Now, this is what I call reality on paper or on Nairaland.

Look around you Mr, what do you really see?
Society who? Lol.

Guys just like to leave the impression that if you sleep around, as a girl, bad things will happen and then I wonder, what's the worst that can happen? People will see you as a LovePeddler? Is that really new? You won't get married?? Lol, just Lol!

People like to paint a false picture of life, be good and you'll have a good life automatically, be bad n you'll have a bad life but we all know "reality" isn't so straight.

Woulda said allot more but I might end up preaching what I don't encourage... buh you'll have to do allot more to dissuade girls from sleeping around than that lame attempt

Youngpo413:
not a" little something" as you said,virginity is the pride of every lady and they are far more better than non virgins.

Adaeze003:


I know my place... it's wherever I want to be.

Truckpusher:
Sometimes it doesn't turn out that way.

Adaeze003:


turn out? Like I'm going to be born into the world again to watch how things will "turn out"?

That's my reality... not some wish.

Truckpusher:
Lol, stop twisting my comment to suit your ego that I'm about to deflate now.


I said soemtimes we don't always turn out how we planned to turn out despite all our genuine effort and hardwork - Life fuccks everyone of us differently.

What are we even arguing about here? - Let's just kiss and make love and not war.

Adaeze003:


I'm not a guy, my ego is not easily deflated...

tosyne2much:
Mind you, even from a religious perspective, the Bible lays so much emphasis on female virginity than male virginity

terzurum5:

Are you for real?
Joseph is a very good example of a young man who refused to defile himself, even when he had a cheap chance so what are you talking about?
The bible frowns at immorality not just the issue of virginity be it male or female.
You can read more....

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Proverbs 5-7 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)
The Wisdom of Avoiding Adultery
5 Son, listen to this piece of wisdom from me. Pay attention to what I know to be true. 2 Remember to live wisely, and what you learn will keep your lips from saying the wrong thing. 3 Now, another man’s wife might be very charming, and the words from her lips so sweet and inviting. 4 But in the end, she will bring only bitterness and pain. It will be like bitter poison and a sharp sword. 5 She is on a path leading to death, and she will lead you straight to the grave. 6 Don’t follow her. She has lost her way and does not even know it. Be careful. Stay on the road that leads to life.
7 Now, my sons, listen to me. Don’t forget the words I say. 8 Stay away from the woman who commits adultery. Don’t even go near her house. 9 If you do, others will get the honor you should have had. Some stranger will get everything you worked years to get. 10 People you don’t know will take all your wealth. Others will get what you worked for. 11 At the end of your life, you will be sad that you ruined your health and lost everything you had. 12-13 Then you will say, “Why didn’t I listen to my parents? Why didn’t I pay attention to my teachers? I didn’t want to be disciplined. I refused to be corrected. 14 So now I have suffered through just about every kind of trouble anyone can have, and everyone knows it.”
15 Now, about sex and marriage: Drink only the water that comes from your own well, 16 and don’t let your water flow out into the streets. 17 Keep it for yourself, and don’t share it with strangers. 18 Be happy with your own wife. Enjoy the woman you married while you were young. 19 She is like a beautiful deer, a lovely fawn. Let her love satisfy you completely. Stay drunk on her love, 20 and don’t go stumbling into the arms of another woman.
21 The Lord clearly sees everything you do. He watches where you go. 22 The sins of the wicked will trap them. Those sins will be like ropes holding them back. 23 Evil people will die because they refuse to be disciplined. They will be trapped by their own desires.
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www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+5-7&version=ERV

felai:

Been a while I saw a post from this beautiful mind. Hope you are fine.?

OZAOEKPE:
"I must marry a virgin ijn".

jpphilips:
@OP

Sex for 16yr olds is a crime against the body and for Nigerian families that still perceive sex education as a sacrilege I will not advise that.
I assume that most opinions on this board resonate around that age range so I think the misconception is well understood.

One bingo a couple of comments up was actually begging a stranger to disvirgin him that pretty shows that most comments here should not be taken seriously.
For the sake of everyone having an opinion however dumb, only kids lay emphasis on virginity, the bad news is; KIDS DONT MARRY, so finish school, make good money then you are free to go on virgin hunting with your tight schedule, thank God for Nigerian employers and how generous they are with time, and for the entrepreneurs, the business climate is competitive enough for a grown @rse man to be virgin hunting.

Something must be said here, most of you who are virgin crazy have never had one, Most of the disvirgined were once virgins yet someone dumped their @rse when reality came calling.
The few who are virgins are looking for insurance and think that a man who has worked hard will commit to them because they managed to preserve a piece of their waist, never mind they are at liberty to give Bj's, b00bs sucking, thigh fvcking and in some cases Anal sex, news flash; Men aint stvp!d.
Any man who makes that mistake is stvp!d and the so called virgin will have his stvp!dity to contend with in marriage. Ask some married women how s!lly the men they have at home is, well, I don't blame the men, I blame the women who made s!lly rules that attracted s!lly men into their lives.
The only insurance a woman has is;

Sex education
Good education
Sound upbringing
Sound family background.

If the only certificate you wield coming into a man's home is a piece of your waist, then may experience teach you better.
While the women bother about how cheap they will become after having sex, do you guys have any idea how miserable you appear when you beg for basic things a child from a home should have? when you virtually resort to survive on the magnanimity of friends and well wishers, you are cheaper or something worse.

tosyne2much:
Abstinence pressure always highly mounted on ladies. While it is minimally mounted on guys

YEAH
BECAUSE WE'RE SUPPOSED TO HAVE SEX WITH ONE ANOTHER (GUYS), AND SOMETIMES TO ANIMALS.