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yetseyi:
Loool let "them" catch you I wont defend you at all.

Another assumption and I don't agree with you.

About your question what do you think? just guess.

tpiander:
Just drop pictures of half na.ked women or transgenders on the thread and he and the other hypocrites will shut up.

Shymm3x:
He's right though. Most women broken homes are somewhat problematic due to the lack of father figure in their lives, whilst growing up. It's a mental thing and once they get with a guy - they automatically expect him to provide what's lacking.

I don't know how to explain it...but you have to be with one to know how messed up they're.

Shymm3x:
Lol. Not taking shots. They know that is how Nigerians in diaspora are classified in everyday interaction in diaspora. Folks get along on the surface but that is where it ends - different mentality/outlook, experience, and knowledge scope.

It is not an assumption - that is the reality. Our outlook and behavioural pattern are influenced by what we were raised around. It is just basically like chics who grew up around dads who are supremely loving and successful. Subconsciously, they will always scheme for guys who are or have the samepotentials, as their dads. That is what they will subconsciously be attracted to. Just like every guy out there will always be subconsciously attracted to chics who are like their mums.

Chics from broken homes are also always quick to drop that "you're just as useless as my dad" line. If that doesn't tell a story...I don't know what it represents. The truth is: as a guy you will spend most of ya time trying to prove to them that you are not anything like their dads, due to all the negativity their mums must have instilled in them. And that is pretty much hard work.

Err, you are from a broken home. You just need a guy with a lot of patience who can play the role of a dad/partner at the same time. Run as far as you can from knuckleheads like me looool. But you'd make a great mum though.

Shymm3x:
Chics from broken homes are also always quick to drop that "you're just as useless as my dad" line.

You just need a guy with a lot of patience who can play the role of a dad/partner at the same time.

yetseyi:
Loool at the you are just like my dad line.

yetseyi:
You didn't consider the situation of loosing ones dad while young. The home is broken right? Either way the child is fatherless. Who does she use as the role model since you say she would most likely lookout for someone like her dad. So whats the difference between a child from separated parents that are alive and separated parents due to death.

Loool at the you are just like my dad line.

I am not confirming or denying anything

tpiander:
shymmex has father issues which he tries to project on others.

go through all his posts- he almost never refers to his dad.

tpiander:
is that how you refer to your own dad? If your dad is useless then so are you.

No sane person addresses their father like that, shows a lot about you.

bro, are you gay? You are placing a lot of emphasis on your fellow males, please turn to Jesus for deliverance.

Shymm3x:
my father is useless

Shymm3x:
Now, folks who lost their dads are different cos all they will have are great/positive memories of him and they'll always lead their lives to make him proud. Even if they don't care, mums will always remind them. You can't even call that a "broken home" per se cos there won't be too much negativity there...though the father figure would still be missing. Dealing with chics from this background should be far easier than the ones from broken homes with bitter mums.

Looool. What happened to ya dad? Ijebu men are always faithful, though it seems they also like polygyny (an oxymoron but that is how they get down lool).

Shymm3x:
Tilapia the broken record - who let you out of the asylum? Loool. Press the red button and ya carer should be there promptly to give you the care you need and enough dose of propofol.

You done lost ya already insane cotton picking mind.

yetseyi:
well I agree with your first sentence.

Nothing really.
Always is a very strong word same as never. Is faithfulness now associated with a particular ethnic group. Lool ooo a sizeable amount of Ijebus are muslims so that influences the plenty wives aspect to a reasonable extent.

Shymm3x:
Nah, I was just speaking based on observation of those I'm always around since I'm Ijebu, hence I referenced that cos you're also Ijebu. I can't speak on other people and I'm not trying to compare.

Shymm3x:
[/b] naija chics have attitude problems and most of them aren't good looking; [b]

Shymm3x:
Looool. Yes, a lot of Ijebus are Muslims and there might be more Muslim Ijebus than Christians.

Timbuktou:
It's a risky proposition. Most children from broken homes haven't been taught how to keep a relationship or home together and make one work; and most of them never bother to learn. E no dey hard dem to divorce at the slightest marital inconvenience or check out emotionally. They are usually biased against the estranged parent and the parent's gender due to one-sided accounts from custodial parents.

Anybody intending to marry a product of a broken home would do well to ensure due diligence in determining their marriage ideals and conflict resolution beliefs and methods.

NifemiOlu:
No. I can't 'got maried' to her. Odikwa uncool.
Many of them are always on the defensive because of their experiences. I've dated a girl on the defensive, it's really demanding.

akins56:
gbam!, i dated one, i stylishly broke up with her recently, everything i do, she'll be like, 'i know you are decieving me' she expects me to call her 3 times a day, if not, am not caring.