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Most ladies when ripe for marriage unknowingly put off their suitors away by displaying some bad habits subconsciously making them feel later on that the reason they couldn't get married is as a result of the witches following her from the village when in truth, the problem lies with her. Let's see how we can get rid of those habits.

1) Stop Being A Flirt:
This not only sends a guy away from you but also sends signals that you can't be a faithful wife if indeed you both get married.
Most guys can't differentiate when you're just being nice around persons of the opposite sex and when you're actually a Flirt. Stop making him feel insecure and start making him feel secured.

2) Cutoff Links To Potential "Bad" Friends:
Just like the saying, "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are". Changing of your so called "Am happy for you friends" goes a long way in securing your relationship. Sometimes the problem isn't with the lady nor her spouse but with their friends. Sit down and have a good reassessment of the friends you keep. You don't want to have a snitch as a friend, do you?

3) Stop being extravagant with money:
Being rich and acting to be rich are two different things. Spending money too much and being extravagant is a big No No for most guys. It shows you don't have any idea on money saving and can't soak garri with your man when the finances are down(Am telling you, most men actually think about that)

4) Stop The Pride Show When You're Around His Parents;
Like seriously, you can't help out your mother in-law to be in the kitchen, nor help pack the dishes in after eating and you expect her to give her blessings to marry her son?. Don't be a joker. It wouldn't take you anything to be humble af when you're around his parents. The easiest way to win a man's heart is to win that of his parents first.

5) It's An Abomination To A Man To Say You Can't Cook:
Like WTF?? Don't tell me if we get to that bridge we'll cross it, hell no! Don't deceive yourself, like they say "Love fades but hunger doesn't". You know you can't cook? A part time catering school would do you great good.


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†ell dem yhur fell0w qirls.

FTC, space dedicated ²hmmm adeh39.!
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Stop drinking Orijin big bottle.

6- Stop having silly monikers


Who in God's name will take a girl seriously who calls herself 'Sugarbee, Punkyveer, Mzflexydeeva, EroticAngelina?


Monikers like 'DaughterofZion, ilovekids, Evangelistblessing, Adamsrib, iloveJesus are more appropriate for available spinsters

You don't need to tell them

dharay99:

hmmm cul...plz
†ell dem yhur fell0w qirls.

Chillext:
You don't need to tell them

Lol why not?

No 6 - stop doing too much shakara,

Nice one my dear OP. I love this piece.

Kachisbarbie:
No sensible lady should be involved in this, marriage in view or not.

Most ladies do it unknowingly.. It's kinda like a part of them that they don't even know if what they're doing is bad or not

Cc Lalasticlala

Who this list want help? No responsible lady will do such

Ladies,Stop asking For " Head " !!!

ClassCaptain:
Ladies,Stop asking For " Head " !!!

WTF?? Like seriously? Lol

dharay99:

hmmm cul...plz
†ell dem yhur fell0w qirls.

nigga when will you start typing/posting readable post? Some peeps like me can't see what you posted.

Nairaland and lists; I tire! Waiting patiently for a counter list .

Spot on

point 2 and 5 are priceless.

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Stop trying to apply "perfect" example to your life. Accept the man who found u and stop comparison.

6. Stop visiting Nairaland especially family section!

That flirting is a problem. Guys would be getting mixed signals, and that is annoying, especially if the lady is just doing it for fun, while the guy takes all serious.

I do them alot,so all these (nairaland) guys bogging me with marriage requests should let me be.

"I do them alot" simple means I am not ready to stop any of the above.

What's all these RUBBISH. ?

6, Stop avoiding Sunday Service (Church) the closer you are to God, the better for you and your relationship.