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Nnemuka:
i need to borrow the words written in bold.....

otunsman:
A girl told me that number 9 when I won yansh her.My joystick just went flaccid and refused to rise.She rubbed and sucked for where,the the thing no respond.

emusmith:

Sarcastic Things Never To Say To You Partner Even In A Heated Argument

Sarcasm is simply saying things you don't really mean, in this case, due to your inability to manage your anger.


You think you love by hurting him or her with your words and expecting to be chased? Well, that's not true love.

Love is mostly seen in your words and actions, most at times when you're not conscious.

Someone once said, "You want to know a person's true character? Watch when they are very upset or very excited."

There are some words that I term, "cancerous". They need not be spoken because they are capable of tearing down a relationship of years.
What are some words you shouldn't use or say to your partner even in a heated situation.

1. You're so immature and inexperienced

Especially when you're older than him or her, it gives him the self-simpathy look At first, you accepted ... into your life not minding the age but now it has become a paradigm of judging their output and productivity. It's demoralizing and difficult to let go.

2. I really miss my ex

I know most girls do and say all kinds of "annoying" things just to provoke guys, yea! You mustn't insult him to get his attention. If you miss you ex, who cares? The door is wide open, you may leave. You're staying? Then quit acting immature giving your partner a ground to feeling they're not measuring up to the standard you've set in your mind. Grow up!


3. I guess I'll go hungry dating you

This is especially when she is having "offers" from other guys and she is beginning to doubt the sustainability of his guy's financial well. If you don't wanna date him because of your doubts in his financial capacity, simply walk out early! Not after "milking him dry", you then notice he can really really foot your bills or actually meet the demands of marriage.


4. One-minute man

As harsh as this sounds, some ladies use this term on their guys. I personally don't think any guy was born to be a "sixty seconds" guy. If it's an illness, go with him in search of a cure because you love him OR if you don't love him and detest the situation, find another excuse to tell him. It's derogatory as well as it is demeaning. Don't joke around using it.


5. Who paid your fees, for your hair, make-up, food etc?

No...you don't have to say all that to upset her/him. She already knows. Announcing it childishly incur disrespect and disregard on your person. Using such a line, you can lose her. As usual, it is demeaning for a joke.


Getting angry and almost wanting to use wrong choices of words on our partners is not a new temptation. However, we must count the pains it will cost that person and not the temporary feeling of hurt you feel.

Probably, you've been told some and terrible things have happened. You can share with us all.

emusmith:

Sarcastic Things Never To Say To You Partner Even In A Heated Argument

Sarcasm is simply saying things you don't really mean, in this case, due to your inability to manage your anger.


You think you love by hurting him or her with your words and expecting to be chased? Well, that's not true love.

Love is mostly seen in your words and actions, most at times when you're not conscious.

Someone once said, "You want to know a person's true character? Watch when they are very upset or very excited."

There are some words that I term, "cancerous". They need not be spoken because they are capable of tearing down a relationship of years.
What are some words you shouldn't use or say to your partner even in a heated situation.

1. You're so immature and inexperienced

Especially when you're older than him or her, it gives him the self-simpathy look At first, you accepted ... into your life not minding the age but now it has become a paradigm of judging their output and productivity. It's demoralizing and difficult to let go.

2. I really miss my ex

I know most girls do and say all kinds of "annoying" things just to provoke guys, yea! You mustn't insult him to get his attention. If you miss you ex, who cares? The door is wide open, you may leave. You're staying? Then quit acting immature giving your partner a ground to feeling they're not measuring up to the standard you've set in your mind. Grow up!


3. I guess I'll go hungry dating you

This is especially when she is having "offers" from other guys and she is beginning to doubt the sustainability of his guy's financial well. If you don't wanna date him because of your doubts in his financial capacity, simply walk out early! Not after "milking him dry", you then notice he can really really foot your bills or actually meet the demands of marriage.


4. One-minute man

As harsh as this sounds, some ladies use this term on their guys. I personally don't think any guy was born to be a "sixty seconds" guy. If it's an illness, go with him in search of a cure because you love him OR if you don't love him and detest the situation, find another excuse to tell him. It's derogatory as well as it is demeaning. Don't joke around using it.


5. Who paid your fees, for your hair, make-up, food etc?

No...you don't have to say all that to upset her/him. She already knows. Announcing it childishly incur disrespect and disregard on your person. Using such a line, you can lose her. As usual, it is demeaning for a joke.


Getting angry and almost wanting to use wrong choices of words on our partners is not a new temptation. However, we must count the pains it will cost that person and not the temporary feeling of hurt you feel.

Probably, you've been told some and terrible things have happened. You can share with us all.

chronique:
Noted but nobody plans to use these words intentionally. That is how one of my exes cooked food and didn't clean the head of fish properly,and served the fish for us to eat. When I found out,I lost interest in the food and as she tried hard to defend herself,I asked if that's how her mother prepares the food for her father...lol. She felt very bad and in all honesty,I wasn't happy after I said that too. I think it was just the anger at that moment.

The point is that,anger can sometimes make you say things that would make people feel very terrible,even when you never meant to make them feel bad.

butanep:
I won't agree with you. Most time anger brings out the words you have been hiding for long or wanted to say for a long time.

Anger hardly bring something new. It brings out what the heart & mind have saved for a long time.

You wanted to tell her such before and that was just a plan opportunity.

chronique:
Noted but nobody plans to use these words intentionally. That is how one of my exes cooked food and didn't clean the head of fish properly,and served the fish for us to eat. When I found out,I lost interest in the food and as she tried hard to defend herself,I asked if that's how her mother prepares the food for her father...lol. She felt very bad and in all honesty,I wasn't happy after I said that too. I think it was just the anger at that moment.

The point is that,anger can sometimes make you say things that would make people feel very terrible,even when you never meant to make them feel bad.

chronique:
Not true. Prior to that event,I never had cause to say anything of such or even think towards that direction. It was probably our second quarrel.

niyidenrele:
according to what I read in the book titled “THE ACTS OF SEDUCTION"....women plays more attraction to men ,thAt gives em ,the mixture of pain and pleasure ,e.g. ,A RAKE ,... or can u answer the reasons ,y ,women who are constantly being beaten by their husband ,will still prefer to remain faithful ,while those men ,that cares for their wives d most ,ended up being victims .......xo,to me ,all these ,dos and don't about relationships,is badadash........

An2elect2:
I have to be blunt, most of you males here on nairaland are not fit to be called men. You deserve to be disrespected and ignored. I wonder the kind of women who give you sadists the time of the day.

Bunch of entitled losers

toyosimi:
Some guys are so immature and unreasonable that they want no other thing apart from sex...is SEX food??..we can survive without it bt some people just make it the sole aim of their relationships....with what's goin on in modern days relationship,all wants sex bt if pple can just reason and let true love without sex prevail...relationships will last long and be fruitful......

Moral lesson:relationships without sex lasts longer and gives birth to true love......

DeltahArmy:
A lady was fighting with her husband, when people came to separate them, she started shouting " see this old man, with your old school prickk wey I dey manage". The man was seriously embarrassed.

danbrowndmf:
jesus!...
were you not the one i saw recently talking abour christ and his judgement?

sonofananimal:
shitt happens and she is in-between the SHIIT.

Don't worry! She will soon come out of that SHIIT

Magician1503:
Never tell a man he can't do nothing, you may get into a lot of trouble for saying that.











And don't reply his texts or chats with 'k'

Magician1503:
Never tell a man he can't do nothing, you may get into a lot of trouble for saying that.











And don't reply his texts or chats with 'k'

wristbangle:
A lot of people are returning from their cave. Nice writeup emusmith.

10. Your mates are making millions but u are chasing women

PrimeMinisterr:
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why not introduce him to one of 'em ?

Truckpusher:
Which evil ? It would serve as a deterrent next time.

You wash me publicly I wash you publicly with better hypo.

We both can go back with our shame.

Djtm:
Nobody here knows what sarcasm is. It's a pity.

chronique:
Noted but nobody plans to use these words intentionally. That is how one of my exes cooked food and didn't clean the head of fish properly,and served the fish for us to eat. When I found out,I lost interest in the food and as she tried hard to defend herself,I asked if that's how her mother prepares the food for her father...lol. She felt very bad and in all honesty,I wasn't happy after I said that too. I think it was just the anger at that moment.

The point is that,anger can sometimes make you say things that would make people feel very terrible,even when you never meant to make them feel bad.

sonofananimal:
lie! Reverse is the case. You WOMEN don't really know what you want.

liyahwillie:
U think so!!women are the best thing God created..I hope u know dat

sonofananimal:
U THINK SO!! MEN ARE THE BEST THING HE HAS EVER CREATED. HE JUST ONLY MODIFY YOU OUT OF OUR RIB And ADAM WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NAME YOU WOMAN

AND HE DIDN'T SAY “WOMAN! DO NOT EAT THIS FRUIT BUT RATHER SAID IT TO ADAM. EVEN WHEN EVE EAT THE FRUIT, NOTHING HAPPEN TO HER NOT ONLY WHEN ADAM EAT IT. THAT'S WHEN THE EFFECT TAKES PLACE.

SO THEREFORE! WOMEN WAS NOT THE BEST THING GOD CREATED BUT RATHER ONE OF HIS COLLECTION OF CREATION

wristbangle:
Bros Bros

liyahwillie:
U think so!!women are the best thing God created..I hope u know dat

An2elect2:
I have to be blunt, most of you males here on nairaland are not fit to be called men. You deserve to be disrespected and ignored. I wonder the kind of women who give you sadists the time of the day.

Bunch of entitled losers