Vinshu:
@Op, you are really shameless.
You cannot see a lady unclad without having a hard-on ?

Vinshu:


It's not right. Girls can see guys naked without being turned on why can't guys do same?

Vinshu:


It's not right. Girls can see guys naked without being turned on why can't guys do same?

sirjohnson:
I and an ex just got back together, so she decided to visit me yesterday Thursday deciding to sleep over till today Friday and would leave by 9pm...I tried to coax her into making out with me yesterday night but she vehemently denied on the grounds of not wanting to sin against God, and Konji wanted to finish me. Note that we had sex four times before during our first stint together.

We woke up this morning and tried my best, she denied again, but when she decided to take her bath, I sneaked into the bathroom and she willingly allowed me do pre-intimacy, the pre-intimacy was pretty long and I even used my finger on her.

Now I am damn up and couldn't control myself anymore. I begged her to allow me enter her, but she refused still. I even asked her to just help me come either by mouth or by hand just to feel relieved, all to no avail. Its now beginning to turn embarrassing, she was almost cussing me out.

So I told her its better she leaves now and not wait untill 9pm cos I will keep disturbing her and she wont allow me... She dressed up, took her bag and called me all sorts of names... She said I didn't love her, that if I did I would not tell her to go because she would not have sex with me. She said I should not bother to see her off. Then she left. The lord knows I only told her to leave to save the two of us the stress.


Have I done wrong by telling her to leave knowing that my Konji wont allow me leave her to be and she would still not oblige?

sirjohnson:


The sole purpose of me inviting her over is for sex and she somehow knows it... Not for movies or cuisines, and if my objective is not fulfilled my body no go come down... And I dont see anything wrong in inviting a lady over solely for sex, its what active men do.

Vinshu:
@Op, you are really shameless.
You cannot see a lady unclad without having a hard-on ?

morethanadoll:
Wow...seems like a woman with unforseen motives. The question is, does she really love you? A woman who loves her man will NOT make lame excuses, especially when they have ALREADY had intercourse in the past. Also, that same woman would NEVER let her man go Hot, especially to bed, where they are both sleeping. As the older generation of women says, what you don't do for your man, another woman will! How would she like that? If I wasn't feeling up to penetration, I would have easily fulfilled my man's wishes of MouthAction. She is ungrateful. Find you lady who doesn't mind pleasing you when you need it. Damn...she made me mad and I don't even know her.

tosyne2much:
Wooooow !!!


Who would ever thought Mizmycoli would make such a comment

tosyne2much:
I had to quote you

Why would a lady arouse seeing a guy unclad. I mean what exactly are you trying to say

Did u study biology at all in secondary school ?

So its only The size of our wallet and the Sweet nothings that comes out of our Mouth that turns them on

kaboninc:


Well, I don't know if you did right or wrong but for me, I would have allowed her stay till when she leaves. That way I am civil and acted gentlemanly and there would be no need for insults or bad blood.

Also, if what you've just said is anything to go by as per her waiting for the appropriate time, I think she wanted to see your real motive, is it sex or not. That was why she allowed the smooching and kissing and bathing together. To stir you to a point you just can't resist...and ladies are very good with that. I think she tested you. So sir, you did badly in that aspect.

So if you love her, and really want to get back with her, call her and apologize and let it be on her own terms. If she wants to, she'll warm back up to you.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
If he is all that,why is he now ur ex?

phabulous88:


What are you saying? They just made up 2 days before for crying out loud. If Op wanted Sex, he should have chilled for a couple days and try gain her trust. The way he went about it shows that he invited her over only for Sex. I commend her, She just proved to the Op that she's not a slut.

sirjohnson:


Thanks so much.

No, I don't love her.

tosyne2much:
I had to quote you

Why would a lady arouse seeing a guy unclad. I mean what exactly are you trying to say

Did u study biology at all in secondary school ?

jonaifame22:
are u sure ur ex bf's dick functions everytime it should function?

peeparty:


Even me self I was expecting her to call him a pervert like othas..but I sure know she finks through issue and weigh them before making her point known...

I guess the op did his best to avoid the rape scenerio..

I modified my post.
Well, I'm much calmer now, it's just there were certain statements he made which def qualifies him as a perv...But I will not delve into that.

I prefer that he sent her away than leaving her in his house and then something worse happens....seeing as he can't control his hard on. Smh.

The lady on her own shouldn't have cursed him. She should have just left silently.
Afterall, she came to visit, and he, the host, wasn't enjoying her company anymore.


Were it not for the general selfish nature of humans who are always thinking of what they stand to gain, it's very easy to get a babe laid...especially those who put up so much resistance.
I won't be speaking more on that though.

Manipulators and Perverts Everywhere

phabulous88:


What are you saying? They just made up 2 days before for crying out loud. If Op wanted Sex, he should have chilled for a couple days and try gain her trust. The way he went about it shows that he invited her over only for Sex. I commend her, She just proved to the Op that she's not a slut.

IamLEGEND1:


what is this one saying,

is he gày?

phabulous88:


What are you saying? They just made up 2 days before for crying out loud. If Op wanted Sex, he should have chilled for a couple days and try gain her trust. The way he went about it shows that he invited her over only for Sex. I commend her, She just proved to the Op that she's not a slut.

megawax8:
There's definitely a problem with the way people reason these days.


SMH.

Where it all went wrong, i simply do not know.

KONJI truly na Bastard!!!

*sighs*
So you support this too

MizMyColi:



I modified my post.
Well, I'm much calmer now, it's just there were certain statements he made which def qualifies him as a perv...But I will not delve into that.

I prefer that he sent her away than leaving her in his house and then something worse happens....seeing as he can't control his hard on. Smh.

The lady on her own shouldn't have cursed him. She should have just left silently.
Afterall, she came to visit, and he, the host, wasn't enjoying her company anymore.


Were it not for the general selfish nature of humans who are always thinking of what they stand to gain, it's very easy to get a babe laid...especially those who put up so much resistance.
I won't be speaking more on that though.

Manipulators and Perverts Everywhere

Vinshu:

Shut up. What happened to self-control?
Nonsense

IamLEGEND1:

shutchyo mouth hoe

what happened to setting boundaries?

ídiot.

peeparty:


Even me self I was expecting her to call him a pervert like othas..but I sure know she finks through issue and weigh them before making her point known...

I guess the op did his best to avoid the rape scenerio..

SeverusSnape:
You shouldn't have sent her away, Bros, Don't you have self control??...Can't you spend the night with a lady without having sex?...

peeparty:


So who do we blame on this issue.....the op or the lady?

Look my dear.
There is no black and white here.

I am a lady.
If I happen to be with a guy I like and he gives me the impression that he is fvcking attracted to me but wouldn't wanna do anything that goes against my prerogative, and I, in my usual intuitive self feel he's being sincere....you can be sure that I will give that relationship my all...spirit, soul, and body.

Babes are wiser nowadays too.
Most of us who play dumb do so because we want to hitch a man by fire by force.

Her body is her property and just like he has confessed on this thread, it was clear, even to the girl that he didn't love her....that she allowed pre-intimacy was because she wanted to test/punish him.

So yes, it is his fault, or should I say, the fault of his third leg

tosyne2much:
Yeah that's true.. She's one of the ladies i respect so much

Very brilliant and insightful

peeparty:


So who do we blame on this issue.....the op or the lady?